Si haces estas 5 cosas, eres extremadamente pegajoso
There is a fine line between genuinely caring for someone and being way too clingy. Many of us do not know where to draw the line and thus, we tend to screw up our relationships—despite the fact we only wanted the best to happen.
Lo más destructivo para una relación es el comportamiento pegajoso. No es de extrañar que la mayoría de la gente se pierda en su afecto hacia alguien porque todos estamos necesitados en cierto modo.
We all need to love and to be loved—it’s just sometimes we over-exaggerate. Maybe it’s is out of fear we are going to lose the person we love, so we hold on tight to him or her not letting them breathe—that’s where the problem arises.
Relájate un poco y deja que tu relación siga su curso natural. Si estaba destinado a ser, ten por seguro que nunca perderás a la persona que amas. Sólo puedes perderla si la obligas a huir de ti con tu aferramiento.
Para evitar que esto ocurra, lee algunas de las cosas que puedes estar haciendo y que te presentan como una persona pegajosa.
1. Siempre estás llamando y enviando mensajes a tu pareja
This is the first and most important sign you’re being clingy. You can’t resist calling your partner and texting him or her every second. Lay off and leave them alone. Everyone needs their own personal space.
If you’re scared they might cheat on you, believe me, the fact you’re calling and texting them to check up on them won’t stop them from doing it if they really want to.
2. You are by your partner’s side 24/7
Aunque necesita un poco más de trabajo físico, ésta es similar a la primera. Deja en paz a tu pareja. Necesita llevar su propia vida. Necesita salir con sus amigos y ver a su familia.
Keep in mind they had a life before they met you. Respect that fact, otherwise, things won’t end up well.
Véase también: 6 señales de que le quieres mucho más de lo que él te quiere a ti
3. You go berserk when your partner doesn’t call you back
Your heart drops and you’re hiding your puffy face from others when your partner doesn’t call you back. You are fretting about unnecessary things. You’re anxious because he or she didn’t respond to your text. Please, stop doing this to yourself.
Instead of automatically thinking about the worst-case scenarios (cheating in this case or something even worse), calm down and see things from a different perspective. Maybe he is too busy to answer you back or he didn’t see your call right away and maybe he is on his way to see you and he is near, so he won’t answer you because he will see you in a minute. There are so many different explanations for this—there’s no need to go all crazy.
4. Estás demasiado disponible para tu pareja
No one likes that. It leaves an impression that you are dependent—you can’t function without your partner. Believe me, no one likes to have that kind of person by their side.
Si estás demasiado disponible para tu pareja, you are showing him or her that you don’t respect your own life and your own time. How can you expect your partner to respect you?
5. Nunca le das a tu pareja la oportunidad de echarte de menos
Como estás disponible para tu pareja todo el tiempo, puede ocurrir que se aburra de ti. Tienes que dejarles ir y dejarles respirar. De lo contrario, encontrará a otra persona que lo haga.
It’s is up to you whether you are going to make your partner miss you and make him or her realize how much they like you or you are going to act like this and screw up things forever.
Véase también: No es amor, es obsesión (y NO es sano)
