20 señales de advertencia de que su mujer le engaña

If you’re looking for signs your mi mujer me engaña on you, it means that you already suspect that this might be the case because, otherwise, you wouldn’t be here in the first place.

I’m sorry to tell you that sometimes your gut speaks the truth without evidence, but still you hope that you are wrong about it (just like every guy out there).

But, today you are here because you have probably decided that it’s time to reveal the truth and get rid of all of your suspicions in order to regain your inner peace.

¡Y has hecho lo correcto!

Aunque yo mismo soy de tu sexo opuesto, me parece necesario compartir contigo el hecho de que el número de mujeres que han denunciado ser engañar a sus parejas ha aumentado un 40% desde 1990, según Esther Perel (psicoterapeuta, experta en relaciones y New York Times autor de bestsellers).

Even the most ingenious women don’t have the power of hiding their sinful actions eternally.

If their words don’t give them away, their subconscious will do it for sure!

Supongo que ha llegado el momento en que las mujeres son iguales a los hombres en todos los aspectos, lo que incluye también el engaño.

La verdad es que las mujeres también son realmente buenas ocultando pistas y señales de su infidelidad (incluso mejor que la mayoría de los hombres) y por eso es tan difícil saber a ciencia cierta si es culpable de engaño.

But, don’t worry. Even the most ingenious women (ingenious at cheating) don’t have the power of hiding their sinful actions eternally.

If their words don’t give them away, their subconscious will do it for sure!

Así que lo que tienes que hacer es prestar atención a sus acciones y buscar las señales sutiles de su posible infidelidad.

Don’t fret; you will not have to spend 12 hours in libraries or 6 hours surfing on the Internet in order to find everything you need.

Las siguientes 20 señales cubrirán todos los aspectos de su vida (y más) y al final de su lectura, ¡estarás cien por cien seguro de si tu mujer te engaña o no!

20 SEÑALES DE ADVERTENCIA DE QUE TU MUJER TE ENGAÑA

1. Accidentalmente te sigue llamando por otro nombre

All this time she didn’t have problems memorizing your name, but lately she started (accidentally) calling you by another name.

If it happens once, she probably did it by mistake, but if she keeps calling you by some other dude’s name (especially in the bedroom), she might be guilty of cheating on you.

People do this because they subconsciously think about that person all the time and they can’t control when they will say the name of their secret lover in front of you.

When a Freudian slip like this occurs, they laugh it off, pretending that they did it accidentally, even though they are full aware that there’s a valid reason behind it.

2. She doesn’t post pictures of you anymore

Ella solía publicar toneladas de fotos de ustedes dos juntos en redes sociales, and now you can’t remember the last time she did it.

If she keeps posting pictures of herself (especially in semi-provocative poses), then she’s definitely not bored with social media.

La razón por la que ya no quiere que la vean contigo en las fotos de las redes sociales podría ser porque quiere parecer soltera para poder seguir haciendo cosas a tus espaldas.

She also doesn’t want anyone to recognize her as a cheater (if they are not familiar with her real status) because I believe there are still some guys out there who really do mind whether she’s already in a relationship or single.

3. Su teléfono está siempre en silencio

Her phone is somehow magically always on silent and she never answers her phone on time when you’re calling her.

Además, rara vez se oye que alguien la llama (porque su teléfono está en silencio) y se nota que she’s been texting someone todo el tiempo, aunque no oigas ninguna notificación.

Obviously, she keeps her phone forever on silent because she’s afraid that you might ask her with whom she’s been texting all the time and she certainly doesn’t want to reveal her cheating nature.

She wants you to think that she’s all of a sudden antisocial and forgetful about turning on her mobile phone’s sound.

4. She no longer calls you “honey” or “babe”

You can’t remember the last time you heard her llamándote por algunos nombres cariñosos like “honey,” “babe,” “sweetheart,” or your special nickname.

She calls you specifically by your name or by some generic attention-grabber like “Hey…” or similar.

The reason why she no longer calls you by sweet names might be because she’s no longer interested in you romantically.

Te ve más como un amigo que como un amante/novio y por eso ya no puede llamarte por otros nombres que no sean intencionadamente platónicos.

Si notas este cambio en vuestra relación, pregúntale por qué ya no te llama por nombres concretos como antes.

If she starts stuttering when trying to answer your question, then you can be sure there’s something fishy going on.

5. She’s constantly staying late at work

Work, work, work… All of a sudden, she has so much work to do that she’s literally sleeping at her workplace.

Trasnochar constantemente en el trabajo es una de las excusas más famosas para entregarse a placeres adúlteros.

I mean, if you have to work so much, no one will tell you that you can’t because you have your supervisors and you can’t influence it.

Por eso es una excusa perfecta a la hora de ocultar una infidelidad.

And while you think that she’s such a poor thing spending so much time slaving away, she’s probably somewhere else (way more cozy), thinking that her excuses are working like a charm.

But, pay attention to her mood when she comes back from her “job.”

Does she seem a little bit too happy for someone who is constantly staying late at work? Hmm…

she seem a little bit too happy for someone who is constantly staying late at work? Hmm…

6. She’s holding back on the sex

Este es también uno de los mayores signos de que tu mujer te engaña.

If she’s constantly complaining about the incessant headaches and shitty mood, there must be something more to it.

Perhaps she’s holding back on the sex because she’s no longer interested in having it with you.

Sé que suena duro, pero podría ser la verdad y es mejor averiguarlo antes que ignorar para siempre un posible engaño.

7. She’s drifted off

En parece distante ¿De repente?

¿Crees que pasa mucho tiempo soñando despierta y pensando en otra cosa en lugar de estar contigo en ese momento?

¿Y muestra una actitud algo agresiva cuando le preguntas por todo ello?

Está distante porque su mente está claramente en otra parte.

Puede que esté pensando en su naturaleza infiel e ideando la próxima excusa que le permita abandonar el local y reunirse con su amante secreto.

And when you ask her why she’s been absent, she instantly manifests her hostile attitude because she’s afraid that you might uncover her little secret.

8. Cambió sus contraseñas

Durante todo este tiempo has podido entrar en todas sus cuentas sin ningún problema y ella puede hacer lo mismo con las tuyas.

You trust yourself to the core and that is why you don’t have issues about sharing your passwords and everything with each other.

But, all of a sudden, you realize that she’s changed her passwords on social networks.

You can’t think of any valid reason why she would do so and it instantly comes to you that she might be hiding something from you.

Y puede que tenga razón.

Probablemente ha cambiado sus contraseñas porque ya no quiere que formes parte de su vida en las redes sociales.

Because, clearly, she’s got some secret business to do there without you knowing it.

9. She’s suddenly working too much on her looks

She has always taken good care of herself, but now she’s gone to extremes.

Suddenly, she’s spending too much time at the gym and too much money on sexy clothes, makeup, and some more clothes.

Her wardrobe and all the shelves in the house have become full of her new beauty arsenal and you’re wondering about the real reason behind it.

Podría ser trabajando demasiado en su aspecto just to impress you, but if she’s constantly having her headaches when it comes to sexy time or exhibiting some of the other cheating signs, she might be doing all of this to impress someone else instead.

10. She’s protective of her phone

Her phone has become the most valuable possession to her and she simply can’t let you near it.

And she’s certainly not afraid that you’ll somehow break it, yet she’s scared that you might find out something that she doesn’t want you to.

When her phone rings or she receives a text message (if she’s forgotten to put it on silent), she instantly grabs her phone at the speed of light so that you don’t have a chance of seeing who is calling or texting her.

¿Un amante secreto quizás?

11. She’s overly curious about your whereabouts

She never really paid that much attention about where you’re going, what you’re doing, and with whom, but now she’s overly curious about your whereabouts.

Exige conocer específicamente cada detalle de tu plan diario y empiezas a pensar en lo encantadora que es en realidad.

But, she might be doing it because she doesn’t want you to intercept her amid her cheating actions and that is why she needs to know where you will be and when you will come back.

She is constantly devising perfect plans that will enable her to do whatever she wants, whenever,  without you having a clue about it.

12. She’s avoiding your friends

Tus amigos solían ser sus amigos también, pero ahora ella es una especie de evitarlos.

Maybe she is desperately trying to avoid them because she’s afraid that they might know something about her or that they will ask her some tricky questions to find out more about her mysterious nature.

Also, she’s constantly too busy to hang out with you when you invite her because she got some other plans, or she has too much work to do.

But, in reality she’s probably spending time with her secret friend and thinking of her next excuse.

13. She’s avoiding certain places

Before, she wouldn’t mind where you were going to eat, as long as you were going. And she wasn’t so picky about other things either.

Pero, ahora parece evitar ciertos lugares sin razón aparente.

También finge que ya no le gusta la comida de allí sólo para evitar entrar en ese local en concreto.

¿Quizás su amante secreto trabaja allí? ¿O estuvo allí con él muchas veces y puede que aparezca allí al mismo tiempo que tú?

Tiene que haber una razón válida. Seguramente querrás preguntarle más al respecto e insistir en que te lo explique con detalle.

14. She claims she’s unhappy

Many affairs start with a woman claiming that she’s unhappy in a relationship.

Many men don’t take this one too seriously because women are famous for PMS and constant overthinking about everything.

Pero, si no deja de recordarte lo infeliz que es, debe haber algo más.

Maybe she’s trying to tell you that she’s no longer attracted to you or that the two of you are stuck in a rut and all of this makes her unhappy.

Or she’s glum because she already did something shitty behind your back and now she feels bad about it.

Whatever it is, her claiming that she’s unhappy is never a good sign in a relationship.

15. She’s ignoring you

She’s ignoring you in bed by poner excusas constantemente, ignorándote cuando quieres hablar con ella sobre vuestra relación, e ignorándote cuando le haces ciertas preguntas sobre su paradero.

Al instante se siente insultada por ello y te culpa de controlarla.

But, the real reason why she is doing it is because she’s trying to avoid eye contact and any contact with you at all so that you don’t reveal her cheating nature.

And her acting insulted works like a shield for her sinful deeds, because the easiest way to ignore someone is to pretend that you’re insulted by them and they will likely soon stop questioning you.

16. Pasan menos tiempo juntos

Ya no pasáis tanto tiempo juntos como antes porque ella está demasiado ocupada y no tiene ganas de ir a ningún sitio contigo.

You’re more like friends than husband and wife and it is seen in every aspect of your together life.

There are no more cuddling sessions in front of the TV, you no longer go out for a drink, and you don’t do fun things together.

Lo único que hacéis es dormir uno al lado del otro sin mantener relaciones sexuales debido a los constantes dolores de cabeza y cambios de humor de ella.

You see, if you no longer spend quality time together because she’s sabotaging it, then you can be sure she’s doing it because of other selfish reasons of hers.

Puede que esté pasando su tiempo libre con otra persona mientras sigue vendiéndote excusas.

17. De repente insiste en hacer viajes sola (en lugar de ir contigo como antes)

Ya no vais juntos a la compra, de paseo o a cualquier otro sitio al que solíais ir juntos.

Ahora insiste en hacer viajes en solitario a todas partes, diciéndote que necesita tiempo a solas por sí misma.

But, deep down in your soul, you know that this isn’t true.

She’s doing it because it is a perfect opportunity for her to visit her secret lover too and spend some time with him while telling you that she was in the middle of rush hour and she couldn’t make it earlier.

If you suspect that she’s doing all of this just because she’s driven by other selfish motives, you might want to ask her a little bit more about it.

But, remember not to be pushy. Just play it cool and smart, and I’m sure that her sinful nature will be revealed sooner than you think.

18. Lleva nuevos movimientos al dormitorio

De repente, insiste en probar nuevas posturas contigo e introduce nuevos movimientos en el dormitorio.

She’s no longer the same wife that you used to make love with.

She’s become wilder and her moves make you question where she has learned them.

Well, maybe her secret lover has taught her and now she’s trying to implement it in your bedroom, too.

Y si accidentalmente grita su nombre mientras tiene sexo contigo, ¡ahí lo tienes!

Then you can be sure that she’s changed because of someone else and not because of you or because she’s googled new hot positions day and night.

19. Pasa demasiado tiempo con el teléfono/ordenador

If you’ve noticed that she spends too much time on her phone or computer telling you that she’s doing things for work (even though she is already spending too much time at her workplace), you can be sure that she’s lying.

She’s probably spending her time on social apps texting with other guys out there and waiting for the perfect time to meet with them.

20. Parece nerviosa e incómoda cuando le haces preguntas

Además, una de las mayores señales de que tu mujer está engañándote es que se ponga nerviosa e incómoda cuando le haces preguntas.

If you ask her about her late arrival home and she stutters while trying hard to find the perfect excuse, then you can be sure she’s playing dirty and trying to hide it from you.

Y si sigues presionándola para que te cuente más cosas, parecerá cada vez más desconcertada hasta que estalle y te culpe de ser un marido demasiado controlador.

If she does this, don’t let her blame you for something that is her fault.

Ten en cuenta que si constantemente tienes que hacerle preguntas y cuestionar sus acciones, entonces es que hay algo que no funciona en ella, y no en ti.

Y si sigue faltando a la verdad, eres libre de darle un ultimátum y ver si admite el delito o lo mantiene en secreto.

IN CASE YOU’VE JUST REALIZED THAT YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING ON YOU…

In case that you’ve concluded your wife is definitely cheating on you, do not freak out or do some unnecessary actions that you might regret later.

No importa lo estúpido que parezca, intenta mantener la calma y ver las cosas desde una perspectiva más amplia y positiva. Además, prepárate para recuperación de la aventura.

Verás, si tu mujer te engaña, es mejor descubrirlo ahora que nunca, donde sigues viviendo tu vida en la ignorancia y la falsa felicidad.

The rage and disappointment that you’re feeling now will disappear with time and, eventually, everything will fall into place and you’ll be truly happy as you deserve.

Lo mejor que puedes hacer es poner en orden tu mente e intentar hablar con ella al respecto.

Ask her about her recent behavior and to tell you honestly if she’s been hiding something from you.

Y si ella confirma tus sospechas, intenta no hacer nada estúpido y empeorar las cosas aún más de lo que ya están.

Recuerde que mereces ser felizque ésta es tu oportunidad de limpiar tu vida de toda la negatividad y empezar a escribir un capítulo nuevo y más sano, en lugar de perder el tiempo en el viejo que, sencillamente, ya no merece tu tiempo.