6 cosas que tiene que hacer sola antes de conocer a su media naranja

Reunión el hombre perfecto y establecerse con él es el sueño de muchas mujeres.

And she is no exception. Only with her, there’s a catch.

Before she’s truly ready to meet the one, there are some things she simply needs to accomplish. And she fully plans on doing just that.

She wasn’t put on this earth to be in the constant search for her one.

She wasn’t put here to always be looking over her shoulder wondering if she missed the boat.

Hay tantas cosas que hacer, tantos lugares que ver y ella quiere hacer tantas de esas cosas antes de establecerse y cambiar su estilo de vida.

Por ahora, tiene que pensar en sí misma.

Tiene que centrarse en lo que la hace feliz ahora y no en lo que podría hacerla feliz en el futuro. Y tiene un plan.

Hay 6 cosas que ansía hacer en este mundo antes de conocer por fin a su elegido, sabiendo que ha vivido su vida al máximo.

And only then will it be the right time for a change of pace — a change she will be fully prepared for.

Pero ni un minuto antes. Estas son las cosas que quiere conseguir antes de sentar la cabeza:

Quiere salir con tanta gente como sea posible

Quiere experimentar el amor en todas sus formas.

Quiere amar a diferentes personas en diferentes momentos, para ver qué es lo que realmente quiere que le dejen.

She doesn’t want to marry the first person who gives her the tingles.

Ella quiere salir con él y luego seguir adelante y experimentar diferentes tipos de amor.

And only then will she be able to say she’s been through it all and be finally ready to find her true love.

Quiere aprender a dejar de compararse con los demás

She doesn’t want to compare herself to an occasional gorgeous girl but she does!

She knows that’s not okay and she should stop but she can’t help it. So her goal before meeting the one is to be at peace with herself once and for all.

Quiere ser capaz de quererse a sí misma, sabiendo que es una persona única en este mundo y que las comparaciones son una pérdida de tiempo.

She is who she is and once she learns to love herself the way she loves everybody else, she’ll be ready for the real love that awaits her.

Quiere decidir lo que quiere para sí misma y no conformarse con menos.

She needs to figure out what she wants out of life. Right now, she doesn’t really know.

She’s interested in so many things and God knows what her future will look like!

And this is why she’s not ready for her one just yet. She needs to find time to explore her passions in order to figure out what makes her the happiest.

Y una vez que lo haga, estará preparada para centrarse en su vida romántica, sabiendo exactamente lo que quiere y nunca te conformes con menos .

Quiere pasar tiempo consigo misma

Yup! She wants to go on solo adventures! She wants to do stuff that makes her sing with joy and not have to adjust to anyone’s needs!

And guess what? That doesn’t make her selfish! It makes her awesome because she knows that sometimes you just have to put yourself first.

Llegará un momento en que toda su vida estará dedicada a su nueva familia (¡marido e hijos!) y se dedicará por completo a hacerlos felices.

But now, she’s solo and loving it! She wants to make the most out of every moment because God knows how long she has left before all that changes.

Y por eso antepone sus propias necesidades y disfruta al máximo de su propia compañía.

Quiere vivir según sus propias reglas

She wants to be the boss of her own life. She needs to be in charge of what she does and when she does it because she won’t always have that privilege.

Quiere vivir el momento y aprovechar cada oportunidad que tiene para hacer las cosas que le gustan.

She doesn’t want anyone from her world telling her how to live her life.

Her parents have taught her a lot and she appreciates her friends’ opinions but right now, it’s her way or the highway! And she loves it.

Quiere centrarse en sus amistades más cercanas

As we all know, life doesn’t always give you time to do everything you want and to spend time with all the people you love.

Por eso quiere conservar las amistades que le hacen la vida más fácil.

When she’s too busy having a hubby and little ones, she won’t have time to just drop everything and rush to her friends for a girly night and movies.

Así que quiere hacerlo ahora. Tiene gente a la que quiere más que a nada y quiere centrarse en ellos ahora.

She’ll go out and make a lifetime of memories with her mejores amigos .

Quiere pasarse los días cotilleando con ellas y no sentirse culpable por ello.

Those are the people she considers family. And even though she’ll love them forever, she won’t always have the time she has now.

Y piensa aprovechar cada segundo que tenga porque ellos son los que siempre han estado a su lado.