30 señales inequívocas de que le gustas

Las mujeres son complicadas, lo sabemos. A menudo dicen una cosa, pero piensan otra totalmente distinta.

Then they expect you to read their minds, and they get angry with you if you don’t guess what they want.

Algo parecido ocurre cuando se sienten atraídos por ti. Si realmente les gustasnunca lo admitirán y se acercarán a ti de sopetón.

Sometimes, a girl will send you a bunch of subtle body language signs she likes you but probably won’t say a word about her feelings. Of course, you’re supposed to read each one of these clues and act accordingly.

Wouldn’t dating be much simpler if we all just caminamos hacia nuestro enamoramiento¿Sin rodeos, sin rodeos?

All you would need to do is to be brave enough to squeeze a couple of sentences through your teeth: “I like you. Do you like me? Should we give it a try?” It would be as simple as that.

No mind-reading, no wrapping your head around whether she’s interested or not.

But, unfortunately, or luckily, things don’t go that way—I said luckily because maybe dating and chasing girls would be kind of boring if it were so simple.

Living in suspense, waiting for that ‘yes or no’ text brings a certain thrill to the whole thing.

It leaves us with memories, bad and happy ones, funny or embarrassing situations—something that we can remember and think about in the future.

Don’t be down.

It’s not impossible to enter a woman’s mind—you’ll have to do your best, but it’s not impossible.

Sólo necesitas aprender algunos trucos de lenguaje corporal para saber si le gustas a una chica.

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Señales del lenguaje corporal que indican que le gustas

I’ll be honest here: there is no universal pattern that applies to every single woman in the world. Keep in mind that some girls are shy, while others don’t have a problem openly coqueteando contigo.

Also, some enjoy the chase more than others, so they’ll deliberately send you subtle body language cues and hints. That’s their way of keeping you on the hook but at the same time, not sending enough signals for you to be 100% sure they’re into you.

De nuevo, hay chicas que sólo quieren que dar el primer paso. They’ll accept your fecha invitación but they certainly won’t approach you first.

What I’m trying to tell you is that your girl doesn’t have to necessarily display each one of the signs listed below for you to be sure she’s interested. Nevertheless, she’ll send some of these signals for sure- that is, if she’s into you.

So buckle up and take notes- even if there doesn’t exist a girl you want to figure out now, someday, these tricks will come in handy.

Contacto visual

Los ojos son los espejos del alma. If you look into someone’s eyes, you can hack exactly how that person feels and what she thinks. Eyes will never deceive you.

When a girl hides her feelings, she might even be rude to you. She might not text or call you and she definitely won’t tell you she likes you.

Those are the reactions she can easily control. Maybe her brain is telling her that you’re not for her or she just wants you to work harder for her attention- the possibilities are endless.

But the thing she has no control over whatsoever is her eyes. Even if she does her best to hide it, you’ll see that little spark in her eyes every time she looks at you or even when you just enter the room.

Sometimes, she’ll be unaware that she is looking at you. Or maybe she’ll do her best to stare at you when she thinks nobody sees her.

Either way, the point is that her eyes will tell you a lot about this girl’s feelings. This is exactly why they’re the first thing you must pay attention to.

Contacto visual prolongado

The first subtle sign of a girl who is into you is the fact that she is desperate to make eye contact. Not only that- but even when you look back at her, she won’t look away.

Es lo que se denomina contacto visual prolongado. Para que el contacto visual sea prolongado, debe durar al menos 7 segundos.

Don’t worry, I’m not telling you to count the seconds- I’m sure you’ll understand when a girl is looking at you.

You know that feeling when someone stares at you and you just feel it? You’re not even looking in their direction at the moment but it’s like their eyes are calling your name.

Well, that’s exactly what’s going on here. This girl can’t keep her eyes off you, as much as she tries.

Si te mira varias veces, definitivamente le gustas. Créeme, quiere que te des cuenta de que alguien te está mirando.

Also, she is probably analyzing every little detail about you. No, she is not looking for your flaws so don’t feel too self-conscious.

Al contrario, probablemente esté admirando tu aspecto, tu cara, tu cuerpo, tus expresiones faciales y algunas otras cosas, como la forma en que sostienes el vaso.

Además de todo esto, todos los entrenadores de citas te dirán lo mismo: las chicas usan los ojos como arma para dar el primer paso.

Por ejemplo, cuando un chico le gusta una chica, he’ll probably approach her, get her a drink or just directly ask for her number. But let’s be honest: despite all the reglas de la datación modernala mayoría de las mujeres no son tan directas.

Basically, they will just sit there, stare at you until you realize that they’re attracted to you. Yeah, it would be a lot easier if you didn’t have to decode their looks but these are the female body language signs of attraction and you’ll just have to deal with it.

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Mirar hacia otro lado

So, check this out. Sometimes, when a girl doesn’t look at you- she might still be into you.

Of course, I’m not talking about that girl who didn’t give you one single look during the entire evening- I hate to break it to you but that one probably isn’t interested.

I’m talking about those girls who give you a quick glance and then look away. I bet you know exactly the look I’m talking about.

Parece ciencia espacial, lo sé. De hecho, la mayoría de los hombres que no tienen experiencia en citas entenderán esto como una señal para retroceder.

Sin embargo, cuando una chica quiere enviarte una sutil señal de lenguaje corporal de que le gustas, apartará la mirada después de mirarte brevemente.

Women wouldn’t be women if they didn’t complicate things, I know.

Un vistazo a su cerebro

Voy a intentar simplificar las cosas: hay dos tipos de looks.

One is straightforward—and you’ve hit a home run—while the other is subtle. She looks at you, but she hides the fact that she looks at you.

These girls that are hiding will never ever approach you—either they are shy or they simply don’t have enough confidence to start up a conversation.

Another reason why this happens is that they don’t want to be caught. Sometimes, women think that you’ll think of them as more valuable if they jugar más duro para conseguirlo.

It doesn’t make much sense- I know. But if a woman is about to fall in love with you and she is aware of that- the last thing she would want is for you to notice it.

She doesn’t want you to “win” this game of cat and mice. If she exposes her feelings, she’s scared that you’ll instantly cool off or that you’ll stop luchando por su atención.

On the other hand, if you don’t like her back, she’ll come out as desperate. At the same time, she knows that her eyes don’t lie.

Of course, you’ll realize a girl is into you if she keeps on checking you out. What else could you possibly think?

Well, to avoid that- she’ll just look away. But sometimes, she has to treat herself with a sneak peek- because the truth is that she can’t take her eyes off you.

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Jugando con su pelo

Nice, long, shiny hair is a powerful sign of sexuality and femininity—and women are aware of that. Come on, what woman do you know that’s not obsessed with her hair?

Every time something big happens in their life, the first thing they change is their hairstyle, haircut, or hair color. That’s how important hair is in every girl’s life.

It’s what makes girls girls, am I right? Don’t get me wrong- this is not me saying that a woman can’t have short hair.

I’m just referring to the fact that long hair, braids, ponytails, or pigtails make women feel more feminine from a very young age.

Their self-esteem usually depends on the type of hair day they’re having and they invest a lot of time and effort in making it perfect.

¿Qué te dice esto? Te dice que las chicas están muy acomplejadas por su pelo.

Trust me: when her hair is on point, she doesn’t have to be wearing any makeup and can be walking around in old sweatpants- every woman will feel like she’s on fire.

So, it shouldn’t come to you as a surprise that every girl’s hair has to be absolutely perfect when she is talking to a guy she’s into. This is especially true if we’re talking about long hair- she’ll be touching it every few seconds.

So, if a girl who has an eye on you is playing with her hair while you are around, if she’s tossing it, it’s a señal de lenguaje corporal de que likes you. It’s like this girl is telling you: “Look how amazing my hair is.”

Otros signos de lenguaje corporal que le gustan

Also, there are a few more telltale signs she is interested in. She’ll probably tilt her head or stretch out and touch her neck like it’s sore and she is hurting—in translation, “I need a neck massage badly”.

Make sure you are the one who’s going to make the pain go away.

Contacto físico

It’s a common fact that women avoid touching people they don’t like. They keep people they don’t like and are not close to away from their personal space.

Pero si le gustas, aprovechará cualquier oportunidad para tocarte. Créeme, esta es una gran señal de que ella siente... fuerte atracción sexual de ti.

She might lightly hit you on the hand if you told a good joke or she might place her hand on our shoulder when she sees you and asks how you’re doing.

Any contact is a good sign, even those ‘accidental’ ones like brushing against you in the hallway just to feel your abs.

Here is another positive sign you shouldn’t ignore: a girl fixing your clothes or removing lints from your clothing. It’s just an excuse to make some physical contact, to feel you up, and to examine your body temperature: does it get up when she comes near you?

Las mujeres son provocadoras cuando ligan, y les gusta el juego de la persecución más de lo que crees.

The point is that this girl just can’t help herself. She feels this uncontrollable urge to touch you and that’s exactly what she does.

Un vistazo a su mente

She would be the happiest if she could hug or kiss you right on the spot. So, why doesn’t she just do it, you must wonder.

Well, she doesn’t have the courage. Or she thinks it would be inappropriate. Or she waits for you to make the first step.

Or she thinks that you would push her away since you don’t see her like that. Or she is just testing the waters.

The possibilities are endless here. And at the end of the day, you don’t really care why she is doing something- you’re only interested in WHAT she’s doing.

La conclusión es que te toca de una forma u otra.

Labios

Every woman’s lips are her strongest weapon. Of course, her smile is a trigger and her kisses are the bullets.

But before you get to some real actions, she’ll use her lips to send you some serious signos físicos de atracción.

A woman can use her lips so your jaw drops and you want to take her into your arms as soon as possible—in these situations you are helpless.

Muchas mujeres aprovechan la situación cuando saben que un chico las está mirando para hacer movimientos con los labios que te hacen temblar las rodillas.

It’s like she’s giving you a little introduction to the things that await you if you two hook up. I know you’ve wanted to kiss her up to now but from the moment she starts teasing you with her lips- you can’t wait to seal this little game with a passionate French kiss.

Morderse o lamerse el labio

O bien se muerden el labio inferior a cámara lenta fingiendo que ignoran por completo que les estás mirando y babeando como un personaje de dibujos animados, o bien se los lamen lentamente para humedecerlos.

Además, pintarse los labios de forma sensual es una de sus armas más potentes. Nadie puede quedarse indiferente viendo esos movimientos profesionales.

Before you know it, you’ll catch yourself staring at her lips that move in slow motion. Actually, you’ll probably be one step away from drooling.

Mirando fijamente tus labios

What does it mean when a girl looks at your lips? But let’s get one thing straight: she doesn’t just give them a glance- she literally stares.

Well, isn’t it obvious, you fool? She wants you to kiss her so badly. You probably didn’t take all of her other hints so she was forced to proceed with open body language.

Arqueamiento de la espalda

Back arching is that movement when women push their boobs in front and their bottom back. Basically, they want their main attributes to stand out even more so they often exaggerate their body’s natural curvature.

Una mujer arquea la espalda para que sus pechos destaquen más y su físico resulte elegante y, por tanto, seductor.

¿Por qué hace esto tu chica? Bueno, si ella empieza a hacerlo en el momento en que entras en la habitación- que es, sin duda, tratando de llamar su atención.

I know what you’re about to say: you don’t like her just for her culo grande y tetas grandes– you want to get to know her personality.

I’m sure you’re being honest but come on, we all know physical appearance is the thing that will atraer a cualquier hombre...incluyéndote a ti, al principio.

Pero cuidado, porque arquear la espalda puede ser complicado. Es una herramienta de seducción a distancia.

Why can it be a tricky one? Don’t mistake stretching for seduction. Maybe she was just tired—always double-check the signs on your list.

Rubor

Blushing is the first sign of nervousness. It’s like that in little children and it remains that way throughout our adulthood.

Let’s face it- we all blush from time to time. But some of us are lousier in this than the others.

This girl is one of those people. She is not immature and it doesn’t have to do a lot with her dating experience- sólo es tímida.

It means that she needs more time to open up about her feelings and to let you in. It’s not that you need to necessarily make a dirty joke for her to blush- it will be enough to engage in a conversation or start asking her some more preguntas personales.

Don’t worry- you’re not crossing the line here. It’s just a part of her personality and I hope you find it kind of cute.

Chicas tímidas really don’t know how to hide the fact that they like someone.

Aunque estén al otro lado de la habitación, si simplemente la miras, se sonrojará.

Por supuesto, hay otras razones para que se ruboricen, pero si esto ocurre más de una vez, entonces la razón eres tú.

On a side note, let’s go back a little to the part about eye contact. Remember how I told you about girls who look away after your eyes lock theirs?

Well, I was talking mainly about this type of shy girl. She is terrified that you’ll make fun of her or that she is looking ridiculous looking at you, so she’ll turn her head in the other direction.

Paseo seductor

A ninguna mujer le gusta que un cretino al que no ha dado ninguna señal le eche un vistazo, sobre todo si lo adereza con comentarios inapropiados o bromas ofensivas.

But what about a guy they’re into? Well, in that case, checking her out from head to toe is very much welcomed.

So, how can you know if you’re allowed to stare or not? Again rocket science, I know.

Let me reveal to you a little secret: when a girl is sitting down (even if it’s on a barstool), you can’t see her entire body or her outfit, right? Well, she knows that as well.

That’s why she will make excuses just to pass by you. And guess what? It will not be an ordinary walk.

Caminará lentamente junto a ti, agitando su caderas encantadoras back and forth to make them more prominent. It’s her weapon for capturing your attention.

It’s also likely that she’ll bring a friend with her. Well, first of all, not to be that obvious. Secondly, she wants moral support.

Last but not least- her friend is checking whether you’re looking while the object of your affection can focus on looking her best (and completely uninterested, of course.)

Mirar por encima del hombro

According to all relationship experts, women have a very specific look they will give someone when they’re interested in them.

Levantará ligeramente el hombro y te mirará de perfil. Este es uno de los signos del lenguaje corporal que le gustas.

This is a pose you’re most likely to see in magazines. If she looks over her shoulder at you with a smile on her face, that’s a surefire sign that she’s into you.

Let me tell you another secret- all women have the “good side” of their face. This might sound ridiculous to you but I swear, it’s the truth.

Algunos creen que su perfil izquierdo es más bello, mientras que otros piensan lo mismo del contorno de su cara derecha.

¿Por qué es importante para ti? Bueno, le gustas a esta chica y quiere gustarte a ti.

That is exactly why you’ll almost always get the famous look over the shoulder from her better side. Pay closer attention and you’ll see how right I am.

Si la pillas mirándote más de una vez, ¿a qué esperas?

She can’t keep her eyes off of you and obviously, she can’t take the smile off of her face while she’s doing it.

Cruces de piernas

Cuando una chica cruza las piernas cerca de ti, no hay duda de que se siente atraída por ti.

This is something she can’t control because she is either nervous or she wants you to know that you have her undivided attention.

Next time, pay attention to where her knee is pointing. If it’s pointing at you, then go for it because it’s a clear sign she likes you.

Ante todo, así sus piernas tienen mejor aspecto. Una pierna presiona a la otra y su tono muscular se ve inmediatamente más alto.

En segundo lugar, esta posición le ayuda con su postura. Parece mucho más femenina y le recuerda que debe arquear la espalda.

Finally, it can also be a sign that she’s thinking about your potential sexual encounter. She is turned on but she can’t help herself at the moment so she just crosses her legs to at least feel something.

But please, be aware that not every woman’s body language is identical. The leg crossing isn’t enough for you to think that a girl wants to sleep with you.

It’s one thing if it’s followed by some other signals. Nevertheless, you still must respect her espacio personal y límites.

Jugueteando con las joyas

Every girl feels better when she looks better. She doesn’t have to follow all the trends- what matters is that she is satisfied with her appearance.

Y los accesorios son una de las cosas que las mujeres adoran. Cuando digo accesorios, pienso sobre todo en joyas.

Psychologically, a woman’s jewelry makes her feel attractive and more confident.

If a girl is playing with her jewelry while she’s talking to you, that’s a sign that she’s into you.

She’s not aware of it—it’s the same as playing with her hair or crossing her legs.

It’s not that she wants you to pay attention to her jewelry. She is just nervous to the point that she finds comfort in playing with it.

She’s so lost in you, in your words, and in nervousness that she can’t control the little movements she does with her legs or hands.

If she’s playing with her necklace, ring, or twisting her earrings, the only thing that’s left for you to see is on which level she’s interested in you.

Su voz cabecea a tu alrededor

This is another thing women can’t control when they’re with someone they like.

Her pitch will get a bit higher once she’s around you, and you can see that she’s interested in you by watching how excited she acts.

On the other hand, if a woman doesn’t like a man, her voice will get deeper.

I know you must think this is a bunch of nonsense but it’s actually been scientifically proven.

If you want to know something interesting: a woman’s voice is one of the things that makes her more attractive to women. This is especially true during a woman’s fertile period of the cycle.

How nature regulates itself perfectly, doesn’t it?

Pies apuntándote

Here is another trick nobody probably told you about. In fact, I bet this is something you pay no attention to whatsoever. Well, it’s time you start.

When a girl is into you, she’ll stand as close as possible to you- we already know that. But what matters, even more, is the position of her feet.

This girl’s feet will be pointed at you at all times.

Basically, we all point our feet towards the direction in which we want to go. So, if you’re standing alone or in a group and this girl’s feet are pointed away from you or from the rest of the group, she wants to go away desperately.

But even that doesn’t have to be a sign that she doesn’t like you. Don’t forget that not every woman’s body language is the same.

Sí, esto demuestra que quiere salir. Sin embargo, ¿se te ha ocurrido que en realidad se siente incómoda hablando contigo?

No porque no esté interesada, sino porque es tímida y está muy nerviosa en tu presencia.

Reflejar su lenguaje corporal

Mirroring is one of the strongest subconscious languages of affection and empathy. When we mirror someone’s behavior, we usually have a deep connection with that person- or at least, we want to have one.

There is an entire psychology behind mirroring one’s non-verbal language. It happens without either of the people being aware but it actually sends a strong message.

¿Se ríe cuando tú te ríes? ¿Imita el tono de tu voz?

¿Imita tus gestos con las manos? ¿Hace expresiones faciales similares a las tuyas?

¿Imita tu postura? ¿Camináis sincronizados y al mismo paso?

¿Cuántas veces os ha pasado que empezáis o dejáis de hablar exactamente en el mismo momento? ¿Alguna vez os habéis mirado (o desviado la mirada) al mismo tiempo?

Bien, ahí lo tienes: estas son todas las señales del lenguaje corporal de que le gustas. Pero no solo eso: también es una señal de que estáis más unidos de lo que crees.

Estar cerca de ti

Other body language signs that she likes you include this girl’s being constantly near you. It’s not that she’s invading your space- she’s letting you inside of hers.

And that’s a big deal for most girls, especially the shy ones. It’s proof that this woman feels safe around you.

Inconscientemente, sabe que nunca hagas nada que la lastime. Así que baja la guardia, ya que no corre peligro.

You might find this funny but most women have some kind of radar. They’re constantly in fear (which they’re usually unaware of) of a man who is physically stronger than them (and let’s face it, that’s how things are in most cases) hurting them this way or another.

That’s why they keep their fence up when they’re around men they don’t trust. Sin embargo, esta chica se siente diferente a tu alrededor.

Confía en ti lo suficiente como para abrirse a ti y dejarte cerca de ella.

Besides, she really enjoys your presence. She feels nice whenever she’s around you, especially when you’re close enough so she can feel your skin on hers.

Otra razón por la que hace esto es seducirte. If you two are with a larger group of friends or in a crowded place, she’ll always lean toward you.

She wants you to feel her breasts and to smell the scent of her perfume. She is doing this on purpose since she knows this will turn you on. And I’m sure you don’t mind at all.

Palmas sudorosas

Ya escribí sobre algunos signos de nerviosismo de una chica a la que le gustas. Bueno, palmas sudorosas entran en este criterio también.

This is another female body language sign of attraction she has no control over, similar to blushing. And trust me, she’d be the happiest if she could.

This girl’s heart rate skyrockets every time she’s with you. So, if you try to hold her hand or if you guys still shake hands, you’ll notice that her palms are completely wet.

There is nothing disgusting about this- have in mind that it’s just a body’s perfectly normal reaction. If her hormones go wild, she could even get sweat stains under her armpits.

But we all sweat, don’t we? So please, just don’t make a big deal about it.

Actually, don’t comment on it at all. If you do, you’ll make her self-conscious about something she is not in charge of.

As a result, she’ll start sweating even more and she’ll probably avoid any contact with you in the future, regardless of her feelings.

What you can do is try and make her feel as relaxed as possible. This kind of reaction will probably go away any time soon and she’ll be able to enjoy every moment spent with you without wondering if you noticed her sweat.

Los límites personales están abiertos

Durante algún tiempo, observa a tu chica. ¿Cómo se comporta con otros chicos? ¿Y cómo se comporta contigo?

There is a difference, right? It’s like some of her personal boundaries are open exclusively to you.

But theoretically, you’re nothing más que su amiga. You don’t have the title of her boyfriend- at least, not yet.

Well, isn’t it clear that she wants you to become one?

Por ejemplo, fíjate en el contacto físico que tiene con los demás y compáralo con el que tenéis vosotros dos.

Look at the way she hugs her other male friends and then look at the way she hugs you. I’m sure she lets you keep her in your arms a bit longer.

How would she react if her friend picked her up out of nowhere while you’re all walking? I bet she’d be furious.

And what about you? I’m sure she’d laugh and tease you even more.

This also goes for physical distance between her and other people. You’re the one she sits the closest to, aren’t you?

He aquí un consejo de relación pro-bono: esta chica probablemente te está viendo como material para novios potenciales and it’s your job not to ruin the image she has.

Pupilas dilatadas

He aquí un poco más de ciencia. Esto será especialmente útil para aquellos de ustedes que no son tan grandes en las interacciones sociales y tienen un problema con la lectura a través de los signos.

This is something you can’t possibly go wrong with so let’s check it out.

Remember how we talked about oxytocin? Well, guess what: it’s not the only love hormone in the book. What also counts is dopamine.

Básicamente, tienes ambos en tu sistema siempre que you’re infatuated with someone. Even though these hormones affect male and female systems slightly differently, we all get dosed up the moment when we’re attracted to someone.

Bien, lo que necesitas saber aquí es que la combinación de estas hormonas hace que tus pupilas se dilaten.

Therefore, if your girl’s pupils suddenly get bigger than usual the moment she starts talking to you- it’s one of the body language signs she likes you. I’m not the one saying it- science does.

Reírme de todos tus chistes

Making people funny is not an easy task. But it’s an important one and sure is a huge part of dating and cortejando a y de la relación que tienes con esta chica también.

I hate to break your bubble but dude, you’re not that funny. You can be a professional stand-up comedian but it’s literally impossible for one person to laugh at every single joke you make.

But wait, what’s that? You tell me that all of your ex-girlfriends laughed at your jokes as well?

Exactly my point! What did all of these girls have in common? That’s right: they were all in love with you.

Whenever you tell something remotely funny, this girl bursts into laughter. She doesn’t care if the rest of your friend group doesn’t find you amusing- her eyes literally shine when you turn into a comedian.

Déjame decirte que esta chica es tu fan número uno. ¿Sabes cuál es la mejor parte?

She’s not even pretending to like your sense of humor. She’s not doing it to get under your skin.

No, she’s not one of those pick me, choose me girls. She’s not doing it to be the center of attention either.

Esta mujer realmente te encuentra hilarante. Cada una de tus líneas la deja boquiabierta y no hay mucha lógica detrás de eso.

¿Qué otras pruebas necesita realmente?

Well, if you insist…

Preening

When you’re in a relación duradera, it becomes impossible to look your best in front of your partner at all times- especially if you’re living together.

Sin embargo, al principio, cuando acabamos de empezar a salir o, más aún, cuando acabamos de empezar a flirtear, todos queremos que el cuento de hadas cobre vida.

Women are always perfectly waxed and brushed, have full make-up on, and wear the most seducing perfume you’ve ever smelled.

This is not false pretenses. It’s just girls’ way of arousing interest in boys.

Well, that’s exactly what the object of your infatuation is doing. She is making sure you always catch her at her best and that’s why she’s adjusting herself and preening all the time.

Of course, let’s not forget that she’s also doing it because she is nervous as hell. It’s an efficient way to keep her hands busy (so you don’t see them shaking and her palms sweating).

Inclinando la cabeza

If we listen to science, we’ll say that a head tilt is a submissive body language signal. It’s what animals do when they expose their neck and throat and surrender to the enemy, which is another animal

But when we humans are concerned, it’s one of the female body language signs of attraction.

It’s the movement a woman performs when she is listening to you carefully, when she is sympathetic to your problems and issues, and when she’s interested in what you have to say.

Esta señal por sí sola no basta para concluir que le gustas a una chica. Puede que solo esté siendo amable y educada y que realmente quiera escuchar lo que tienes que decirle.

No obstante, si la muestra junto con algunas (o la mayoría) de las demás pistas de esta lista, el caso está cerrado.

Postura corporal abierta

Open body posture means that the vulnerable part of your body- the trunk is exposed to another person. In flirting, this usually refers to the woman’s torso because it’s nothing unusual for her to have her legs crossed.

Los brazos cruzados en el pecho es una postura de lucha y significa que la persona no está preparada para abrirse.

On the other hand, if your girl has an open body posture, you’re one step closer to ending up in her arms.

Cambio de personalidad

Not every girl will admit this but in most cases, their personality drastically changes the moment their crush enters the room. Of course, I’m not saying that she’ll suddenly change her attitudes and moral values just to become more likable to you.

I’m just talking about the way her posture, tone of voice, and non-verbal language changes whenever you’re around. Suddenly, she becomes more girly in order to reveal her feminine side.

Algunas mujeres se vuelven más ruidosas (a veces, incluso sin ser conscientes) para llamar su atención. Por otro lado, algunas se vuelven más calladas porque quieren dejar una impresión de chicas con buenos modales.

At the end of the day, the point is the same: whenever you’re around, she becomes a whole different person.

But you can’t know this for sure, can you? You have no way of knowing how she acted while you weren’t around.

Well, in that case, follow her friends’ reactions. If they ask her what happened out of the blue or start accusing her of not being herself- that’s your proof.

Signos no verbales de celos

So this girl isn’t your actual girlfriend. Therefore, theoretically, she has no right to be jealous. You’re a single man and can do whatever the hell you want.

But in practice, things don’t work that simple. It’s not like she can order herself not to be jealous just because she doesn’t have a label.

When you like someone, you want them for yourself only. And you’re jealous of everyone near them, whether you have the right to feel that way or not.

Nevertheless, you can’t hide body language cues of jealousy.

Whenever you mention another woman in this girl’s presence, she makes that face. Yes, the one with the sad eyes, looking at you like a little puppy whose ships have sailed.

If you happen to dare to introduce her to a girl you’re dating or she knows you are in some kind of a relationship with, you’ll understand the real meaning of the phrase “If looks could kill”.

She probably won’t have a real arrebato de celos pero podría salir furiosa de la habitación o hacer comentarios desagradables sobre la tercera chica.

Tras su reacción

She won’t be only laughing at your jokes (even when they’re awful), she’ll also do her best to show you that she also has an outstanding sense of humor (she probably doesn’t but don’t tell her that).

Let’s picture it: you two are with a bunch of friends. She tells a joke. It doesn’t matter what kind of a joke it is or whether it’s really funny or not.

Everybody can die laughing but she doesn’t care. She is not interested in making a good impression on them.

She is only observing your reaction. She is not being too obvious about it but if you pay attention, you’ll see that what I’m telling is true.

If you don’t laugh as much as she hoped you would, you can literally see the sadness in her eyes. On the other hand, if you burst out of laughter, suddenly, she’s the happiest girl in the world (even if everyone else gave her a cold shoulder.)

Not only that: she also memorized the type of humor you prefer so that’s the only kind she is into as well now.

This girl wants to make you happy- at least, for a while. She loves it when you’re laughing, especially when she knows she’s the one who caused it.

Quiere que conectes ese sentimiento de alegría con ella. Quiere ser la fuente de tu energía positiva y tu alegría.

Flash para cejas

Esta puede ser una de las señales no verbales más fuertes de que le gustas a una chica.

Un movimiento característico de toda mujer encaprichada es una mirada seductora por encima del hombro, dejando al descubierto el otro lado del cuello.

Bare skin shows vulnerability—she is showing she is a delicate flower that needs to be nurtured.

If she wears glasses, she’ll just give you the look over them- you know what kind of a look I’m talking about. Or if she has a drink in front of her, she’ll look at you while taking a sip or while putting a straw in her mouth.

Te seduce con su mirada. Créeme, nadie lo hace mejor. Simplemente tienen esas cosas en ellas.

Sonreír mucho

We’re all happy when in the presence of the people we’re attracted to, especially if we’re falling in love. I’m sure you’ve heard of oxytocin, frequently called the love hormone.

Well, simply said, it’s the neurotransmitter that makes us happy. The point is that it is, among other times, released when we fall in love.

Ahí lo tienen: la respuesta a por qué este la chica tiene una sonrisa enorme en su cara cada vez que te ve, lo más probable es que sienta algo por ti.

Una sonrisa verdadera y sincera es lo mejor que se puede ver. Ver a alguien genuinamente feliz de estar en tu compañía.

Esa es sin duda una de las señales de lenguaje corporal más fuertes de que le gustas.

But be careful, don’t misinterpret her smiling at you—maybe she is a person who smiles a lot.

Check if she’s smiling to others as often as she is to you. If she’s not, you got it in the bag!

Respira hondo

Here is another good sign this girl is nervous as hell whenever you’re around: taking deep breaths. You know how they say: “You me deja sin aliento“.

Well, with you and her, this is much more than a phrase- it’s what you literally do. She gets so excited when she sees you or talks to you that she forgets how to breathe.

That’s why she has to take so many deep breaths- to restore the level of oxygen in her system.

It’s a well-known fact that deep breaths have a good impact on you. They lower your blood pressure, slow down your racing heartbeat and consequently, remove the stress out of the equation.

So, if you notice your girl doing this, don’t comment on anything because you’ll only make her even more anxious. Ignore it and let her go back on the track.

Fidgeting

What bigger sign of nervousness do you need besides fidgeting? Isn’t it obvious that this girl’s entire body is trembling in your presence?

Her hands shake, her feet shake- a common coping mechanism for stress. But don’t worry- you’re not a bad kind of stress for her.

Frente a ti

The same way this girl’s feet are pointed towards you, so is her face. Well, that is, if she is not too shy to keep looking.

When you have yourself a more confident girl, she’ll be looking you directly in the eyes (or occasionally glance over your mouth) and she’ll always face you.

Even if you two are not sitting next to one another, she’ll face you across the room. It’s just that she wants to see what you’re doing and who you’re looking at.

Gestos con las manos

Los gestos con las manos son una parte importante signos no verbales de atracción and communication in general. One of the body language signs she likes you is her hands on her hips. It’s a flirtatious move most girls use to emphasize their curves.

Also, let’s not forget that her hands will be all over you most of the time- we already talked about pricking pieces of lint and physical contact.

The bottom line is that you’ll almost always see her hands- that’s the hint you should pay attention to. She won’t hide them under the table or under her armpits.

¿Cómo saber si le gustas a una chica en secreto?

If a girl is into you but is hiding her true feelings, she’ll display most of the body signs she likes you, such as being close to you, looking you directly in the eyes and lips, smiling at you all the time, laughing at your jokes… She’ll also be your number one social media fan but the moment you see her in person, she’ll get all nervous around you.

This is a tricky situation, I must confess. On one side, you have all the signs right in front of you but on the other, you can’t be sure about her reasons to keep her feelings a secret and you certainly can’t force her into tearing down her walls.

In that case, I’ll give you some consejos sobre relaciones. Make a move on her but don’t be too pushy- just so she knows you like her as well.

If she turns you down, wait until she’s ready (if that’s something you’re willing to do). If she goes for it, live happily ever after and thank me later!

Para terminar:

Here you are guys—thirty proven body language signs she likes you. Check how many you have gotten from the list and make a move—it will be worth it!

Pero antes de seguir adelante, una pequeña advertencia: presta atención a su comportamiento y comprueba siempre todos los indicios.

Algunas mujeres son simplemente coquetas por naturaleza y su comportamiento no tiene nada que ver con que le gustes.