5 maneras brillantes de hacer que te persiga sin hacerte la difícil
Tanto como jugando duro might seem like the perfect option when you’re trying to win over your dream guy, in many situations, it’s actually quite ineffective.
Y la sencilla razón de ello es el hecho de que los hombres están cansados de jugar.
They don’t want to go after a girl who keeps sending them all these señales contradictorias...y tener que descifrar qué demonios quiere en realidad.
They are done with chasing somebody who clearly can’t be bothered to show the slightest interest in them for the purposes of appearing untouchable and therefore worthy of being chased and adored.
It doesn’t work that way anymore.
By no means am I saying that you should put all your cards on the table at once, but you definitely need to show him something worthy of being pursued, otherwise he’s out the door!
Lo que tienes que hacer es encontrar el equilibrio perfecto entre hacerte la dura y ofrecérselo en bandeja de plata.
You don’t want him to see that you’re playing him, so the ideal thing to do is haz que te deseePero mantén un aire de misterio que le haga volver a por más.
Y así es precisamente como vas a conseguirlo, paso a paso.
Let him in, but don’t reveal too much too soon
If you really dig this guy, you’re probably going to be tempted to be fully transparent with him and give him tu corazón un poco demasiado pronto.
That’s understandable, since you don’t want to lose him, so your first instinct is to just lay it all on the table at once.
But that’s exactly what you shouldn’t be doing.
As you’re getting to know him, what you want to do is let him in bit by bit so as to not overwhelm him, and to always have something new to share as your relationship progresses.
You don’t want to scare him away by sharing the gruesome details of your recent breakup (and appear needy or desperate) or by telling him about your painful period cramps on the third date.
Habrá tiempo de sobra para compartir todo lo bueno y lo malo de uno mismo.
Al principio no te pases, y a medida que vuestra relación se profundice, también lo harán los temas de conversación.
Don’t be a copy of other women, stand out by being 100% your authentic self
Esto es muy triste. Las mujeres tienden a falsear la verdad sobre sí mismas diciendo cosas que creen que las harán más atractivas para los hombres.
But the real truth is men don’t want just another woman who doesn’t know how to be herself and needs to play pretend in order to win him over.
Sus posibilidades de hacer que un chico te persiga by posing as somebody you’re not are slim to none.
Pero lo que SÍ te llamará la atención es ser tú mismo.
Si crees que ciertos aspectos de ti pueden hacerle corre a las colinas¿es realmente un tipo con el que quieres estar?
Be yourself. Don’t change how you look, talk, or act in order to attract anybody.
The only person you’re doing harm to is yourself. If a guy likes you for YOU, that is who you want to be with.
Men like women who stand out and don’t cater to anyone’s needs. That is what will haz que te persiga, so keep being you and don’t let anyone steal your shine.
Be fiercely independent but don’t shut him out
Nowadays, men are finally learning to appreciate women who can stand their own ground and don’t take anybody’s shit!
But don’t let your awesome independence make you closed off to him. It’s important to let him see that you’re a self-sufficient woman, but he still needs to feel wanted and welcome in your life.
Let him know how much you appreciate having him around. Just because you don’t run to him for help for every little thing does not mean you don’t need him.
All it means is that you’re perfectly capable of taking care of things by yourself, but he is still somebody whose thoughts and ideas you will always want to hear.
Interésate, pero mantenlo alerta de vez en cuando.
For sure let him know you’re into him. But don’t tell him todo.
Let’s say you’re going for Friday night drinks with your girlfriends.
Simply let him know you won’t be able to make it to his on Friday, but you’ll make it up to him on Saturday.
That way, he doesn’t really know where you are and who you’re with, which will make him want to know even more.
And that’s where you’ve got him hooked.
Of course, you know that you’re not doing anything sketchy (you would never), but his mind can go to a billion different places.
And sure, on Saturday you’ll tell him everything, but keep him in the dark that one night, and I assure you he’ll be dying to see you the next day.
Hazle ver que le deseas, pero no a toda costa
Okay, so you’ve probably really fallen for this guy. Every time you see him it gets harder and harder to leave him.
Podrías acurrucarte con él todo el día sin hacer absolutamente nada.
But don’t let him see just how much lo quieres. That’s when you lose the edge.
When he senses how deeply you really need his presence in your life, he’s going to know he’s under your skin, and you don’t want that. At least not this soon.
You want him to see that you love having him around, and enjoy spending time with him, but you’re still totally fine on your own.
Yeah, he makes your life so much brighter, but he’s not your sun. (At least make him think that.)
The only way he’ll chase you is by easing into this thing, and no matter how badly you want him, don’t overwhelm him prematurely.
Avanza despacio y mantenlo pegado a ti siendo una coqueta misteriosa.
You want him, but you don’t NEED him. And that is what will make you so irresistible and keep him on your tail.
Give him something worth chasing, and he’ll stick to you like white on rice.
