5 secretos para que se vuelva loco por ti

Los secretos de los mensajes de texto que te ayudarán a dejarlo boquiabierto parecen el sueño de cualquier chica... ¿verdad? Pero, ¿sabes qué?

It’s not! It’s a reality, and you’re about to be really happy you are reading this.

Enviar mensajes de texto es algo de lo que nadie puede librarse hoy en día.

Ever since the modernization of technology, people of all ages have found themselves in the midst of this texting craze, and whether we like it or not, it’s become as natural as breathing to us at this point.

But let’s all be honest. As nice as it may have been in the olden days when this type of communication was nothing but pure fiction, none of us can really imagine our life without being able to instantly message literally anyone we want on this Earth.

That’s a privilege in itself, and it makes our lives so much easier. And when it comes to dating, texting is pretty much our saving grace.

You’re on a date with a guy and you don’t want it to end, so when you get home, what do you do?

Usted envíale un mensaje y probablemente dure una o dos horas.

And if you didn’t have that option, you’d just be rewinding the night in your head, totally paranoid, afraid he didn’t like it as much as you did, but not being able to know for sure, and it would be nightmarish for you…

But texting assures immediate affirmation and an incredible sigh of relief when the guy immediately texts you he had the best time as well and can’t wait for round two.

Pero si lo que de verdad quieres es dejarle boquiabierto, hay una serie de secretos para enviar mensajes de texto que pueden hacer que todo el proceso sea mucho más fácil.

We, as women, oftentimes tend to get a little overly excited when we’re really crushing on a guy, that we let ourselves come off a little too overbearing while trying to seem effortless.

Texting secrets are really simple and nothing you can’t keep up with.

All that’s important here is that you don’t let your head get too lost while daydreaming of him in order to come off cool, collected and fun; all of which you are!

En lugar de perder mucho tiempo pensando en la frase perfecta y en cada detalle (y volviéndote loca mientras tanto), puedes hacer que te desee con unos cuantos trucos.

When texting, it’s advisable to try and be as clear as possible in a fun, casual way, so that your message is received loud and clear, and you’ve come off effortless and cute.

To make it as easy on you as possible, I’ve come up with a few cool, useful tips on texting to get your point across with ease and make him go crazy for you without having to break a sweat!

¡5 secretos para que se vuelva loco por ti!

Don’t think about the perfect conversation starter, and focus on making him smile!

When you’re starting to text a guy, it can a be a lot of work just trying to say the right thing at the right time and just hoping he gets what you’re trying to say without things getting lost in translation.

Siempre intentamos dar con la respuesta perfecta que permita que la conversación continúe durante un rato y que tenga sustancia y no se limite a responder por mera cortesía.

¿Qué te parece esto? En lugar de esforzarte por llamar su atención y obligarle a responder, piensa en algo bonito, ligero y divertido, algo que le haga sonreír en cuanto abra el mensaje.

You’re the only one who knows what that could be. Perhaps something from your first date that happened and he thought it was funny?

¿Quizá le dijiste algo descarado a un tipo que intentaba seducirte y él pensó que eras una maleducada?

Think of something along the lines of that, remind him of how funny and cute you are, and he’ll start loving seeing your name grace his screen in no time!

¡Sé provocador!

If you’re still in the friend stage (but trying to level up) or if you’re already dating, teasing over text is one the hottest things you can do without having to literally barely move a finger.

Teasing is the sexiest thing you can do to your guy while texting to drive him absolutely bananas and make him can’t wait to see you again.

El secreto de los mensajes de texto es torturarle poco a poco y hacer que desee teletransportarse hasta ti al instante.

Enciende esa llama en él y dale imágenes de lo que le espera más adelante.

Tiéntalo con frases que sepas que can’t resist and put all those sexy ideas in his head so that he won’t be able to think about anything else for the rest of the day.

Even if you’re still trying to get to the dating stage, you can totally innocently flirt and make him see just how sultry and eager you are, but in a subtle (though sexy) manner.

Let him know how much you’d enjoy his presence right now, but since you can’t… you’re just going to have to find something to do by yourself (which will make him want to come over ASAP).

Las preguntas abiertas son la clave de una conversación de calidad.

Don’t ask him things you know he can simply reply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ to. Try to be more innovative.

Haz que QUIERA responder algo más largo que una o dos palabras.

Ask him personal things that he’ll have to (but also want to) elaborate on.

Create a positive, interesting texting environment where he’ll feel safe to share with you parts of himself that are personal and important to him.

Eso se convertirá poco a poco en una conversación completa y sustancial, y antes de que te des cuenta, este chico se estará abriendo a ti más de lo que ambos esperaban que fuera posible.

Just don’t be too invasive too soon. If you see he’s reluctant to speak on certain matters, table them for later when you’re more serious and more secure.

Follow his lead and go as far as you think he’d be okay with.

After the conversation, he’ll feel really pleased and feel safe to talk to you about almost anything, and you could soon become his number one confidante!

Comparte algo personal sobre ti que le haga sentirse más cerca de ti.

No hay nada que conecte más a la gente que las historias personales que son realmente importantes para nosotros y nos hacen ser quienes somos.

And sharing something deep with the guy you’re texting with might make him feel like you’re comfortable enough to tell him deeper, vulnerable stuff.

Le dará la idea de que esto se está convirtiendo en algo real y genuino.

Naturalmente, aquí el momento lo es todo.

If you’ve only started texting and there are definite sparks there, wait it out, and keep it fresh and fun.

Pero cuando sientas que puedes compartir algo más significativo sin asustarle potencialmente, puedes decidir contarle algo sobre ti que no mucha gente sepa.

Test the waters first, and see if he’s ready for this. If you feel like he is, bring out the big guns.

As I’ve already mentioned, the texting secret here is nothing too complicated. It’s the simplicity of this that makes it so inviting.

El tiempo y el ritmo son los dos únicos factores a los que debes prestar atención. El resto vendrá fácilmente si el tipo es el adecuado.

Don’t become complacent; aim to be fun but grounded!

Things could really be going well for you two, and you’ll feel really good about yourself.

You’ve won him over, the job here is done, and you don’t have to really try anymore. Well that’s where you’d be wrong.

No matter how good you’ve become at texting and how crazy he may finally seem for you, you should never let it get to your head and completely stop trying.

Naturally, if he’s de cabeza for you, you’ve done your job, but don’t show him you don’t care to try any longer once he’s hooked.

The guy deserves to know that even though he’s totally mad about you know, you’ll never stop being your cute, fun, and eager self.

And even though you’ve won him over, neither of you should stop wooing the other.

Una vez que volverse complacientelas cosas sólo pueden ir hacia el sur a partir de ahí.

Sorpréndele de vez en cuando con un mensaje coqueto y sexy, y demuéstrale que la chispa sigue ahí.

As long as you’re both putting in effort, you’ll be well on your way to a good, solid, healthy relationship.