Si hace estas 7 cosas, está listo para comprometerse

Los hombres no son tan fáciles de leer como podríamos pensar y existe esa eterna cuestión del compromiso.

Lo sé, crees que la mayoría son ciertas fóbicos al compromiso and they are. I don’t know what the reason is for that, but guys seem to want to have their ‘freedom’ more than anything.

Parecen luchar contra sus sentimientos incluso cuando aman a una chica y quieren pasar el resto de su vida con ella.

They just don’t want to be tied down. They want their options to be open.

In this light, most women avoid talking about commitment with their guys because they are afraid they will scare them off by being, in men’s eyes, too pushy.

Así que deja de obsesionarte pensando en tu relación y hacia dónde va y lee estas señales para estar segura de que él está preparado para comprometerse contigo:

1. Te llama para una cita real

Los hombres asocian las citas con una relación, con algo serio, por tanto compromiso.

Si es él quien le propone una cita, puede estar segura de que va en serio.

De lo contrario, se limitaría a mantenerlo informal con algunas llamadas de sexo y encuentros casuales, nada serio.

Also, if he asks you to hang out with him, be sure to ask him if he means on a date because you don’t want to be stuck with someone who thinks of you as a bit on the side.

2. Te habla de sus sueños

Si realmente le gustascompartirá contigo sus sueños y objetivos. Te dirá lo que quiere de la vida y cómo quiere que sea su futuro.

Through talking to you about these things, he’ll see if you have similar aspirations to him. If he is glad about what he has found out, he’ll stay in contact with you.

Los hombres quieren mujeres que les apoyen en todo lo que hacen. Un hombre quiere ser la mejor versión de sí mismo y con una mujer que le ayude a conseguirlo.

Si le preguntas por sus sueños y objetivos y la conversación se queda en algo sencillo, probablemente no le gustes tanto y deberías concluir que no va a comprometerse contigo.

3. Quiere pasar tiempo contigo

Inicia la relación contigo y se esfuerza continuamente por estar cerca de ti.

Aprovecha su tiempo libre para pasarlo contigo, lo que sin duda es señal de que le gustas mucho y quiere algo más que ser amigos.

But don’t jump to any conclusions, see if there are other signs that he likes you and if there are, then you are good to go.

4. Nunca se desquita contigo

He respects you enough and he doesn’t take his problems out on you. Whenever something is bothering him, he will retreat into his man cave and deal with it all alone.

Don’t push him into talking to you. He will do it when he thinks it’s the right time. But the point is, he won’t blame you for his problems.

If he really wants to commit to you, he will know that you have the right to have time to yourself and he doesn’t have the right to unleash his problems on you.

5. Quiere que conozcas a sus amigos y a su familia

Es una señal inequívoca de que quiere ir en serio contigo.

He has faith in you and he wants you in his life from that point on, that’s why he wants you to meet the closest and dearest people to him.

Also, he will do everything so that they like you and even if they don’t, he won’t give up on you.

En resumen, quiere que conozcas a las personas importantes de su vida porque tú también eres importante.

6. Se comunica con usted regularmente

No es uno de esos tipos que te mantienen hot ‘n’ cold. No le interesa jugar al hard to get porque esos juegos son para chicos y él no lo es.

Quiere ser claro y transparente contigo, quiere poner las cartas sobre la mesa para que las veas.

Can you remember those boys who texted you for days and now you haven’t heard from them for ages? Well, the one who wants to commit to you will never do that.

7. Es su verdadero yo cuando está contigo

And you are, too. The both of you are really genuine and you don’t have to fake anything.

You know that he won’t judge you for being yourself and he feels safe to be himself around you. Actually, that is the whole point.

There is no point in pretending to be something that you are not, because if your partner likes the person you’re pretending to be, then he doesn’t like you.

¿Y durante cuánto tiempo crees que alguien puede seguir actuando?

A person’s mask falls sooner or later and then it’s over. The two of you are different from that and he knows it.

He knows he can be himself around you and that’s why it wouldn’t be hard for him to commit to you.