10 rasgos de personalidad que desaniman a cualquier mujer

It’s always about men and how they find women to be dramatic or needy but let’s put men in the spotlight and show them all the things they do, all the personality traits they have, that are apagones completos para las mujeres

Cuando las mujeres ven estos rasgos de personalidad, harán todo lo posible por salirse de su camino sólo para evitarlos.

1. Perforación

If a man starts talking about things that don’t have any order, any story behind it or don’t know when to stop talking, it gets annoying to the point where it’s nothing more than a turn-off.

Una mujer quiere alguien que tenga algo nuevo que enseñarles, alguien con quien puedan viajar por el mundo.

Not someone who doesn’t even know what they want from their life or what they want in a relationship.

It’s a huge turn-off is a man doesn’t want to go out with friends and have some fun, it’s just plain boring, and you can’t do anything with this type of man.

2. Posesivo

I am a free woman and I want to live my life the way I want. If you’re trying to tell me what to do, what to think and with whom I may or may not go out with, we have a problem.

Let me say this, just once—I am not your property. You must be used to women who want to belong to someone but a strong woman belongs to herself, so if you try to put her in a cage, she will turn her back on you and that’ll be the last you’ll see of her.

3. Melodramático

Believe me, women aren’t always the dramatic ones. If a man throws a tantrum every time a woman says something that isn’t to his liking, it’s nothing more than a turn-off.

Una mujer quiere a alguien que sepa aceptar las críticas constructivas y convertirlas en mejoras, no a alguien que piense que todo es ofensivo y dé un portazo.

4. Agresivo

Las mujeres son seres delicados y frágiles que quieren ser tratadas como pétalos de rosa. Sus corazones son quebradizos y necesitan ser tratadas con respeto.

Si llega alguien y trata de romperlo todo, las mujeres tienden a huir tan rápido como pueden.

Maybe it’s in your nature and you don’t mean to offend anyone but it still wouldn’t hurt if you tried to be a little more gentle.

5. Deshonestidad

Lie to a woman and you’ll lose all the trust she had in you. You can’t lie to her about anything without her leaving you.

You can tell her once that you’ve been out with your family but if you actually went out with some friends, she will hold it against you.

There is nothing a woman hates as much as when someone’s dishonest.

That means that you don’t respect or love your partner enough to be honest with them. It’s such a turn-off.

6. Egoísta

A las mujeres les encanta amar y eso conlleva mucho sacrificio. Siempre te dará el último trozo de tarta porque te quiere, siempre te dedicará un poco de su tiempo, todo porque te quiere.

But if she’s the only one sharing her life, then there’s something we need to discuss. You can’t be in a relationship and be selfish.

Relationships are about sharing secrets, sharing food, sharing a bed. There’s no room for selfishness in the eyes of a woman.

7. Pesimista

¿Cuántas veces has visto a una mujer quebrarse y luego volver a levantarse?

It’s because women are fighters who have faith in a better future and they hate it when someone tries to bring them down. There’s no room for pessimists in the lives of women.

8. Dependiente

Un fuerte, mujer independiente can’t be in a relationship with a man who can’t take care of himself.

Si necesitas que te haga todas las comidas de hoy y si necesitas que esté a tu lado y no salga nunca de casa, entonces tenemos un gran problema.

There is no woman out there who needs a man in her life who is dependent. It’s like taking care of a big baby.

It’s just a huge turn-off. If she can take care of herself, at least do the same.

9. Poco comunicativo

Como ya te habrás dado cuenta o no, a las mujeres les encanta hablar.

Simplemente nos encanta hablar de las cosas hasta el punto de que resolvemos todos los problemas de nuestra vida a través de la conversación.

That’s why if we need to drag every word out of you, there will come a point where we’ll stop trying.

Men who don’t know how to express their wants, needs or emotions aren’t really interesting to us.

10. Independiente

¿Cómo puedes desprenderte de todo y de nadie? Las mujeres son seres apasionados que se entregan demasiado a la gente sólo para sentirse vivas, ¿y tú qué haces?

Estás desvinculado to the point of not caring at all. That’s the biggest turn-off of them all.