6 señales de que te estás desenamorando

Giving in to a relationship is hard. But giving up on one is even harder. It’s unimaginable to think that the person that was once our whole world is now as annoying to us as a pebble in a shoe.

Everything our partner does is getting on our nerves. We are feeling trapped and there are times when we just want to run away. Anywhere and nowhere, it doesn’t really matter. Just run away.

Those are signs that we are falling out of love and sometimes we mistake them with being overstressed or having some troubles in our work or in our lives, but by doing so, we only prolong the suffering—both ours and the person we are in a relationship with.

While it’s completely up to you to decide what to do with these signs, whether you are going to give your relationship another chance, take a break or completely break it off, it’s up to us to give you the list of the six most common and scientifically proven signs that you are falling out of love.

1. Sus imperfecciones empiezan a destacar

Dicen que sabes que tu amor es verdadero cuando lo amas por sus defectos, no a pesar de ellos. Te encantan todas sus peculiaridades y esas peculiaridades podrían ser incluso la razón por la que te enamoraste tanto de ellos. loca y profundamente enamorada con ellos en primer lugar.

Pero en el momento en que estas rarezas empiezan a molestarte es cuando necesitas parar un segundo y analizar vuestra relación y vuestros sentimientos.

Lo más difícil es mirar en tu interior y ver si queda algo de amor, pero se lo debes a tu pareja y te lo debes a ti mismo. Guiar a alguien es lo peor que puedes hacerte a ti mismo y a esa persona.

Are the quirks of your partner the reason why you can’t be around them anymore? Or is there something deeper than that?

2. Ya no te interesa intimar

Sometimes we feel like we can’t get our hands off of our partners and sometimes we don’t feel like even looking at them. Ups and downs in our sex lives are completely normal because life is tough, life is stressful and it all affects our libido.

But if you can’t even force yourself to look at your partner or you’re already running out of excuses why not to have sex with him, there could be something more than just stress draining you.

3. Cada vez piensas más en estar solo

When you think about your future and any of your future plans, your partner is not part of them. When you are thinking about possibilities where you could be happy in the future, your partner is not by your side. That is the biggest sign that you’ve fallen out of love.

La siguiente es que tengas la mirada perdida o incluso que te imagines con otra persona. Puede que te sientas culpable por ello, incluso puede que intentes reprimirlo todo porque te estás diciendo a ti mismo que quieres a tu pareja.

But are you really? Maybe your subconscious is trying to tell you something you don’t want to admit.

4. Tus prioridades cambian

Cuando estás en una relación, tu relación es tu centro de atención. Tu relación es tu prioridad. Pero cuando empiezas a desenamorarte, dejas de poner tu relación en primer lugar. El primer pensamiento de la mañana no es tu pareja, sino tu trabajo, tu libertad, tú mismo.

Your last thought of the day is not your relationship. It’s your daydreaming about your future but without your partner. The moment you stop making your relationship una prioridad es el momento en que esa relación está condenada.

5. Su comunicación ya no es correcta

Every functional and healthy relationship is built upon communication. It’s important to create a bond between you and to nourish your love, but what if your communication is not what it used to be?

¿Y si tus conversaciones son completamente en piloto automático, siempre las mismas cosas y siempre la misma cháchara? En ese caso, has perdido la conexión al perder la comunicación.

You can either work on it together or see if there are any more signs from the list that are unfortunately screaming you don’t belong together.

6. Te sientes atrapado

You feel like running away all the time. You feel like there is not enough oxygen around your partner. You feel like if your partner hugs you one more time you will die in his or her arms—your freedom will die.

For too long, I thought that there was something wrong with me because in every single relationship, I felt trapped. In every single relationship, I felt like I couldn’t breathe, like I couldn’t dream, like there would be no tomorrow if I didn’t leave.

But all it took for me to feel free in a relationship was the right person. And the same will happen to you. Just please don’t force yourself to stay with someone who makes you unhappy, to stay in a relationship where you feel trapped. Te mereces mucho más que eso..