Enamorarse de alguien es emocionante y divertido. Pero, si se trata de un chico difícil de leer y cuyas señales te cuesta entender, también puede ser todo un reto. Si estás enamorado de alguien que es imposible de averiguar, la única forma de saber sobre sus sentimientos es preguntándole, pero eso es lo último que quieres hacer. Pero, hay algunos patrones de comportamiento que la mayoría de los hombres muestran cuando están creciendo sentimientos por una mujer y aquí están 5 de ellos, que le ayudará a ver si un objeto de su afecto le gusta de vuelta o no.

1. Siempre está disponible para ti

One of the first things that will show you a guy is interested in you is the fact that he is never too busy for you. If a guy doesn’t like you, he will avoid you and will always make excuses why he can’t talk to you or see you. But, this man is different. He always has time for you and it seems that you never bore him. He’ll leave everything he’s doing at the moment just to talk to you and he’ll answer your call even if it is the middle of the night. Whenever you need his help, this guy will be there to assist you, without any trouble whatsoever. It seems that for this guy, nothing is a disturbance when it comes to you and that is a definite señal de que le gustas.

2. Disfruta de su presencia

Otra señal de que le gustas es que disfruta teniéndote cerca. Se desvive por estar cerca de ti. Te llama para quedar o inventa diferentes excusas sólo para verte. Siempre que le llamas para quedar contigo, nunca se niega. Al contrario, acepta encantado tus invitaciones. Cuando estáis juntos, ves que está muy contento de estar contigo. Además, siempre está en tu espacio físico. De alguna manera, siempre encuentra la forma de sentarse a tu lado o de estar cerca de ti de alguna otra manera.

3. Está nervioso a su alrededor

Probablemente pienses que sólo los adolescentes son nerviosos cerca de su enamoramiento. But, trust me—you can’t be more wrong. The same is with men of all ages. If they like you, they will probably be shy and nervous when you are around. You can notice this if the object of your affection bites his nails or shakes his leg too often every time you are with him. You may assume that he is quiet around you because he doesn’t like you back, but that is far from the truth. He just doesn’t know what to say when he sees you. Also, he is probably afraid that he’ll become a blubbering mess if he starts talking in front of you, so he decides it’s better to stay silent.

4. Te trata especialmente

When a man doesn’t like you, he’ll treat you the same way he treats every other female in his life. He may act like a gentleman, but if his behaviour towards you doesn’t stand out from his behaviour to everyone else, he probably sees you as a friend. But, if a guy has romantic feelings for you, he’ll make sure you always feel special around him. If a man likes you, he will interact with you differently than with everyone else. When the two of you are together, this guy will have eyes for you only and you’ll feel like you are the only woman in the room. If the two of you are with a group of people and you tell a joke, he’ll be the one with the loudest laugh and whenever he’s telling a story, he’ll look for your approval.

5. Te responde enseguida

Una de las cosas que pueden ayudarte a saber si le gustas a un chico son sus hábitos de envío de mensajes. When a guy really likes you, he will never leave you waiting for him to get back to you, wondering what went wrong and why is he ignoring you. If you text him, he will respond immediately and if you call him, he’ll always pick up the phone, no matter what he is doing at the moment. And not only that. You see that he is genuinely happy when you contact him. This guy never shows you a single sign that you annoy him and that has to mean something. Of course, it is possible that he is only polite and friendly, but if a man is happy to hear from you at all times, he definitely has a crush on you as well.