10 señales innegables de que tu hombre es un partidazo

Cuando nos enamoramos nos preguntamos si nuestro hombre es un buen partido o no, si va a jugar con nosotras o nos va a amar.

That’s the person we are going to give our heart to, the person we decided to let in.

Of course, we want to know if he’s worth it. So, the first thing we start looking for is usually those bad signs, like if he is going to cheat, if he is a narcissist or emotionally unavailable.

Pero a veces lo único que tenemos que hacer es mirar nuestra relación desde otro ángulo.

Take a step back and look at him like you’re looking at your best friend’s boyfriend and look for these undeniable and adorable signs that he’s a catch.

You’d be surprised how easy it is to see if he truly loves you and wants something real with you.

Tiene vida propia

While it can seem like this could be an issue, trust me, it’s more of a blessing than it is a curse. Yes, in the honeymoon phase we want to be together as much as possible but what happens once it is over?

He has no life of his own and when you’re ready to go ahead and enjoy yourself with your friends and family, he gets all grumpy and blue because of it.

Esto le lleva a volverse posesivo y a convertir vuestra relación en una relación enfermiza.

Elige a un hombre que sepa lo importante que es el tiempo a solas y que respete a tus amigos y a tu familia y tu necesidad de pasar tiempo con ellos.

Os reís juntos

Couples who laugh together stay together. And if he can make you laugh so hard that you can actually feel your abs forming, that’s a good sign that he is a keeper.

Verás, cuando la vida se pone dura necesitas a alguien que pueda dibujar esa sonrisa en tu cara y necesitas a alguien que también sepa cuándo necesitas reír y cuándo necesitas simplemente sentarte en silencio.

If he already passed that test, it means that he cares madly about you and he’s a man worth giving your heart to.

Nunca guarda rencor y está dispuesto a debatir abiertamente.

No sabes lo afortunada que eres si éste es su caso. Salí con tantos hombres en los que tuve que usar cada gramo de mi fuerza y voluntad sólo para conseguir una sola frase en la que admitieran que había un problema.

Los hombres que evitan el tema de afrontar los problemas pero no tienen ningún problema en restregártelos por la nariz después son la peor clase de hombres. Créeme.

Si tu hombre es maduro suficiente para sentarse a discutir el problema, encontrar una solución junto contigo y dejar que el problema se vaya una vez resuelto, eres una mujer muy afortunada.

Ama a tus amigos y a tu familia

He remembers your mom’s birthday and buys game tickets for your dad. And he loves your friends and has no problem with spending time with them, because they are all part of his life now.

He was ready to let them in as well when he let you in, and that’s what love is about. When we choose to love someone, we choose to love their people too.

We’re combining two lives and creating one out of them, and it takes a lot of compromising and love on both sides. And well, those are the things he never lacks.

Las discusiones nunca se convierten en gritos interminables

Aunque hay hombres que ignoran por completo los problemas, también los hay que no son capaces de asumir la culpa cuando ocurre algo.

Any attempt of discussion and problem-solving turns into screaming and yelling with no solution and no calm after the storm. If he’s not in either one of those groups, congratulations, he’s a catch!

Se incluyen mutuamente en la toma de decisiones

It’s a sign that he respects your opinion and wants to be serious with you. That’s the reason he always asks for your advice and opinion when there’s a decision to be made.

Si le incluyes a él también, ya tenéis esa relación de premio gordo.

You’re not selfish and you make each other una prioridad, and in a world full of last resorts and second choices, that’s incredibly rare.

Su relación avanza

And not just because of your efforts and because you’re the one giving parts of yourself to make it work. Real love is not easy and it takes work but it’s much easier when you’re working and fighting together.

If he’s putting in as much as effort as you are and has no problem with compromising, then he’s the one. A man who is not afraid to put aside his needs when love requires him to do so is a real man.

You support each other, you’re both each other’s biggest fan and that’s what love is truly about—to have someone who will have your back and carry you forward when your legs no longer can.

Te anima a ser tu mejor yo

Even if it means that you won’t be seeing him that much, he simply doesn’t want you to put your life on hold just because you’re with him.

Te quiere de cualquier manera y está dispuesto a esperarte. Y no hay mejor historia romántica que aquella en la que hay apoyo y fe en una relación.

He’s your best friend, lover and biggest fan, all in one. And he’s one hell of a catch!

Te respeta

El respeto y la lealtad son increíblemente importantes y fundamentales en toda relación. Si no hay respeto ni confianza, no hay futuro.

Pero si respeta tus necesidades, deseos y sueños, si respeta tu valía y tu pasado, nunca make you feel like you’re not good enough.

He will never leave you alone to wonder if he’s with someone else. And he will never belittle your success and efforts just because he needs to feel better about himself.

Eres realmente feliz

That’s not something you can fake and you know it. But if he’s the reason why you have no problem getting up in the morning, because you know that you will see him that day and it feels like there are millions of those damn butterflies in your belly, you are happy.

If he never lets you go to bed wondering if you’re not enough, wondering if there’s something wrong, you’re happy.

Y si puedes imaginarte estar a su lado el resto de tu vida, y eso te emociona y te aterroriza al mismo tiempo, es que eres feliz.

Porque el amor es aterrador, pero con la persona adecuada también es emocionante.