7 señales de que no eres más que un ligue

¿Eres una chica de compañía o la REAL?

Sadly, most girls nowadays don’t get when they are being played. They don’t get they are just a one-time thing and nothing more. And who can blame them?

Guys aren’t being honest and they have become pretty good at leading women on.

Only after a certain amount of time, when a woman becomes serious about him and their relationship, the truth comes out—¡tú sólo eras una aventura para él!

Para evitar jugar siempre un papel secundario y pasar a ser el centro de atención para variar, ten cuidado con las siguientes señales que le están gritando que sólo eres una aventura para él.

Realmente conoce el juego

And he knows it little too well—he plays for the Big Leagues. Somehow, you end up doing exactly what he wants.

You can even find out he’s married and of course, you want to break things off—but somehow, you are still in.

That’s how he works his magic!

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Su conversación va en otra dirección

Se convierte en algo sexual. Este es un problema con muchos hombres casados.

They can’t look at their wives as sexual and kinky human beings.

Sometimes, men have that insatiable, dirty, sexual desire which they need to use up and they can’t do it with their wives—so they look for a one-time thing.

Nunca te presentó a sus amigos

And he never will. He knows you are just a short time thing so he doesn’t even bother to make you part of his life.

If he was really into you, he would show you off and he would be proud for having you as his girlfriend—but he’s not.

His plans don’t include you

Da un paso atrás e intenta pensar en tu futuro. ¿Forma él parte de él?

Puede que para ti lo sea, pero ¿le has oído alguna vez hacer planes de futuro que te incluyan?

If you are just a fling to him, you probably didn’t. This only shows you that he isn’t planning on sticking around for much longer.

Evita besar y abrazar en público

This can mean two things—maybe he is married or he’s just an ordinary classic example of a douche who is playing you.

Affection doesn’t pick place or time—if he truly cares about you, he would show it anytime and anywhere.

He won’t text you back immediately

Puedes quedarte mirando el teléfono a la expectativa durante días, pero nada. Ese pitido esperanzador del teléfono no se oye por ninguna parte.

Of course, you won’t admit to yourself that you mean literally nothing to him, so you start making excuses for his behavior.

But I’ve got a newsflash for you—he couldn’t care less that his purposely ignoring you is making you stay awake at night.

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Esconde su teléfono

This is probably because he has tons of girls’ numbers in it—girls who are just like you—naive for thinking they are the only ones in his life.

He probably has their photos, too, because these kinds of guys won’t miss a chance to brag about their ‘accomplishments’ to their friends.

Así que de todos modos, nunca tendrás acceso a su teléfono. Y si es un verdadero Pro, ni siquiera verás su teléfono.

These guys are just the way they are and the best thing is just to stay away from them and avoid your heart being broken—because it will be at some point.

Don’t fool yourselves into thinking that you will change him—you won’t.