7 señales de alarma que debe tener en cuenta en una nueva relación

La fase de luna de miel es la más bonita de una relación.

Todo parece ir sobre ruedas, tu vida es todo arco iris y unicornios, y nada podría destruir tu felicidad.

Odio ser quien rompa tu burbuja, pero no es el momento de que te descuides del todo.

There are some warning signs you should pay attention to right in the beginning of your relationship that could tell you a lot about its future. Here are 7 red flags you mustn’t ignore!

1. Habla mal de sus ex

One of the first signs that your new boyfriend isn’t any good is the fact that he bad-mouths his ex partners right from the start.

These were the girls he shared his life with and if he starts talking trash about them to you – someone he has just met – you should consider it a major bandera roja.

It is more than obvious that this guy doesn’t have any respect for women and that he doesn’t know the meaning of the world loyalty.

Después de todo, ¿qué puedes esperar exactamente de un tipo como él si os separáis?

2. O está demasiado cerca de uno de ellos

Staying on friendly terms with one (or all) of his exes is one thing, but her still being a part of your new boyfriend’s life is something completely else.

Puede ser una señal de que ambos tienen problemas sin resolver. Si ese es el caso, deberías huir cuanto antes y dejar que se ocupen de su propio drama.

The last thing you want is someone’s emotional baggage ruining your new relationship before it even really started.

3. He’s too good to be true

Cada una de nosotras quiere tener un hombre perfecto que haga realidad todos nuestros sueños y convierta nuestra vida en un cuento de hadas.

Sin embargo, que un chico sea demasiado perfecto a veces es una señal de alarma.

Let’s face it, all of us have our flaws, and if your man is trying so hard to hide his, it is clear that they’re quite serious.

Ten cuidado, podría resultar ser un narcisista disfrazado que está bombardeo amoroso uno cuyo objetivo final es manipularte y romperte el corazón.

4. He doesn’t respect your boundaries

Cuando se trata de una relación joven, los límites lo son todo.

You need to know that you can trust your new boyfriend, you can feel safe with him, and he’ll never make you do something you’re not comfortable with.

However, if he pushes you too hard and doesn’t have any respect for your boundaries, it’s time you reconsider your decision about dating him.

5. Habla mal de tus seres queridos

Uno de los mayores señales de alarma que debe tener en cuenta en una nueva relación es la forma en que tu novio trata a las personas que han formado parte de tu vida antes de que él entrara en ella.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not implying that he should kiss their ass or that he needs to try his best for them to like him.

However, he isn’t allowed to talk bad about your friends and family either.

Además de ser un signo de falta de respeto hacia usted y sus seres queridos, también puede ser uno de los primeros síntomas de los celos posesivos.

6. Escarba en tu pasado

Otro tipo de hombre con el que debes tener cuidado es el demasiado entrometido.

It is one thing if your boyfriend asks you some basic questions related to your romantic past – such as when was the last time you had a serious relationship –but it is completely different if he wants to know every single detail about it.

This guy is obviously not aware that your past isn’t his concern and he has no right to ask you any details about it that you don’t reveal of your own volition.

7. Espera que le prestes toda tu atención

Cuando conoces a un hombre que te ha dado prioridad desde el primer día y espera lo mismo de ti, te resulta reconfortante.

You’re happy that you’ve found someone who is clear about his goals, one who is so crazy about you that he wants you just for himself.

However, when the initial thrill fades and you look back at things, you come to realize that this was something you should have considered to be a red flag. And it really is that – a big warning to run for your life!