4 cosas que tu ex infiel hará para reconquistarte
Ser engañada es una de las cosas más dolorosas y humillantes que cualquier mujer puede experimentar en una relación.
Su corazón está destrozado, su ego roto y su dignidad dañada.
Sin embargo, a pesar de saber todo esto, hay muchas mujeres que recuperan a sus ex infieles. ¿Por qué?
Bueno, la verdad es que la mayoría tramposos también son hábiles manipuladores.
Utilizan diferentes estrategias y técnicas para atraer a sus víctimas de vuelta a ellos, y aquí están 4 de las más comunes.
1. Negar su aventura
At first, when you find out that your partner has been unfaithful, he will do his best to deny his affair, and he’ll never admit his wrongdoings if he thinks he has a chance of getting away with them.
He might even try to convince you that you’re crazy for suspecting him and try to make you feel guilty for not believing him.
Tenga en cuenta que, al hacer esto, en realidad está utilizando la psicología inversa.
Quiere quitarse toda la culpa de encima y hacerte quedar como el malo de la película, aunque ambos sepáis que no has hecho nada malo.
Even if you catch him red-handed and even if you have all the evidence which proves his infidelity, he’ll still deny that he is guilty. In fact, he’ll probably tell you that things aren’t as they seem.
Por supuesto, ninguna mujer en su sano juicio compraría su basura.
Sin embargo, por desgracia, muchas chicas caen en estas excusas y engaños vacíos simplemente porque quieren creer a sus parejas.
Quieren preservar su relación a toda costa, y les resulta más fácil mentirse a sí mismos que enfrentarse a la brutal verdad.
2. Presentarla como irrelevante
Nevertheless, when a cheater doesn’t have anywhere to go and when he sees that you are not believing in his lies, he will have to admit his infidelity.
However, even when he does this, he’ll try his best to present it as something unimportant, something that never mattered in the first place.
He’ll probably tell you that this was nothing but a moment of weakness and that it is not something that should have any effect on your relationship whatsoever.
Según él, esto no es digno de destruir lo que ustedes han estado construyendo durante años y definitivamente no es algo en lo que deban poner tanta atención.
La razón por la que esta estrategia funciona en muchos casos radica en el hecho de que la mayoría de las chicas disfrutan escuchando estas palabras de sus ex infiel.
They want to believe him when he says that all other girls in his life are just temporary and that they’re the only ones who matter.
3. Culparte por ello
Otra técnica que su ex infiel probablemente utilizará en sus intentos de volver contigo es tratar de echarte toda la culpa de sus actos.
He’ll probably accuse you of not giving him enough attention or for killing the flame and the passion in your relationship, which made him look for comfort somewhere else.
He wants to completely turn the tables and present you as the one who should be apologizing for the fact that he deliberately and consciously chose to hurt you. This is something you shouldn’t allow at all costs.
Aunque tu relación tuviera sus problemas, no puede ser una excusa para la infidelidad.
After all, he had the possibility of leaving you if he saw that you guys aren’t functioning together which is always a better option than betraying you in this way.
So instead of allowing him to convince you that you’re guilty, be aware of one fact: this guy is not only a cheater, he is also a toxic manipulator who doesn’t know how to take responsibility for his actions.
4. Prometerte el mundo
La última estrategia, pero no por ello la menos peligrosa, que tu ex infiel utilizará sin duda para convencerte de que vuelvas con él es hacerte falsas promesas.
He’ll tell you that he is ready to do whatever it takes for otra oportunidad, that this was a mistake he doesn’t plan on repeating, and that he’ll be the best possible boyfriend in the future, if you just give him the opportunity to repent.
Sin embargo, probablemente sólo esté buscando una luz verde para seguir haciéndote daño.
Of course, it is up to you whether you’ll forgive a cheater and take him back, but I’m just begging you to take into consideration the fact that most cheaters continue with their misdeeds even after endless second chances.
He is probably not sorry for cheating on you–he is only sorry that he got caught.
Además, la gente rara vez cambia, y no es probable que tu ex sea una excepción.
If you forgive him this time, he’ll probably keep on cheating on you because he’ll see your forgiveness as a sign of approval.
