7 cosas que hacen que los hombres se sientan inseguros y las mujeres ni siquiera se dan cuenta
Sí, tenemos el poder de hacer que un hombre se sienta inseguro (aunque suene raro).
Not every man is an alpha who believes in himself no matter what a woman says or does, that’s why we need to be careful. Men have feelings, too.
They will, of course, never tell us how they’re feeling or that what we have said has hurt them but that doesn’t change the fact that they start to doubt themselves or even the relationship.
There are many things that make a man feel insecure but most of the time we don’t even realize what we have done.
Tu ex
No matter what a guy says about your ex, no matter how many times he says that he doesn’t mind you being friends with him, he would like it much better if you would never see him again in your life.
When you mention your ex, he probably thinks about the way he kissed you, on those lips he’s kissing right now.
He thinks about how you two made love and he’s subconsciously comparing himself to your ex.
All your exes. It’s not that easy for him to forget that you loved someone else before you found him.
Tus amigos
Si te pones demasiado cariñosa con tus amigos, tu novio se sentirá muy inseguro.
If you hug your guy friends and talk about them often, it’s like putting worms inside his head that won’t ever leave.
He’ll remember those men for the rest of his life and he’ll try to tag along every time you go out with those friends just so he can keep an eye on them.
Comparándolo con otros tipos
Si usted compararlo con cualquier hombre ever, he won’t let that go for a long time, because that means that you have paid attention to something another man is doing or how another man looks.
Te haría sentir insegura que te comparara con otra mujer, así que ¿por qué lo haces?
Siempre te quejas
I get it, men make mistakes, just like women do. But that doesn’t mean that we have permission to complain about everything our partner does, right?
Así que, la próxima vez que le veas, qué tal si le dices que le aprecias a él y el esfuerzo que pone en la relación porque, de lo contrario, tus palabras pueden traer las mayores inseguridades.
Hiciste trampa
Not exactly in your relationship, but if you cheated on one of your exes and he knows about it, it’ll make him constantly fear that it might happen again.
He will analyze every conversation you have with another man and he won’t want to let you go out without him.
It’ll make him seem clingy and needy but he’s actually just insecure that you will leave him for another man.
Le faltas el respeto a sus sentimientos
Telling him to, “Be a man,” when he’s crying or showing you his emotional side isn’t really doing him a favor.
Los hombres tienen sentimientos tan fuertes como los nuestros, así que debemos apreciarlos.
By disrespecting his feelings and telling him, “Be a man,” or, “Men don’t cry,” you’re actually telling him that he’s not masculine enough to be with you and he will start to think that he’s not good enough for you.
You don’t compliment him
What happens when you don’t get a compliment from him that reassures you he’s acknowledged your hard work or efforts?
Te sientes insegura, quizás incluso enfadada, ¿verdad? Pues lo mismo pasa cuando le haces eso a tu hombre.
La próxima vez que llame a tu puerta, antes incluso de que diga nada, párale los pies y dile lo impresionante que está.
He’ll appreciate it and he won’t be insecure about it.
