Un hombre tiene un problema con el contenido de su mujer en las redes sociales y se pregunta si está equivocado
Tu marido debería ser comprensivo y apoyar tus decisiones, incluso animarte a que sigas el trabajo de tus sueños. ¿Verdad?
Well, it’ll depend on many different factors. Las personas suelen tener distintas preferencias en cuanto al trabajo de sus sueños, so someone’s dream job could seem inappropriate to their SO. If you need a reality check, Reddit is a great place to go.
The “sharent” problem
Un usuario llamado throwrasutwycompartió su historia y su punto de vista sobre AITA subreddit.
“My wife wants to be an influencer on TikTok and YouTube. She has been creating mommy content and content about her day to day life. When she told me this is something she wanted to do I didn’t have a problem with I only said that I don’t want our children (4m, 2f) in ANY of her content.”
Fairly reasonable I would say, the man cares about the safety and privacy of his kids and I couldn’t agree more. He made it clear that podía hacer lo que quisiera mientras los niños no formaran parte de su contenido.
The man thought the simple warning would work it out, but after a while, he checked her channels, and to his great surprise he found his kids’ faces in her content and got furious.
“I told her straight up she needs to remove all of her content, she said that she knew I wouldn’t agree but she doesn’t think this is a big deal.”
He explained why he doesn’t like to see the kids on social media: that kind of visibility makes them a “product” that brings profit and people (his wife actually!) start “acting” their ways of overcoming challenges of parenthood. He backs up his opinion with a good example:
“… she posted a video of her getting our 2 yr old out of a tantrum and how she deals with it but how is your first instinct to record and hold a camera whilst our baby is crying.”
Una amenaza de divorcio
En throwrasutwy asked his wife to remove the content, she was upset and didn’t want to give up on her dream. She couldn’t just erase everything she worked hard on, for months. The man was a cáscara dura:
“…if you don’t delete it I will consider a divorce.”
The Reddit poster continued explaining he wouldn’t mind if his children were on Instagram or Facebook posts, but videos are different. They are exposing some intimate aspects of kids’ lives that he finds inappropriate to be shared. But the wife wouldn’t give up on her dream:
“She told her friends and even hinted on her social media accounts that she has an over controlling and narcissistic husband that doesn’t want her on social media… ”
Sus amigos empezaron a burlarse de él y en algún momento, he wasn’t sure if he was being excesivamente controladora o narcisista.
Después de que algunas personas le preguntaran sobre el tipo de contenido que compartía su mujer, añadió más detalles explicando que la mayoría de los vídeos la mostraban jugando o dando de comer a los niños, pero aún así los había:
“the 2 types of videos I have problems with is her recording our children tantrums and our 2 yr old still doesn’t like clothes, we are trying to get her to wear them more but our house can be hot so she is in diaper alot. I don’t like the videos of our daughter in her diapers.”
Apoyo comunitario
Como probablemente puedas imaginar, la comunidad de Reddit apoyó su reacción. Alguien escribió:
“NTA – people who make profits from their kid’s misery are the AHs here, and it seems like your wife is more interested in being a TikTok celebrity than being a caring wife and mother.
No one should ever be shilling out their kids for likes and imaginary internet points.”
Everyone was disgusted by the way some influencers are exploiting their own children, and advised him to get a lawyer and protect his children. Some people said she wasn’t respecting his boundaries, and called his wife disrespectful, exploitative, and the one who’s being narcissistic.
Otro persona compartió el hecho no tan conocido: la mayoría de los seguidores de las mamás influyentes no son otras mamás, sino asquerosos a los que les gusta mirar a los niños.
Comparto totalmente la opinión pública encontrada en Reddit. Los niños son el tesoro más preciado y siempre debemos asegurarnos de protegerlos. Espero que encuentren un terreno común y lleguen a una solución que satisfaga a ambas partes.
If you’re too concerned for the privacy of your own kids, make sure to read the full hilo.
