25 señales evidentes de atracción física entre dos personas
La mayoría de los signos de atracción física entre dos personas son inconscientes, lo que significa que su cuerpo está al mando.
We can be attracted to other people without a single word being said. It’s a reaction between the chemistry of two bodies and, well, there’s nothing we can do to hide it.
Comprender las formas atracción física works, all it takes is a little bit of intuition and knowing how people react when they’re next to someone they’re attracted to.
¿Cómo identificar la atracción entre dos personas?
Coqueteo, química, contacto visual intensoLa tensión sexual y las caricias sutiles son signos inequívocos de atracción entre dos personas.
However, not everyone reacts the same way when they’re next to someone they find attractive, so there is no easy formula to know if the other person is drawn to you.
Pero se necesita un poco de tiempo y observarles para saber con certeza si existe una fuerte química entre los dos.
Recuerde que casi el 90 por ciento de la comunicación se basa en lenguaje corporal y pequeñas muestras de afecto.
While words can be deceiving, the body never lies. No one can control if they’re going to be nervous next to you, if their palms will sweat or their voice will be higher.
Para que te resulte más fácil ver cuáles son los signos de atracción física entre dos personas, hemos reunido los más comunes y evidentes.
Todo lo que tienes que hacer ahora es prestar mucha atención a su comportamiento.
Señales inequívocas de atracción física entre dos personas
Sonriendo todo el tiempo
It’s impossible to contain your smile when you’re with someone who’s attractive to you. It just feels good to be around them.
If you notice someone looking at you with a silly grin on their face, that’s a strong sign that they’re atraído por ti. It’s also one of the señales de química en una primera cita.
We have all experienced the feeling of grinning without any particular reason—it’s not something we do consciously, we just can’t help it.
Even though we look like complete idiots (most of the time), we can’t stop smiling around the person we find attractive. Obviously, we’re on cloud nine and we’re so excited about what will happen next.
So, don’t forget to pay attention to the way the other person looks at you because it will tell you much more than their words do.
Tocar
Este es uno de los signos evidentes de física atracción entre dos personas. Buscarán cualquier excusa para tocarse, por leve que sea.
Puede ser una palmadita en el hombro o en la espalda o algo más obvio como besos y abrazos.
El contacto piel con piel activa los receptores de dopamina de nuestro cerebro. La dopamina se conoce como una sustancia química feliz producida por el cerebro porque libera sentimientos de felicidad o euforia.
Physical contact can also happen more subtly if they’re still getting to know each other, but it will still be more frequent than it is with other people.
Esto es especialmente obvio si sabes que esa persona no es alguien que suela tocar a los demás. Aun así, hay personas que tienen que tocarte, sea cual sea el estado de vuestra relación.
Palmas sudorosas
Our body’s reaction to nervous situations is sweating. And is there any greater reason to be nervous than when sitting next to someone we find attractive?
Si notas que te sudan las palmas de las manos cuando estás cerca de una persona especial, pregúntate a qué se debe.
Is it because you’re strongly attracted to them and you don’t know how to behave around them? Do you feel like you want to conecte con ellos on so many levels but you’re not sure that you’re on the same page?
If you notice a certain person who has sweaty palms around you, pay attention to his behavior. Sooner or later, you’ll be sure if he’s attracted to you by looking for these signs.
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Parecen nerviosos
When they seem nervous and keep on fidgeting, that’s a clear sign they’re attracted to you.
When we’re around alguien que nos resulta atractivoalguien que nos importa de cierta manera, podemos sentirnos inseguros y menos seguros de nosotros mismos.
Así que seguimos jugueteando con los dedos, pasándonos las manos por el pelo y ajustándonos la ropa todo el tiempo.
For example, women will play with their hair, while men will play with their clothes or cellphone. I know for a fact that every time I’m nervous, I start playing with my curls and I’m not even aware of that.
So, pay close attention to what your body’s telling you because it usually knows your heart’s desires before you do.
Lamiéndose los labios
¿Recuerdas esas escenas de películas en las que normalmente una chica se relame seductoramente los labios mientras está sentada en la barra y mira a ese único hombre guapo que tiene cerca?
Cada vez que veo escenas parecidas, empiezo a sentirme incómodo porque sus atracción física parece tan real.
Well, if you catch them licking their lips while they’re looking at you, that could be a sign that they’re thinking about using them on you.
Or they will keep touching and playing with them because they unconsciously manifest where and how they want to be touched. And you’re the one who triggers those needs in them.
Rubor y timidez
This one is more common for women, but if there is a huge change of behavior regardless of whether it’s a man or a woman, that’s a sign.
Incluso el el más duro de los jugadores can be swept off of their feet when they approach someone they’re highly attracted to.
Se sonrojará, tartamudeará y de repente se mostrará tímido o extremadamente confiado delante de una mujer, sólo para impresionarla.
And when it comes to a woman, blushing is a natural body reaction that happens when they’re with someone they’re attracted to. Blood rushes to their face, making them blush and thus more attractive.
Arreglar su aspecto
If they are constantly trying to fix their appearance, whether it’s their clothes, hair, or make-up, that is a sign they want to look their best for you, even if it’s unconsciously.
And if there is something that won’t just stay in place, for example, a strand of hair, they will soon get frustrated because they are failing at looking perfect for you.
This is so TRUE because it happened to me multiple times. My hair is usually all over the place because it’s curly and voluminous but that doesn’t bother me until I’m next to someone I find attractive.
All of a sudden, every single thing on me starts bothering me. Fixing my appearance turns into a severe OCD within seconds but I guess there’s nothing I can do about it.
Even though I don’t like experiencing this myself, to be honest, that is the most adorable thing I see in other people.
Compartir un silencio confortable
People with whom you can share comfortable silences are the people you want to keep around. Whether they’re friends or soon-to-be lovers, those people are truly precious.
Todos hemos tenido ese tipo de citas en las que el silencio incómodo te devora, te pone aún más nervioso de lo que ya estás y acaba arruinando el ambiente por completo.
But people who are mutually attracted have no problem in sharing silence, because they enjoy each other’s company already. This is one of the biggest signs of unspoken mutual attraction.
If there are no thoughts rushing through your mind when silence comes up, but instead there’s this calm feeling of hacerse entender sin necesidad de palabras, they’re the one you should choose.
Bromas
People who are attracted to each other have their own way of communication. It’s not something they intentionally do, it’s just them sharing something they can’t share with others.
Se toman el pelo unos a otros sobre cosas que sólo ellos conocen, y todas las bromas suelen basarse en chistes internos. Sin duda, burlas es uno de los mayores signos de atracción física entre dos personas.
It’s their way of showing everyone that they are sort of an item and making sure that they have each other’s complete attention.
Susurrando
If he’s lowering his voice when he’s talking to you, it’s because he’s trying to make it more intimate between you two.
That way you will lean closer to him to hear what he’s saying thus making it easier for him to maybe lean in for a kiss or enjoy your presence.
Las parejas que se sienten atraídas siempre se inclinarán más que las que no.
If you’re wondering why that happens, it’s simply because they gravitate toward each other and share more of an química íntima vínculo que con el resto de la gente.
Intentando hacer reír al otro
If he’s going out of his way or making a fool out of himself just to see you smile, that’s a sign of attraction.
He’s trying to impresionartepara que quieras pasar más tiempo con él. Y otra razón importante es que honestamente disfruta cuando sonríes por él.
Verte reír e intentar recuperar el aliento por un chiste que dijo le pone más que cualquier droga.
Personalmente, creo que el aspecto de la risa es uno de los indicadores más importantes de una fuerte atracción entre dos personas (ya sea emocional o física). De hecho, el sentido del humor funciona como una herramienta que potencia la atracción.
There’s a reason they say that couples who laugh together, stay together.
Reflejar sus movimientos
If you noticed that they’re trying to mimic any of your expressions and movements, that’s a signo inequívoco they’re attracted to you.
They say that couples with great chemistry are like a mirrored version of each other, and that’s basically true.
That’s not something they’re doing on purpose, it’s their body’s way of trying to be like you because they want to be with you.
If you’re leaning, they will lean too, if you cross your arms, they will cross them too. The last time I was on a date with a guy, I noticed that every time I touched my forehead, he would do the same. Or every time I would start drinking, he would do the same.
Unos días después, le dije que sabía que se sentía atraído por mí desde el primera cita because he was mirroring all of my movements. We’re still dating and I think this mirroring will continue happening for some time in the future.
So, if you’re not sure if they’re attracted to you, pay close attention to their movements.
Tratando de impresionar a los demás
Dirás que esto es bastante obvio, pero hay personas que siempre intentan impresionar a todos los que les rodean.
Como los jugadores que están entrenados para impresionar a todas las mujeres en el camino y narcisistas que intentan manipularte para que les quieras, para tener a alguien que les alabe aparte de ellos mismos.
But if you notice that he’s trying to impress you in ways other than just for you to admire his body or career success, that’s one of the signs he’s quite serious about you.
Si le has dicho lo mucho que te gustan los pandas y la próxima vez que le veas se acuerda de ello y de hecho ha investigado sobre ellos, eso significa que te escucha y se preocupa por tus pasiones.
If you mentioned how much you’re looking forward to the new Marvel movie and he bought you tickets for it, do I need to say more? Marry that one!
Fase de luna de miel
Esto va por las parejas que llevan más tiempo en una relación.
If you notice that they’re still very affectionate with each other, that means that there is still a fuerte atracción física en su relación.
No matter how long they’ve been dating, she still looks at him like he’s the only man alive and he has the most genuine look of awe on his face when she enters the room.
Como con Blake Lively y Ryan Reynolds; lograron prolongar su fase de luna de miel y consiguió lo mejor de ambos mundos.
Their passion is the same as the first time they met, but it’s accompanied by love, understanding, and an conexión emocional. If that’s not relationship goals, I don’t know what is.
No prestar atención a los demás
Couples who are deeply attracted to each other have a habit of shutting down the rest of the world. If there’s a group of people around them, they will most likely ignore them.
This is specifically obvious if they just met and they don’t seem to notice anyone around them. They’re just trying to understand what’s happening and why it just feels so good to be next to the other one.
Sí, no prestar atención a otras personas es uno de los signos más fuertes de atracción física entre dos personas.
This kind of attraction and connection is honestly the best one to look for because couples who are genuinely in love with each other will never look around for some side action. And if you ask me, there’s nothing sexier than lealtad.
You can’t pull away
When there’s great chemistry between two people, they are unable to pull away from each other. It’s sort of a drug, really.
You enjoy each other’s company, it feels right to be next to them and they basically feel like a part of you.
Once you’re separated, parece que falta algoasí que intentas aprovechar al máximo el tiempo que tenéis. Intentas robarles todo el tiempo posible, solo para estar con ellos un poco más.
That’s why couples who just entered a relationship spend so much time together— they’re just addicted to each other and the feeling they get when they’re together.
Señales del lenguaje corporal
Cuando nos sentimos atraídos por alguien y nuestra química coincide, nuestro lenguaje corporal cambia para llamar su atención y hacernos más atractivos.
La mayoría de estas acciones son algo que hacemos inconscientemente, la forma en que nuestro cuerpo reacciona al sentirse atraído por alguien.
Dado que gran parte de la comunicación se basa en el lenguaje corporal y la poca muestras de afecto that we show each other, it’s important to pay attention to someone’s behavior around us.
Words are important as well, but they mean nothing if actions can’t follow them. They can promise you the sun and the stars, but can still have difficulties proving it to you.
Confía en tus instintos y presta atención a su lenguaje corporal, que se manifiesta de forma diferente en hombres y mujeres.
Lenguaje corporal masculino
Lenguaje corporal masculino is a lot simpler than women’s. When they’re with someone they’re attracted to, their pulse is faster, while their breathing and blood flow are increased.
All of this leads him to acquire a certain level of nervousness because he’s trying his best to impress you.
Presta atención a sus palmas y a la forma en que te mira. Mantendrá contacto visual intenso, bite his lips and keep his legs wide open. It’s his body’s way of inviting you closer to him.
También hará todo lo posible por parecer más fuerte, más hábil y más impresionante de lo que es.
He might stutter while doing so, but it’s all because of you and your chemistry that attracted him so madly.
Lenguaje corporal femenino
Female body language is a little bit more obvious because we blush. A lot. We giggle when we’re nervous, play with our hair, and keep on crossing our legs all the time.
Hacemos una serie de pequeñas acciones sólo para mantener su atención y concentración en nosotros.
We also blink faster and our voice is higher when we’re talking to someone we are attracted to. All of the men who say we are complicated are simply not paying attention.
We are like open books when we’re attracted to someone and there’s nothing we can do about it. Seriously guys, just open your eyes for a change.
Contacto visual intenso
El contacto visual intenso es tanto un indicador de amor romántico como de pura lujuria, pero una cosa es segura: El contacto visual prolongado es siempre igual de poderoso.
As a hopeless romantic, I can’t imagine a amar la vida sin contacto visual profundo que literalmente congela la sangre dentro de tu cuerpo y obliga a tu corazón a bombear con más fuerza.
If you feel like you can’t stop looking them into the eye when you’re with them (and vice versa), then you know this is an indicator of strong mutual attraction.
When you look each other in the eye, you can feel the nervousness becoming more and more intense. It’s when you try to tell them with your eyes what you would do to them when the time comes and how you feel about them.
Lo mejor del contacto visual prolongado es que se puede decir mucho con los ojos sin pronunciar una sola palabra.
La producción de feromonas
Como puedes ver, se trata de un signo científico que indica una fuerte atracción entre dos personas. Si la química entre dos personas es fuerte, sus cuerpos producirán una sustancia química llamada feromonas.
Esta sustancia química es responsable de la deseo sexual y la atracción que dos personas sienten la una por la otra. A decir verdad, no se puede ver cuando estas feromonas comienzan a actuar, pero se puede sentir.
Once the attraction is created, lots of changes happen in your body and mind. Some of them are not so noticeable while others can’t be missed.
Un ligero aumento de los latidos del corazón
¿Cómo saber si existe una fuerte atracción física entre dos personas? Basta con que prestes atención a sus latidos (o a los tuyos).
If you notice a slight increase in your heartbeat, it’s one of the telltale signs that you’re attracted to that person.
Every time this happens to me, I immediately start thinking that it’s my ansiedad diciéndome Hola porque solía tener problemas con mi salud mental.
It took me a long time to realize that an accelerated heartbeat is my body telling me that I’m totally smitten by the person next to me.
When two people are attracted to each other, they create a unique melody and their heartbeat is like the rhythm of their attraction. It’s your body’s way of telling you that you’re TOTALLY crazy about each other.
Fuerte química
¿Sabía que la atracción sexual está estrechamente relacionada con una fuerte química romántica? Estos dos términos suelen estar entrelazados.
De hecho, la química va unida a un montón de cosas, desde el amor hasta la encaprichamiento and strong sexual desire. It’s like a tool that joins all these elements together.
Los signos de química entre dos personas incluyen mucho contacto visual, caricias sutiles, risas, un ligero aumento de los latidos del corazón, bromas, disfrutar de un silencio confortable, lo que se te ocurra.
Todas estas pequeñas cosas se convierten en algo GRANDE llamado atracción intensa entre dos personas. Esta atracción intensa consiste tanto en química romántica como en atracción física.
It’s when you feel like staring at the ceiling with them is something you could do for an eternity without getting bored. Do you know why? Because the intense chemistry you two share makes even the most boring things EXCITING.
Estar TOTALMENTE centrados los unos en los otros
¿Te invitas libremente a entrar en su espacio personal (y viceversa)? ¿Estáis totalmente centrados el uno en el otro?
Interpersonal attraction is based on having a strong desire to be as close as you can next to someone you’re attracted to.
Observa sus signos del lenguaje corporal, you pay attention to every single word that is coming out of their mouth. You feel like you’re on a desert island even though there are plenty of people around you.
You’re so focused on each other that even if an apocalypse happened, you wouldn’t notice it. These lines from Ed Sheeran’s beautiful song Tenerife Sea explain the scene perfectly:
“You look so wonderful in your dress
Me encanta tu pelo así
La forma en que cae en el lado de su cuello
Por los hombros y la espalda
Estamos rodeados de todas estas mentiras
Y la gente que habla demasiado
Tienes esa mirada
As if no one knows anything but us…”
If you have the same kind of look in your eyes and you feel like no one knows anything but you, then you know you’re deeply attracted to each other.
Anticipación
Many relationship experts claim that strong physical attraction is created by anticipation and I can confirm that they’re totally right about it. Anticipation is an atracción disfrazado.
Imagine that you’re at dinner with someone you’re strongly attracted to. Every sound of silence will be like music to your ears and with every word, anticipation becomes more and more unbearable.
When you observe them, their every move looks like it’s in slow motion. You can’t wait to touch their hand and connect with them both physically and mentally.
You feel like only one touch of their random body part would drive you completely crazy. Your lips are begging you for mercy because they can’t bear this level of anticipation.
Si todas estas cosas resuenan en ti, entonces sabes que existe una fuerte atracción física entre los dos.
Perder la noción del tiempo
Whenever you feel like you’ve lost track of time, this is a good sign. It happened to me a lot of times so far but not with everyone.
I’ve noticed that this doesn’t happen only in real life but on social media as well.
Whenever I text someone to whom I’m strongly attracted, I lose track of time. So, instead of sleeping, I find myself texting them the whole night because of strong química textual.
Perder la noción del tiempo también es una señal clara de compatibilidad entre dos personas. It’s when you have so much to share with them that you simply forget about time.
Cada hora que pasas con esa persona parece un segundo, porque su presencia te emociona y te produce placer de muchas maneras.
Darse cuenta de las pequeñas cosas
Have you noticed that there is a lot of complimenting between you two? Do you feel like you can’t help yourself but compliment every single thing on the other person you’re attracted to? Do they feel the same way about you?
Obviously, if you feel the need to notice small things about them and compliment their outfit, hairstyle, and so on, it’s for a reason. You feel a strong attraction toward them and your body is forcing you to express it through words.
This is a good thing (especially in relationships). So, here’s one of the best relationship advice: Nunca subestimes el poder de pequeñas cosas.
¿Pueden los demás ver la química entre dos personas?
Sí, otras personas pueden notar si hay una fuerte química entre dos personas. Yo también lo he notado muchas veces. La química es una de las fuerzas más poderosas, lo que significa que no se puede ocultar. ¿Por qué?
Because when two people are strongly attracted to each other, they can’t help themselves but show it in various ways from intense eye contact to subtle touches.
The main indicator of strong chemistry is the magnetic energy that they exude when they’re together. So, yes, other people can feel this energy as well.
Para terminar
Signos físicos atracción entre dos personas a veces pueden ser confusas y usted podría malinterpretarlas.
If a guy or a girl is acting nervous, you might think that something else is bothering them when in reality, they can’t handle the intense attraction they feel for you.
A veces, estos signos de atracción serán obvios, mientras que otras veces tendrás que jugar un poco a los detectives.
Sin embargo, si existe una atracción intensa entre los dos, recuerda que no se puede ocultar (a largo plazo). Confíe en su intuición y ¡buen provecho!
