35 microtácticas que utilizan los narcisistas para controlar a sus víctimas

1. Un narcisista te amenaza para intimidarte. Quiere que dejes de pensar por ti mismo y que le escuches ciegamente.

2. They are capable of going at you for putting up with someone’s ill-treatment, while at the same time, they disrespect you on a daily basis without thinking that it’s their problem.

It can never be their problem. It’s always someone else’s.

3. Hacen cumplidos sospechosos, que la mayoría de las veces suenan más a insulto que a elogio.

4. They sabotage you because they can’t handle your success. In their world, they are the best, the smartest, and the prettiest; everyone else is worthless.

5. Crean una imagen exterior perfecta de sí mismos. Para un completo desconocido, parecen impecables y exitosos.

6. They will go to all lengths just to keep the image they’ve built alive. If that means they have to crush someone to achieve it, they won’t think twice about it.

7. They will never initiate something. Kindly enough, they will let you tackle the problem and after you solve it, they’ll convince you that you did a lousy job and they could have done it so much better.

8. They don’t even think of you as a person, as an independent individual. They consider you an extension of themselves.

9. El miedo es su principal arma. Usando el miedo, tienen un control total sobre ti.

10. Whenever something is wrong, they blame you and tell you that you’re too emotional to handle life.

11. Vulnerability is not a plus; it’s a weakness in the eyes of every narcissist because they are wired differently.

12. Su confianza no es falsa. Realmente creen que son lo mejor que se puede conseguir.

13. They will blow some past event out of proportion and convince you it happened just the way they told you, only you forgot it because you were ‘too emotional.’

14. They set traps for you on purpose so they can appear as your ‘savior’ when you fall.

15. They’ll hurt you on purpose so that they can use their carefully thought-out plan to ‘apologize’ – in other words, to win you over.

16. Nunca dejan pasar la oportunidad de humillarte públicamente.

17. Te amenazan con destrozarte o quitarte tus cosas.

18. Te humillan cada vez que pueden y aún así se preguntan por qué tu confianza es tan baja.

19. No pueden controlar sus emociones porque no están en contacto con ellas.

20. They are always threatening to walk out on you because they want you to beg them to stay. They need to hear you need them and you can’t live without them.

21. One way to ensure they have complete control over you is to make sure you think you’re unlovable. They need you to think so little of yourself and that you thank God you have them in your life. Because according to your narcissist, you’re lucky anyone loves you really.

22. Ellos abusar verbalmente you every time you don’t do what they want you to do.

23. Your entire relationship revolves around control. Narcissists need to have control. If they don’t, they are ready to emotionally destroy you to the point you can’t recognize yourself, just to get you to entertain their every whim.

24. If at any point of your relationship you sober up and try to find a way out, if you stand up to them, they won’t have it. Right after your rebellion, they will punish you.

25. Te atrapan en su telaraña y te hacen casi imposible soltarte.

26. When it suits them, they show emotions and they give love, but when it doesn’t, they take it away, which is heartbreaking for anyone who isn’t a sociopath.

27. Se encargan de las finanzas.

28. Siempre están investigando a tus espaldas porque necesitan saber todo lo que ocurre a su alrededor.

29. Every decision you make, they will second-guess. It’s not because they don’t trust you, it’s because they want you to doubt yourself after a number of ‘you’re not capable of anything’ remarks.

30. Se aseguran de que ser tú mismo sea inaceptable. Quieren cambiar quién eres y aplastar tu autoestima para que empieces a creer que tienes que cambiar, porque quien eres en realidad no es lo bastante bueno.

31. They constantly point out your flaws and they tell you right to your face that you need to change what they don’t like.

32. Every mistake you make will be used against you. It’s like you’re not allowed to make a mistake, while on the other hand, their mistakes don’t count because they will never admit to making them.

33. Si prueba el tratamiento silenciosoharán todo lo posible por provocarte y hacerte hablar para volver a darle la vuelta a la situación.

34. Nunca te dejarán solo porque necesitan esta relación mucho más que tú.

You are their narcissistic supply, something they can’t live without.

Así que se aprovecharán de ti y, al mismo tiempo, te empujarán a marcharte y tratarán de retenerte.

35. Sadly, in the end, the good person ends up emotionally beaten while the bad guy moves on to the next victim, looking perfect in a stranger’s eyes.