10 señales inequívocas de que se está enamorando de ti
Cuando conocemos a alguien nuevo y empezamos a encaminarnos hacia una relación o algo más a largo plazo, no hay mujer que no se pregunte si la quiere.
Throughout the relationship, we have so many questions that drift through around our mind, “¿Se está enamorando de mí? Is this real? Will he stay with me?”
To answer at least one of those questions, we gathered some surefire signs that he’s falling for you because actions tell so much more than words.
He can write you the sweetest poems, tell you the kindest compliments, but unless he shows it, it’s all just a game.
1. Quiere complacerte
He goes out of his way to please you and makes sure that you’re always happy. He takes care of your needs, brings you chocolate when you’re cranky and soup when you’re sick.
Se fija en las pequeñas cosas que te importan y se asegura de que lo primero que haga por la mañana sea sonreírte.
Even if he’s going home after a tiring day in an office, he will still be there in a matter of minutes when you call him.
2. Te escucha
Sientes que puedes hablar con él durante horas, revelarle tus mayores miedos y dolores sin sentirte incómoda. Recuerda las cosas que le has dicho y se preocupa de verdad por ellas.
Te sorprendes cuando recuerda cosas que habías olvidado contarle. Se preocupa por ti y por tu vida; quiere saber qué te ha hecho ser como eres hoy.
He wants to know how you feel, what you dream and what you want. You spend hours talking on the phone with each other and deep conversations at 3am are something you’re used to.
3. He’s making excuses to talk to you
He saw something that reminded him of you. He got a new idea for a date. He wanted to check on you; he ‘thought’ he saw you somewhere.
If you’re coworkers, he will find the excuse to come and stop by your desk to chat.
De repente tiene algún asunto importante en su planta, algún tema importante que tratar con los compañeros que le rodean.
He wants to talk to you, but he’s also afraid that he might be smothering. That’s why he’s looking for excuses to talk to you.
4. He’s eager to share his life with you
He introduces you to his friends and you actually feel accepted. You see that they respect you and don’t make stupid jokes around you or jokes about you.
Quiere que formes parte de su vida. Le habla de su pasado, sus recuerdos y sus esperanzas. Te habla de su trabajo y de cómo le ha ido el día.
Te presenta a los miembros de su familia porque quiere que vean lo increíble que eres. Quiere mostrarte a todo el mundo porque se siente orgulloso y bendecido de tenerte.
5. Te protege
He has the need to protect you. When you’re at the bar, he takes your hand and moves through the crowd first.
When you’re walking on the street, he is the one who is next to the car lane, mostly unconsciously because it feels right to him—he feels that you’re protected.
Cuando pisa el freno del coche, su mano ya está delante de ti, protegiéndote para que no te golpees la cabeza.
He has the need to protect you because it drives him crazy knowing that something might happen to you, so he’s doing everything in his power to stop that from happening.
6. Muestra iniciativa
Menciona los planes para las citas nocturnas. Piensa en viajes o vacaciones. Muestra iniciativa porque quiere pasar su tiempo libre contigo.
And possibly all of his time for the rest of his life, who knows? He’s always the first one to call and text—a morning without his message feels empty to you. He makes sure that you feel wanted.
7. Te dedica tiempo
You can’t remember that there was ever a time when he canceled a date with you to go with his friends. He makes sure that he has time for you whenever you need him.
Nunca te hace esperar ni te hace sentir ignorada. Quiere pasar tiempo de calidad contigo y despeja su agenda para hacerlo.
8. Hablar del futuro es algo natural
Todos hemos tenido ese tipo de relaciones en las que nos poníamos nerviosos al plantear planes de futuro o éramos nosotros los que huíamos de ellos.
But with him, speaking about the future comes naturally. You’re both looking for that getaway weekend, for that movie that’s coming out in a month and you already love it.
Le ilusiona el futuro contigo y puedes notar su entusiasmo en la forma en que se le ilumina la cara cuando habla de ello y en la forma en que te cuenta sus planes.
You can see that he took your needs and wishes into consideration while making them, and that’s what makes him a true keeper.
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9. Sólo tiene ojos para ti
You already feel like you’re the only woman in world and trusting him feels so easy. He has eyes only for you and the moment you enter the room, it’s like everything else disappears besides you.
Te sientes especial desde el primer momento en que te eligió y aún así se le ocurren nuevas formas de hacerte sentir aún más especial.
10. Puedes sentirlo
No importa lo que digan los otros signos, no importa lo que él diga, siempre se puede sentir cuando alguien se enamora.
It’s the way he looks at you, the way he touches you and moves that strayed lock of hair from your face.
It’s the way he kisses you, like it’s the last thing he will do. The way his face looks when he sees you, the way it lights up and turns into a smile instantly.
The way he makes you feel wanted, special and adored. You may already feel that he fell for you—you just weren’t sure if you read the signs right. Trust me, you did.
