Cómo atraer a una chica: 8 sencillos pasos para el éxito

Cómo atraer a una chica ¿Sin esforzarse demasiado y parecer prepotente?

Bueno, lo primero que tienes que saber es que todo lo que dices o haces importa.

Si le has llamado la atención, sin duda te analizará de arriba abajo.

She’ll look at the way you speak, the way you behave, the language your body communicates.

Now, this is the main trigger—para atraer a una chica tienes que despertar su interés; tienes que hacer que quiera conocerte.

A woman’s curiosity has no limits. When she’s interested in something, she’ll do everything in her power to satisfy her curiosity. Wouldn’t it be just perfect if you were the subject of her curiosity, and she started chasing you to find out who you really are?

If you’re led by your hunch and your plan in attracting a girl is ‘Go with the flow’ or ‘What happens, happens’, you’re not going to get anywhere.

Let’s be clear about something—getting inside a woman’s head is mission impossible, so if you’re planning on attracting her by trying to understand what is she doing and why, good luck with that!

Women are complex beings, and at times, they don’t even understand themselves completely.

Si desea atraer a una mujer, you’re going to need someone to tell you how. You’re going to need all the help you can get.

Antes de entrar en los detalles de cómo atraer a una mujer, primero, necesitas saber QUÉ ES LO QUE LAS MUJERES ENCUENTRAN ATRACTIVO en un hombre en general.

1. Potencia

A lot of women will deny this, but it’s true—women can’t resist a man in power.

This doesn’t even have to be related to your job and/or your social status.

La clave para parecer poderoso es la confianza y la forma de comportarse con las mujeres.

If you show that you’re not scared, if you’re honest and a bit flirty with enough confidence but not too much, you’re going to be a chick magnet.

Ten cuidado con eso de la confianza.

Tienes que encontrar la delgada línea entre ser un hombre atractivo e irresistiblemente varonil y un imbécil odioso.

It’s true, money does a lot to improve looking like a powerful man, but it’s not essential for achieving that status.

Mantén la salud, ve al gimnasio, ponte en forma y haz ejercicio. Ponte ropa bonita y cuida tu cuerpo y tu alma.

Para parecer poderoso, eso debería ser más que suficiente.

2. Confianza

Hay que tener confianza. Tienes que mostrar iniciativa y perseguir las cosas que son importantes para ti.

You have to have a mind of your own and never keep your mouth shut if you’ve got something to say.

Las mujeres adoran a los emprendedores, a los hombres de acción, a los que prefieren hacer antes que decir.

Men who don’t show initiative and never oppose anyone appear weak; therefore, they lack confidence. That is just not sexy.

It’s easy to say: “be confident”, but if you’re not confident by nature, you will definitely face some problems.

Don’t worry about it. There is a solution for everything, including your ability to become more confident.

Relaja tu cuerpo cuando hables con una mujer. Puede que no seas consciente de cuántas cosas ocultas tu lenguaje corporal es revelador sobre ti.

Also, when you’re approaching a girl, believe that she’s interested in you.

If you approach her already thinking it’s a waste of your time, it will affect your confidence.

Tal vez algunas de estas cosas te ayuden a mejorar tu confianza, porque créeme, la confianza es una de las cosas más importantes a la hora de intentar conquistar a una chica.

3. 3. Sentido del humor

Las conversaciones aburridas son las peores enemigas de la atracción. Ninguna mujer quiere estar cerca de alguien demasiado serio o demasiado tenso.

Women find a sense of humor attractive. If you can make a woman laugh, you’ve already come halfway to her heart.

Engage her in conversation, and make jokes—although keep in mind that everything that comes in huge doses is not a good thing. Remember that chistes coquetos y frases divertidas para ligar son tu mejor amigo.

Still, don’t go over the top because you’ll turn out to be a bit pushy and genuinely uncomfortable.

4. Emoción

Como he dicho antes, a nadie le gusta la gente aburrida ni las relaciones aburridas.

If you’re planning on seducing a woman and then stop trying because you already have her, I’ll tell you right away—that’s not a good plan, and it’s not going to work.

Relationships are constant work, hard work. You need to be innovative and exciting. That’s what women find attractive in men.

Quieren que les lleves a sitios y hagas cosas nuevas y emocionantes con ellos.

If you want to attract her, show her that you’re not boring. Be playful around her, and most importantly, be spontaneous.

Now that we’ve cleared up what women find attractive, tEsto es exactamente lo que tienes que hacer para atraer a una chica:

1. Tener una actitud

Attraction comes down to how you approach a woman—it all depends on your attitude. A positive attitude will provoke a positive reaction.

If you’re radiating negative energy, the woman you’re trying to impress will feel that energy, and she’ll look for a way to get away from you.

In other words, you’ll get rejected.

When you approach a woman, keep in mind that you have to look like you don’t want anything from her.

For example, if you want her number, pretend that you’re just casually talking to her because you like her and nothing more.

If you come across as someone who’s interested in only getting her number, your attitude will show it, and she won’t like it.

She’ll feel like you only want to use her.

2. Coquetear con otras mujeres

It’s all about practice. If you don’t do it, you are no longer good at it. The point is you have to keep practicing how to attract women.

Hay que cometer errores para no volver a cometerlos.

Si usted ligar con éxito, it will give you all the confidence you need to get the woman you’re really interested in.

I’m saying, when the right time comes, you won’t get nervous when talking to the possible woman of your dreams.

3. Show her that she’s special

Tienes que convencerla de que hay algo en ella que captó tu atención.

By showing her how great she is and by emphasizing her good sides, you’re letting her know that you have standards, and she fits in perfectly.

You aren’t the type of guy who will talk to any woman he meets just to get some.

Entabla una conversación con ella e intenta averiguar todo lo posible sobre ella. A las mujeres les encantan los hombres que saben escuchar.

Be that man. Show her that you respect her, and that she’s special.

4. Conectar emocionalmente

Para atraer a una chica, tienes que conquistarla emocionalmente. La conexión emocional desempeña un papel muy importante en la seducción.

Claro que el aspecto físico es muy importante, pero la atracción emocional es el factor adicional que marca la diferencia.

La conexión emocional es importante para que se sienta segura a tu lado, para que pueda confiar en ti.

Así, cualquier mujer se abrirá a ti más rápido y compartirá más información sobre sí misma.

In order to achieve an emotional connection, you have to be honest with the girl you’re trying to impress.

Open up to her, and don’t be afraid to show your emotions.

Cuéntale algo sobre ti, algo personal, algo que le haga ver quién eres realmente.

5. Hay que tener un estilo de vida atractivo

Take her to fun places. In fact, show her how you live. If you really are a fun and outgoing guy, she’ll definitely fall for you because of the way you live.

On the other hand, if you’re not a bundle of joy, I suggest you to start trying hard.

As I’ve said numerous times in this article, no one wants to have a boring person by their side.

You don’t have to pretend to be something you’re not, but it wouldn’t hurt you to do things outside the box sometimes.

6. Crear tensión sexual

Here’s where body language takes the lead role. In the early stage of the relationship, take control, and establish physical contact.

This way, you’re going to build sexual tension and you won’t be friend-zoned.

Aunque te llama hermano, believe me, you’re not going to be friend-zoned.

Empieza dándole golpecitos en el codo o tocándole la mano cuando diga algo gracioso.

Next time, prolong your touch, and gradually move from her elbow to more intimate places—her neck, her back or her thights.

Take into account that you can’t force anything to happen.

Si rechaza tus caricias, tendrás que darle espacio y moderar un poco tu deseo. Dale tiempo suficiente para que se relaje a tu alrededor.

If she’s going with the flow, then you don’t have to worry. Keep on with the touching because the sexual tension is only growing bigger.

7.  Don’t be predictable

No dejes que el aburrimiento se cuele en tu relación.

The moment when she knows what’s your next step, you’re risking your relationship being stuck in a rut. Never become predictable and obvious.

Esfuérzate por sorprenderla. Propón nuevas ideas para salir y nuevos lugares a los que ir.

Your behavior will capture her attention, and you’re going to be the only topic she talks about.

You’re going to be the only person she thinks of. When you give her everything, she won’t have the need to go and look for it somewhere else.

In addition, she’ll be thrilled she has a man like that by her side. She’ll fall in love fast and hard.

8. Saber qué decir y cuándo decirlo

You just have to say the right things at the right time. That’s the key to success in attracting a girl you like.

Lo que suele ocurrir es que muchos chicos se pierden cuando hablan con una mujer guapa.

De repente, todo lo que querían decir y todo su plan de seducción se cae por la ventana porque los chicos se ponen nerviosos.

Don’t be a rookie and make a trivial mistake like that.

We’ve already been through this—confidence is something you have to have if you want to get the girl.

Utiliza el tono de voz adecuado y suave y dile lo especial que es. Encántala y déjala boquiabierta.

Look confident while doing it; make her believe you. If your performance looks even a bit insecure, she won’t believe a word you say.

Cada vez que te acerques a una chica guapa, cada vez que quieras atraer a una chica que te guste debes pensar en la confianza.

Your success depends on the way you come across. If you look insecure or like you’re hiding something, she’ll turn you down.

If you’re confident and smooth, she’ll feel special that such a great and smart guy like you is interested in her.