5 señales de que estás perdiendo el tiempo con él
En el mundo en que vivimos hoy en día, todo el mundo está demasiado ocupado y es demasiado competitivo como para tener tiempo de sentar la cabeza y encontrar una pareja que merezca la pena. Esto afecta especialmente a los hombres, no porque estén más ocupados o sean más activos que las mujeres, sino porque fingen que no les importa o porque realmente les importa un carajo encontrar un amor profundo y devoto.
A meaningful relationship seems like everyone’s dream, but for a guy these days, a hookup is the easier and more convenient option. Even if it becomes more than a hookup, it’s still a question of how serious he’s gonna take it, and the sad truth is that he is probably just wasting your time para sus necesidades egoístas.
These are the 5 most obvious signs you’re just wasting your time with him.
He won’t consider real commitment anytime soon
So you’ve met, you like each other, maybe had a few hookups—what now? You talk a lot, and you really start feeling some kind of connection with him but every time you talk you want to ask him: “What are we?”. You hesitate with it because you’re too afraid of the answer.
If this is the case, and if he is not going to be the one asking it, then finally do it. If he doesn’t give you a normal answer, avoids the question or states his opinion and expectations of the relationship in a way that doesn’t suit you—end it.
End it before it consumes even more of your life because you don’t have time for that kind of game.
Las conversaciones giran sólo en torno a sus intereses
He never asks anything about you except the “How’s it going” question. After only a few dates, you literally know everything about him—his interests, hobbies, his exes, etc.
Yet, if you said that you like something, he will forget it in the next 5 seconds. I mean, come on, you’re better than that. Don’t waste your time on self-centered, hombres narcisistas.
You can’t be yourself around him
No importa lo divertido y guapo que sea, siempre sientes que tienes que fingir que eres otra persona cuando él está cerca.
Todo el mundo quiere presentarse de la mejor manera posible, pero eso no siempre es posible.
When you two hang out, you don’t talk like you usually do, you don’t dress like you usually would and if you’re not around him, you stalk him trying to find out what he likes.
Don’t ever change for a guy! Don’t pretend you’re someone else. Don’t be uncomfortable around someone just to make that person like you.
You can feel that it’s not going to last for long, so stop wasting your time and keep searching for el tipo que se sentirá como en casa. ¡Está ahí fuera!
He’s immature
Chica, seguro que no quieres perder el tiempo con este chico. Si todavía juega o tiene figuras de acción en su embalaje original, no significa que sea inmaduro.
Claro que sus intereses son bastante infantiles, pero si eso le hace feliz, ¿quiénes somos nosotros para juzgarlo, verdad?
Pero si es incapaz de cuidar de sí mismo o de ti, no merece tu tiempo.
His immaturity can be seen in so many ways and his behavior will probably even embarrass you in public. When something like this happens—it’s time to bounce.
No parece tener planes para el futuro.
Is there anything worse than people who have no ambitions and no plans in their lives? Why would you waste your time with a guy who can’t motivate you in any sense?
It doesn’t mean you should dump a guy who hasn’t achieved anything in his life so far, but if he is not planning to change that in the future—do yourself a favor, end it.
