5 señales de que no es complicado, sólo es un gilipollas manipulador
Tendemos a idealizar a los hombres que son simplemente INCORRECTOS para nosotras. Ya es hora de que las mujeres dejen de tolerar a tipos que las tratan como mierda, dejen de justificarlo diciendo que son demasiado "complicados". Ya está bien.
No debemos aceptar a nadie que nos haga cosas horribles y luego utilizar nuestra compasión y comprensión.
If you’re with a guy who makes excuses by telling you he’s complicated, then you should read these 5 signs carefully, because it could easily turn out he’s just a manipulative asshole or even just un simple jugador.
Todo parece ir bien, pero de repente se aleja de ti sin ninguna explicación.
Empezáis a salir y todo va genial. Entonces, de repente se retira y empieza a ignorarte. He later justifies it by telling you he’s scared and confused by his love for you.
Actually, he doesn’t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don’t need
Actually, he doesn’t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don’t need this, because real men don’t play games.
He justifies his abusive behavior towards you by saying he’s having a very difficult time in his life
He treats you really badly; abuses you verbally, emotionally and/or physically; and then he explains that the reason behind all of the shit he does is just because he’s having a very difficult time in his life.
But the thing is—nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they’re having
But the thing is—nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they’re having hard time. You shouldn’t tolerate someone who doesn’t respect you at all, no matter what his excuse is!
Véase también:6 señales de advertencia de que estás en una relación emocionalmente abusiva
He is extremely romantic, BUT only when he needs something in return, OR when he wants to crawl back to you after you decided to ditch him because of all the bad stuff he’s done
This is the oldest trick in the book. They become so romantic and gentle when they need something in return. You will thank God that he finally started showing his “suppressed” love.
Odio reventar tu burbuja, pero lo hace sólo porque quiere algo de ti. La mayoría de las veces, se trata de tácticas manipuladoras para meterse en tus pantalones. ¡Vamos, puedes hacerlo mejor que esto!
Another disgusting reason for faking affection is when he sees you’re done with him after all the mess he made. Then, he will try to trick you by pretending to be so loving, just so you will forgive his manipulative ass.
Perhaps, it will make you think that he’s changed, but these people NEVER change.
No tiene amigos de verdad
If you date a guy long enough, normally you meet the people around him. So, if you notice that there is literally not a single person who is his real friend—that is a huge red flag.
Por muy complicados que seamos todos, siempre hay gente que ve lo bueno en nosotros.
However, if this guy doesn’t have any close friends, you should think about it a little. Why is it so?
It’s probably because all the people around him recognized him as a manipulator, and kicked him out of their lives.
He makes you do things you don’t like in order to prove your love
He’s sensitive. He’s fragile. He needs much more love and affection than anyone else. So, you decided to prove your love in every possible way.
¿Cuál es el resultado? Está utilizando esto para manipularte y conseguir cosas que necesita, como tu presencia constante, sexo, dinero, etc.
Al final, te sentirás atrapada y desdichada. Cada vez que cambies tu enfoque hacia algo o alguien más, él te acusará de ser egoísta.
He can make you feel as if you’re neglecting him because he has power to manipulate you.
Queridas señoras, sean prudentes e inteligentes. La mayoría de las veces las cosas no son como parecen.
Don’t let toxic manipulators trick you. And remember—it’s not your fault, he’s just an ass!
