El amor es algo hermoso que se crea entre dos personas. Produce una sensación de euforia y felicidad inmensa.

But it’s really hard to understand the urge that some couples have to parade all their love on social media. It just makes it seem untrue and makes the rest of us feel annoyed.

Estas son algunas de las cosas que hacen las parejas inseguras en las redes sociales:

1. Cuentas conjuntas de Facebook.

I know most of the couples who have joint Facebook accounts want to show that they do everything together and that they are one. However, they should actually be two separate individuals who are united in their love. That doesn’t mean you have to do everything together.

Además, una de las razones para tener este tipo de cuentas son los celos. Quieres marcar tu territorio y mostrar al mundo que son sólo tuyos. Es una forma de evitar que alguien pueda ponerse en contacto con ellos sin que tú lo sepas.

2. Having each other’s passwords.

Los celos también son la principal fuerza detrás de esto. Y sólo demuestra tus inseguridades. Cuando envías un mensaje a una persona con ese tipo de perfil de Facebook y te responde, nunca sabes de quién es la respuesta.
It’s not a sign of a healthy relationship filled with trust. Even worse, if your friends can’t contact you and communicate with you privately, it destroys friendships. Let your partner breathe.

3. Publicar constantemente fotos y check-ins.

Someone might get the idea that they are included in your love relationship, like a constant observer. Is it really necessary to overshare? It’s OK to post something from time to time.

Compartir demasiado transmite el mensaje, “ Hey everyone, look at us, we are so in love. We are the perfect couple and we visit places together.” It’s like you are showing off and trying too hard to prove your love. It seems fake.

 

4. Largas actualizaciones de estado sobre su amor eterno.

El amor debe compartirse en privado entre dos personas. Un largo post sobre lo mucho que quieres a tu novia/novio es mejor y más significativo cuando se dice en persona.

You don’t need likes to prove your love.

5. Selfies semidesnudos.

Your sex life is nobody’s business. Half-naked photos from your bed or other locations are not interesting to anybody. Keep your sex life to yourself.

6. Peleas.

Not everyone needs to know that you and your girlfriend/boyfriend are in a messy fight. Don’t air your dirty laundry all over social media. It’s nobody’s business and it’s disrespectful to your partner.

Una relación forma parte de tu vida privada and it should be just that – PRIVATE.
People who are in happy relationships leave no trace of it on social media. They don’t have to prove it, they just feel it.