10 señales reveladoras de que sigue queriendo a su mamá

Cuando dos personas tienen un hijo pero deciden divorciarse, eso no significa que puedan dejar de criarlo sin más.

Tienen que trabajar en equipo para criar a su hijo en condiciones saludables.

La situación se complica un poco más cuando uno de los padres encuentra otra pareja.

¿Hay alguna posibilidad de que todos ellos vivan felices para siempre? ¿Qué tipo de cosas tienen que resolver para que todo funcione bien?

Hay parejas que consiguen hacer una buena vida para sus nuevas parejas y las antiguas.

But on the other hand, there are those who still feel something for their baby’s mama.

If you are in a situation like this and you somehow feel that something is not right, check these signs and find out once and for all if he still loves his baby’s mama. No problem, you will thank me later!

Habla de ella todo el tiempo

Lo cierto es que la gente habla de las cosas que le pasan por la cabeza. Si tu novio no para de hablar de su ex y de sus problemas, esto es una bandera roja que algo no va bien.

Quiero decir, vosotros dos sois pareja, y él debería hablar de vuestra vida y vuestros planes.

His ex doesn’t have anything to do with you. If he still can’t understand that, it is time to sit and talk to him openly.

Créeme, es mejor enterarse antes de que pasa una mierda, que esperar a que te cases y luego arruinar todo lo que tienes.

Es su mejor amigo

I know they have a child together, and I know that he will be there for her because of the child, but that doesn’t mean he has to go to her house every day and comfort her because she has problems.

That is just a sign of disrespecting you. And a woman shouldn’t let a man treat her like this. If he loves you, he should be there for you.

Tienes que preguntarle si eres su prioridad o sólo una opción. Necesita poner algunas reglas para que todo funcione.

Si quiere, puede ser un buen padre y un marido perfecto para ti. La cuestión es si está preparado para ello.

Sigue siendo parte de su familia

The fact is that he can’t be a part of your family and a part of his ex’s family. That simply doesn’t go together.

Can he just put himself in your shoes and try to understand what you feel like about that? Spending weekends at his ex’s house is not an option.

But if he doesn’t feel comfortable doing that, it is a sign that he still loves his baby’s mama.

And no, you don’t have anything to do in that relationship anymore. At least, you will know that you are saved from a potential disaster.

Cuando ella llama, él sale de la habitación

This is a huge red flag—you can be positive that your man is doing something behind your back.

Why would he leave the room when he talks with her anyway? It is because he wants to talk to her in a way that she likes, and he doesn’t want you to know that.

There is something that he doesn’t want you to hear. And that something is definitely not good for your relationship.

Si alguna vez pillas a tu hombre haciendo esto, dile que lo que hace no está bien.

Tell him that it is not fair to you for him to act that way. If he can’t understand this, then the two of you weren’t meant to be.

Y menos mal que lo descubriste a tiempo. Más vale tarde que nunca!

Your opinion doesn’t matter

If he fights with you every time you mention his relationship with his baby’s mama, there is a problem.

You don’t feel good because you can’t talk to him openly, and he doesn’t feel good because you feel that something is wrong.

He is currently between two women, and he doesn’t know which one to choose. Trust me, his indecision is a decision.

Si te quisiera, nunca pensaría en su ex. Esta es una señal más de que tienes que dejarle cuanto antes.

Baby mama is rude to you

She wouldn’t feel this way if she still didn’t have feelings for him. On the other hand, he is the one who needs to take your side if she is badmouthing you. You are his girlfriend, and there is a reason why she is an ex.

A man who is not capable of doing this still hasn’t gotten over his baby’s mama, and darling, you don’t deserve that kind of a relationship.

Maybe your Mr. Right is waiting just around the corner, but you are preoccupied with your problems, and you can’t see him.

Life is long and you will meet your soulmate—and your current date is definitely not that man!

He doesn’t want you near her

Have you ever had a situation when he would go to her house to drop off their child, and you weren’t allowed to go with him?

If he does this, it means that he is hiding something. He can probably feel that his ex is still hot for him, and he doesn’t want you to know that.

Please, don’t buy his shit that he wants you to stay home, so you could relax after exhausting day.

Simplemente tiene sus tácticas y esta es una de ellas. Lo que tiene que hacer es hacerle saber que eres la mujer que ama y que lo que tenían ya es pasado. Espero que por fin se dé cuenta.

Se preocupa por su cita

When a new man comes into her life, he gets a panic attack! Is this normal? I don’t think so.

This is an obvious sign that he still loves his baby mama and that he can’t imagine his life without her.

You shouldn’t accept this kind of thing because you deserve the best.

You don’t deserve an almost relationship, and he can’t provide you anything more than that! I guess you know what your next step should be, right?

Guarda sus cosas

When two people break up, the first thing they do is clean their home from their ex’s things.

If you catch your guy staring at a photo of his ex, this is an undeniable sign that he isn’t over her yet. And he needs to get his shit together if he wants to stay with you.

This kind of behavior is unacceptable, and you don’t deserve for him to do things like this, especially if he says that he loves you.

Deberías quemar los puentes entre los dos y encontrar a un chico que sea realmente feliz porque te tiene como parte de su vida.

Sientes que algo va mal

Cuando una mujer siente que algo va mal, en la mayoría de los casos es cierto.

Our sixth sense has never let us down, so if you don’t feel comfortable when being with him or he is just distracted when spending time with you, it is a sign that he still loves his baby mama.

And, darling you can’t do anything about it. So, leave him and find your happiness in a different place. That is the best decision you can ever make!

In the end, I just want to say that a divorce can happen to any of us—but we are the ones that will decide how our lives will look like after.

Debes respetar a tu pareja no involucrando a tu ex en tu relación de forma negativa.

Respeta a la madre de tu hijo, pero respeta también a tu nueva pareja, que te ha aceptado con todos tus defectos.

Bear in mind that lasting relationships are based on love and respect just like on understanding and connection—you already have all the ingredients for a happy life—so it’s up to you if you will make a masterpiece!