10 señales inequívocas de que sigue enamorado de su ex
¿Se comporta de forma extraña últimamente? ¿Crees que el motivo podría ser que sigue enamorado de su ex?
One of the worst feelings in the world is suspecting the man you’re in love with might still be in love with someone else—his ex.
And if you feel that something’s not right in your relationship, chances are it’s the truth.
Aunque las mujeres tenemos la capacidad de saber intuitivamente cuando las cosas no son como deberían ser, todavía tendemos a pasar por alto algunas señales obvias o poner excusas for our man’s behavior.
A veces nos negamos a afrontar la verdad prolongando nuestras sospechas y no haciendo nada al respecto.
Delaying the inevitable has never brought anything good to anyone, so it’s time to take a deep breath and start investigating!
It’s time for you to pay attention to his actions that will tell you if he’s still in love with his ex (or rather not) and the following 10 signs will be your guide.
10 signs he’s still in love with his ex
Todo le recuerda a su ex
Hagan lo que hagan o hablen, siempre le recuerda a su ex.
Vais a tomar algo o a una cena romántica y, de algún modo, él siempre encuentra algo que le recuerda a ella (sin ni siquiera intentarlo).
Being constantly occupied with reminders of his ex means he’s unable to stop thinking about her and enjoy spending time with you instead.
He’s unable to let go of his past and enjoy the present with you because he still has feelings for her.
Le pone al día antes que a ti.
Su ex siempre es la primera en saber cosas de él porque lo comparte todo con ella antes que contigo.
She knows about his plans more than you and you can’t understand why he would do such a thing.
La razón principal por la que le pone constantemente al día de su vida es que aún se siente unido a ella.
Tiene un intenso deseo de compartir cosas con ella y pedirle su opinión porque aún se preocupa por ella.
La menciona mientras está intimando contigo
Una de las señales más evidentes de que sigue enamorado de su ex es si la menciona incluso cuando está intimando contigo.
If you two are making out and he’s talking about some kinky things he experienced with her or similar, it is a huge red flag that he’s still in love with her.
When you’re over someone, you don’t bother thinking about them that much, let alone mentioning their name when you’re about to have some sexy time with your partner.
La acosa en las redes sociales
Le gustan todas sus publicaciones, todas sus fotos en las redes sociales y chatea con ella a menudo.
Aunque es normal seguir siendo amigo de tu ex después de un rupturaacosarlas en las redes sociales y buscar constantemente excusas para enviarles mensajes de texto no es normal.
If he’s doing it, it means he’s desperately trying to win her attention because he is unable to focus on anything other than her.
Actúa raro cuando habla con ella
When he’s talking to his friends, he’s loud, he laughs and basically acts normally.
But when he’s talking to her (if they are still in contact), he starts acting weird immediately.
He changes the volume of his voice to ‘almost mute’ and makes sure to go to another room to talk to her quietly.
And after he’s finished, he becomes utterly distressed and confused.
He’s still in touch with her family members and friends
Mantenerse en contacto with your ex’s family and friends is actually a positive thing.
But if he’s trying hard to stay in touch with all of her family members and friends by constantly texting them and spending lots of time with them (more than he spends with you), chances are he’s still in love with his ex and he’s desperately trying to be a part of her life.
Los familiares y amigos de ella son sus principales fuentes a la hora de obtener información sobre su vida, sus gustos y las cosas que hace en general porque (obviamente) aún siente algo por ella.
The break-up wasn’t his choice
If the break-up wasn’t his choice, he might still be fighting hard to find closure.
Cuando la menciona todo el tiempo, se siente confuso al hablar por teléfono con ella o cosas similares, está pasando por una fase de arrepentimiento en la que se siente culpable por no haber hecho ciertas cosas.
He probably still thinks that had he done something differently, the break-up wouldn’t have occurred.
He’s constantly fighting his inner battles that are preventing him from seeing anything other than her.
Te compara con ella
He doesn’t compare you to her in an obvious manner. He does it more discreetly.
Por ejemplo, estáis comiendo pizza y viendo una película y, de repente, él te cuenta que su ex tiene su propia forma de comer pizza.
Lo hace porque inconscientemente echa de menos su personalidad y por eso compara todo lo que haces con ella.
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La odia.
Si te dice que la odia, no le creas. Odiar a alguien no es lo mismo que no importarle una mierda.
When you hate someone, you’re going through a whole different set of emotions that have nothing to do with real hate.
Hating means not being willing to accept something because it’s not the way you want it to be.
If he hates her, it means she’s still there in his heart and he hates the fact of not being able to erase her from his life or being able to be with her.
He calls you his ex’s name
Has he ever called you by his ex’s name? If yes, it’s not a big deal.
But is he constantly calling you by his ex’s name, making you think that he has amnesia or something?
If the answer is yes, he’s doing it because, again, she’s on his mind and no matter how hard he tried to think about something else, he simply fails every time.
