5 sorprendentes beneficios de ser rechazada por el hombre que te gusta

Si te digo que salgas ahí fuera y te expongas al rechazo porque tiene numerosas ventajas que desconoces, probablemente me llames loco.

However, I assure you that you’ll change your mind after reading the following benefits of getting rejected by the man you like.

You’ll see it’s not the worst thing that can happen

Let’s face it–none of us enjoys being rejected because nobody can be indifferent to the fact that the person they like simply doesn’t like them back.

Besides this realization being painful, it also hurts your ego and makes you wonder why you can’t be enough.

Bueno, la verdad es que todos nuestros miedos parecen mucho mayores hasta que se hacen realidad.

So, once you get rejected and once the initial shock passes, you’ll see that this is actually not the worst case scenario.

You’ll understand that everyone has the right to tell you “no” and see that this happening to you is not a disaster.

You’ll realize that this is all a part of life and that you’ll survive this heartbreak, the same way you’ll survive everything else.

Le ahorrará mucho análisis

Lo mejor de ser rechazado es que te ayuda a saber a qué atenerte.

No hay necesidad de que pienses demasiado y te rompas la cabeza sobre si le gustas a este chico o no.

You won’t waste endless sleepless nights, trying to get to the bottom of his intentions, doing your best to figure out his behavior, and decrypting his words and texts in vain.

No hay señales contradictorias, juegos mentales ni engaños.

To put things honestly, a man who tells you “no” right away is much more fair than a douchebag who is stringing you along and giving you false hope.

Será una nueva experiencia

Cada pequeña cosa que ocurre en tu vida es un nueva lección para ti, aunque sea doloroso y duro.

Este rechazo es también una valiosa experiencia que debes apreciar.

It will help you get to know yourself in an entirely new situation, and it will help you see that you can successfully handle some things you thought you couldn’t take.

I won’t lie to you–this probably won’t be the last time someone you like rejects you, so it will also prepare you for the potential future.

You see, the next time something like this happens, you won’t see it as the end of the world and as something to knock you down.

Instead, you’ll accept it as a perfectly normal event and move on with your life the way you should.

Estarás orgulloso de ti mismo

Trust me–it is always worse to deal with all the “what ifs” then to face a defeat.

Instead of being sorry for the fact that you gave it a shot with someone and something that clearly didn’t have a chance of working out, you should be proud of your courage and of having had enough bravery to try.

Al menos sabes que seguiste tus deseos e hiciste exactamente lo que tu corazón te dijo que hicieras.

You didn’t chicken out and maybe miss an opportunity out of fear–your conscience is clear because you know you gave your best.

Abre espacio para el Sr. Correcto

One thing is more than obvious: this man we’re talking about was wrong for you.

He clearly wasn’t your destiny, and that is something you have to accept.

Recuerda: todo sucede por una razón.

Even if he agreed to be with you, it is a fact that he doesn’t care for you enough and maybe Dios realmente te salvó from a life of misery when He didn’t allow you to be with this guy.

So instead of seeing it as a loss, see it as a gain because maybe the reason this Mr. Wrong didn’t become a part of your life is to clear the path for your future Mr. Right.

Que te rechazara abrió espacio y dio una oportunidad a tu alma gemela de cruzarse contigo.

Eso es algo en lo que deberías centrarte en lugar de mirar hacia atrás.