6 razones por las que nunca deberías aceptar a un infiel

It’s so hard to find a faithful partner because it’s easier to cheat and hope the other one doesn’t find out than to talk to your significant other and tell them you are not happy or that you have a problem and you want to solve it.

La mayoría de mis amigos han sido engañados al menos una vez en su vida, que ellos sepan.

And I always told them the same thing: “You can forgive him, but things are never going to be the same.”

And it’s true. You will never be able to forget what he did to you.

Every time he touches you and kisses you, you’ll know that he touched and kissed her, too. You’ll know that you weren’t the only one.

Living with that burden is not easy, and no matter how sorry he was, he couldn’t be sorry enough.

No hay absolutamente ninguna excusa que pueda justificar sus acciones. Y lo que algunas mujeres hacen después de esta traición final es que toman su culo lamentable espalda.

They do it because they love him and despite the horrible thing he has done, they still didn’t stop loving him.

But, don’t do that mistake because things are never going to be the same. Your love for him will change and it will fade.

Estas son las razones por las que nunca deberías aceptar a un infiel:

1. He doesn’t love you enough

I know this is hard to hear, but it’s true. If he loved you the way you deserve, he wouldn’t have cheated on you.

It wouldn’t even have crossed his mind because you would have been more than enough. This way, he offended you and showed you he doesn’t respect you.

That is not love. Don’t fall for the mind game of convincing you that it’s your fault because you didn’t give him enough attention or you didn’t fulfil his needs.

There is a cure for that and it’s called ‘communication’. Too bad for him for not trying it sooner—now it’s too late.

2. Lo volverá a hacer

Si te quedas con él, inconscientemente creerá que lo que ha hecho no es tan malo porque le has perdonado.

Su mentalidad cambiará y empezará a hacer cosas que probablemente te harán daño porque le has demostrado que puedes superar cosas así.

That’s why he will probably do it again. He will cheat on you and turn you into an emotional wreck because he knows he can. He knows you love him and you will get over things which you wouldn’t normally.

3. Te avergonzó

When he chose to cheat on you, he did it willingly and on purpose—which means that he hurt you on purpose.

His deed showed that he doesn’t respect you and maybe even thinks that you are too dumb to find out he was cheating on you.

He didn’t care what other people think. He didn’t care that others might have known of his infidelity and they laughed behind your back, or felt sorry for you, but no one ever had the guts to say it to your face.

He didn’t care for any of that. He embarrassed you and moved on with his life. Do you want to live like the woman who was played for a fool and took him back?

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4. Nunca lo olvidarás

Puede ser tu mayor amor, puede ser tu mundo, pero también será el tipo que te engañó.

Será el tipo que traicionó tu confianza, fue a tus espaldas y te dejó en ridículo. Eso es algo que nunca olvidarás.

You can try, you can pretend, but the moment he goes out and doesn’t text you back, you will be wondering if he is with another woman again.

Recordarás todo lo que te hizo. Como recuerdas cuando te emborrachaste tanto que te caías por el bar.

It wasn’t your proudest moment, but you will remember it forever. You will remember him cheating on you forever and it will bother you every minute of every day.

5. Ya no hay confianza

His act only shows he didn’t give a shit about you. He was too selfish to take your feelings into consideration. It’s not like he didn’t have a choice.

Siempre puedes elegir y que eligió estampar en tu corazón and break it. He chose to cheat on you—he didn’t think twice about it.

How can you be sure he won’t do it again? How can you be sure when he goes somewhere that he is not cheating on you again. You can’t. You know what they say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

6. Te mereces algo mejor

If a guy betrays your trust and does something like this to you, let’s face it—he doesn’t deserve you.

Entonces, ¿por qué perder el tiempo con alguien así? ¿Por qué malgastarías tu tiempo tratando de hacerlo mejor, tratando de llevarlo por el buen camino?

He will never change and he chose it to be like that. If he had cared, he wouldn’t have cheated.

Ese hombre no merece tu esfuerzo ni tus lágrimas. Hay millones de otros que te tendrían a salvo en sus brazos, protegiéndote de todo. Nunca se les pasaría por la cabeza hacerte daño de la forma en que él lo hizo.

Don’t waste another minute of your life on a cheater because if he did it once, he will do it again. Period.