7 señales reveladoras de que no le gustas

A veces es realmente difícil descifrar a los hombres. En vuestra primera cita, os lo pasáis muy bien, todo parece perfecto y, de repente, ¡BOOM!

Empieza a actuar de forma extraña con excusas poco convincentes como que está muy ocupado o cosas similares. Al final, deja de responder a tus llamadas.

Le gustaría que alguien le dijera qué le pasa por la cabeza. Usted estaba bastante seguro de que una pareja perfecta y ahora empiezas a dudar de tus propios pensamientos.

Para evitarlo, presta atención a su lenguaje corporal. Te sorprenderá lo mucho que puedes aprender sobre una persona solo observándola.

So, the next time the two of you meet, observe the following body language signs that will reveal his true nature and indicate that he’s not that into you:

Sin contacto visual

You’re telling him some interesting stories about your childhood while his eyes keep wandering and he simply cannot look you in the ojos.

This indicates that he’s not that interested in what you have to say to him (if you’re sure that he’s not an introvert).

That’s why he cannot concentrate on you or what you’ve been talking about.

Another sign is if he’s looking at you but cannot hold his gaze longer than two or three seconds. After that, his eyes keep wandering and he has that weird facial expression, pretending he’s actually listening to you.

El síndrome de los brazos cruzados

If his arms are crossed (but first make sure that he’s not cold), it means that he’s subconsciously trying to create some kind of a barrier between the two of you.

His mind orders him to do it because he doesn’t feel that comfortable and that is why he’s subconsciously creating a barrier in order to retreat.

An additional indicator is if he’s not that engaged in the conversation and you’re the only one initiating it.

He’s faking his smile

La sonrisa es la herramienta más poderosa que puede decir mucho sobre nuestro estado de ánimo o nuestras intenciones.

Una sonrisa auténtica no requiere esfuerzo. Tus pómulos se elevan de forma natural, tus ojos brillan y pareces realmente feliz. Una sonrisa falsa es todo lo contrario.

You’ll know he’s faking his smile if during the conversation he seems like he’s trying too hard to smile.

Su sonrisa está lejos de auténtico and it looks ridiculous to you. It means he’s just trying to be polite but he’s not into you.

Su cuerpo y sus pies no apuntan en tu dirección

Los hombres suelen sentarse con las piernas abiertas cuando les gustas y disfrutan de tu compañía.

I know it sounds weird but it’s true and they’re not even aware of it. If his legs and feet are not pointed toward you, he’s indicating that he would rather be somewhere else.

Su cuerpo está intentando inconscientemente encontrar una salida y esa es la razón por la que sus pies apuntan hacia ella en lugar de hacia ti.

He’s constantly touching his nose

Another interesting indicator is his nose. If he’s constantly touching his nose, it means that something negative is going on in his head. It can also mean that he’s lying to you.

Otros indicadores son la inquietud y la incapacidad para mantener la calma.

Así que presta atención a su nariz para reconocer estos sutiles indicadores que pueden ayudarte a revelar la verdad.

He’s scratching his hair

If you’ve ever observed someone trying to solve a difficult task (be it an exam or something else), you’ve probably noticed how they start scratching their hair in order to find a solution for that particular problem.

That way, our body indicates that we’re confused. We don’t know how to solve the problem and it’s making us feel uneasy.

So, if he starts scratching his hair, know that something’s going on in his head.

He’s probably not that into you and he’s confused by you and his mixed emotions. He doesn’t know how to react.

He’s sitting on the edge of his chair

Does his sitting position appear very unnatural to you? Is he sitting on the very edge of the chair, like he’s preparing to be catapulted to Mars?

If the answer is yes, his body is trying to tell you that he’s tense and he doesn’t feel comfortable around you. His body indicates that something’s wrong and that he is most probably not into you.

But this one is tricky. It can also indicate that he’s head over heels for you and he’s very excited about everything you’re about to say next.

If you’re not sure, check other signs to confirm your doubts.

Antes de llegar a una conclusión, asegúrate de que todas estas señales de lenguaje corporal (o algunas de ellas) van seguidas de otros indicadores relevantes, como su forma de hablar, su porte general y su comportamiento.