6 maneras de hacer que se arrepienta de no haberte apreciado

Hay una cosa segura en la que los narcisistas, los jugadores y todos los demás manipuladores son realmente buenos y es en dar a la gente por sentada.

It’s in their nature (most of the time) to think only about themselves and put their needs before others’.

It’s in their nature to expect you to keep giving all of yourself to them without doing anything in return.

The word reciprocity simply doesn’t exist in their dictionary (at least not in a boy’s dictionary). And contrary to them, women are the exact opposite.

Les daríamos todo lo que tenemos e incluso más mientras nos privamos deliberadamente de la felicidad, sólo para ser se da por sentado.

And that is why it’s time for you to take things into your own hands and make him regret not appreciating everything you’ve done for him!

It’s time for you to demand respect and make him regret not treating you the way you deserve and these 6 ways will help you achieve it.

6 maneras de hacer que se arrepienta de haberte dado por sentada

Reconocer su mierda

When something pisses you off, just tell him! It’s as simple as that.

No te quedes callada ni ignores sus malas palabras o acciones, pase lo que pase. Las mujeres han callado durante demasiado tiempo y ahora es el momento de empezar a hablar.

Si sabes que su comportamiento es egoísta y no está bien, díselo.

Acknowledge his bullshit to his face so that he knows you’re not a fool and you will not stay indifferent to his mistreatment. You owe yourself that much.

Deja de hacer cosas bonitas por él.

And for God’s sake, stop going out of your way to make him happy when you see that he’s not trying to do the same for you.

Let him know that you’re no longer the same person who used to give all of yourself only to appease him.

When he sees that you’ve changed, he’ll realize that maybe it is because of him. Maybe you stopped doing things you were usually doing because you’re sick of him not appreciating it.

It’s the only way for him to realize the mistake of his selfish nature.

Establecer normas

Lo más importante es establecer normas y atenerse estrictamente a ellas.

If you’re not happy with how he’s been treating you, set rules that will tell him you will no longer tolerate any of his bullshit.

When he sees that you have boundaries and you will not buy any of his crap anymore, he will know that it’s time to change or he will lose you.

Protégete y protege tu propia felicidad porque mereces ser su prioridad y no una opción. Mereces ser tratada de la misma manera que tratas a los demás.

Let him know that you’re perfectly fine without him

You need to make sure that he knows he’s not the center of the universe and your world doesn’t revolve around him.

Letting him know that you’re perfectly fine without him will make him realize that you have other priorities as well.

Divertirte sin él es lo mejor que puedes hacer por ti en este momento. Así que.., don’t waste your time averiguar qué hacer para que deje de darte por sentada.

Vive tu vida ahora. Y él empezará a temer que, si sigue tratándote así, puede perder lo mejor que ha tenido nunca.

Tener siempre dignidad

Nunca, jamás le persigas. Pase lo que pase, debes saber que no es culpa tuya y que no eres tú quien debe salirse de su camino y mendigar su atención o, peor aún, pensar que debes cambiar.

The only thing you should be doing is holding your head up high and not giving a damn about him until he starts giving you signs that he’s determined to change himself.

Camina con orgullo, habla con orgullo y niégate a recibir nada que no sea lo que mereces.

Let him know that if he doesn’t appreciate what he has, somebody else will

Give him some time to prove to you that he’s willing to make an effort and work on his treatment toward you.

And if he still doesn’t do anything about it, then let him know if he’s not ready to appreciate what he has, somebody else surely will.

If he’s not answering your calls, DO NOT call him again!

If he’s not being there for you when you need him most, DO NOT be there for him!

If he’s not making an effort, DO NOT wait a second longer.

Nunca debes permitirte hacerle creer que bailarás a su son, pase lo que pase.

Nunca debes permitirte estar satisfecho con la mediocridad porque mereces la grandeza. No lo olvides nunca.