5 señales de que el chico con el que sales es sospechoso y tiene malas intenciones

En este momento de tu vida, simplemente ya no tienes tiempo para jugadores, tramposos u hombres tóxicos. 

You’re harto de jugando y preguntándote en qué momento el próximo chico te romperá el corazón. Tú solo quieres amor, esfuerzo y compromiso.

Pero, ¿por qué es tan difícil encontrar un buen tipo hoy en día? ¿Se los ha tragado el mar a todos? A veces, eso parece.

But if there’s any consolation in all of this, you can at least nip it in the bud with the next guy, before he gets to romperte el corazón.

You can’t change toxic people and make them change their bad ways but you sure as hell can see through their bullshit in time and get the hell out before it’s too late.

I know it’s not a lot but it’s something. Guys rarely change but luckily the same goes for their shitty habits and tendencies. 

So I’ve come up with foolproof ways for you to see if you’re dealing with yet another asshole and help you make a run for it if need be.

So let’s start. Here are the 5 most obvious signs the guy you’re seeing is up to no good y deberías irte ahora mismo.

Parece estar emocionalmente vacío

A veces, it feels like you’re dating an actual robot… He seems void of any emotion and doesn’t appear to be bothered by it.

Nada puede realmente obtener una reacción de él y es tan indiferente a cualquier cosa que hagas.

Déjame contarte un pequeño secreto. La gente que se muestra así no son más que jugadores que simplemente intentan ocultar sus acciones de mierda no dejando aflorar ninguna emoción o reacción.

He is protecting himself and his lies by acting so aloof. Luckily, you’re all caught up now and you can safely say, “Next!”

Su reputación le precede

You’ve heard stories about him on occasion but you haven’t really given them much thought.

It’s easier to ignore the bad signs than to accept that you’re dealing with yet another loser with bad intentions.

But if it’s true that you’ve heard some stuff about him from more than one person, then it’s probably the truth.

Players have a reputation and it’s hard to get away from it. If he’s known to hit it and quit it and treats girls like commodities, you best start believing it.

A menos que quieras convertirte en una muesca más en su cinturón, abre los ojos a todas las malas señales y elige creerlas.

It’s highly likely that it will happen to you, so I suggest you get ahead of this and don’t let him hurt you any more than he already has.

Parece que es capaz de mentir con tanta facilidad

You’ve caught him in a lie many a time but he always knew exactly what to say and convince you of his story.

He didn’t even flinch. He is so good with words and it didn’t faze him at all when you confronted him with his lies.

Eso se debe a que se ha convertido en un maestro de su oficio. Se necesitan años de experiencia para ser tan bueno y convincente como él.

It doesn’t just happen overnight. People get nervous and anxious when they’ve been faced with their wrongdoings, so the fact that he didn’t says a LOT.

Sólo Dios sabe cuántas veces te ha mentido (y cuántas te va a mentir en el futuro).

It all starts with a little white lie. And when he sees how easy it is to blind you with his BS, he’s only going to become more crafty and more eager to push the limits. Don’t let him.

La mayor parte de su relación es de naturaleza física

He doesn’t appear to be interested in you outside of the bedroom. You don’t really talk much but not because you don’t want to.

It’s because he never seems to be in the mood for a conversation. He is very convincing when he wants sex but when you seek more, he becomes another person.

Una relación que gira sólo en torno al sexo y cero conexión emocional está condenado al fracaso.

When one partner is severely emotionally neglected and the other one doesn’t even care to remedy it, it’s a sign of a toxic relationship.

You are not his puppet and you are more than what your body can offer. Don’t let good sex leave you with him.

He is merely using you and if you don’t sense he cares about you as a person, you’re probably right.

He doesn’t want you to meet his family and friends

Cada vez que le sugerías que conociera a alguien de su vida, se oponía rotundamente.

Either they’re not in town or they’re busy or it’s simply not the right time. It is always something and he doesn’t seem to be running low on excuses.

This one’s a no-brainer. If you were important to him and he cared about you at all, eventually you would meet some of his family and friends.

That’s just how relationships work. But when he’s constantly against it, all you can presume is that he’s not really seeing you as a part of his life.

You are somebody he spends time with but when it comes to serious matters, you’re suddenly invisible.

Don’t put up with this for much longer. If he keeps you from his life—walk away from his.

There’s a reason he’s keeping you from his family and it’s probably not a good one. Leave and don’t look back.