Un uomo ha un problema con i contenuti della moglie sui social media e si chiede se non abbia torto
Il vostro maritino dovrebbe essere comprensivo e appoggiare le vostre scelte, persino incoraggiarvi a perseguire il lavoro dei vostri sogni. Giusto?
Well, it’ll depend on many different factors. Le persone tendono ad avere diverse preferenze riguardo al lavoro dei loro sogni., so someone’s dream job could seem inappropriate to their SO. If you need a reality check, Reddit is a great place to go.
The “sharent” problem
Un utente chiamato throwrasutwyha condiviso la sua storia e il suo punto di vista su AITA subreddit.
“My wife wants to be an influencer on TikTok and YouTube. She has been creating mommy content and content about her day to day life. When she told me this is something she wanted to do I didn’t have a problem with I only said that I don’t want our children (4m, 2f) in ANY of her content.”
Fairly reasonable I would say, the man cares about the safety and privacy of his kids and I couldn’t agree more. He made it clear that poteva fare quello che voleva, purché i bambini non facessero parte del suo contenuto.
The man thought the simple warning would work it out, but after a while, he checked her channels, and to his great surprise he found his kids’ faces in her content and got furious.
“I told her straight up she needs to remove all of her content, she said that she knew I wouldn’t agree but she doesn’t think this is a big deal.”
He explained why he doesn’t like to see the kids on social media: that kind of visibility makes them a “product” that brings profit and people (his wife actually!) start “acting” their ways of overcoming challenges of parenthood. He backs up his opinion with a good example:
“… she posted a video of her getting our 2 yr old out of a tantrum and how she deals with it but how is your first instinct to record and hold a camera whilst our baby is crying.”
Una minaccia di divorzio
Quando throwrasutwy asked his wife to remove the content, she was upset and didn’t want to give up on her dream. She couldn’t just erase everything she worked hard on, for months. The man was a guscio duro:
“…if you don’t delete it I will consider a divorce.”
The Reddit poster continued explaining he wouldn’t mind if his children were on Instagram or Facebook posts, but videos are different. They are exposing some intimate aspects of kids’ lives that he finds inappropriate to be shared. But the wife wouldn’t give up on her dream:
“She told her friends and even hinted on her social media accounts that she has an over controlling and narcissistic husband that doesn’t want her on social media… ”
Le sue amiche hanno iniziato a prenderlo in giro e ad un certo punto, he wasn’t sure if he was being eccessivo controllo o narcisismo.
Dopo che alcune persone hanno chiesto informazioni sul tipo di contenuti condivisi dalla moglie, ha aggiunto ulteriori dettagli spiegando che la maggior parte dei video la mostravano mentre giocava o dava da mangiare ai bambini, ma c'erano comunque dei video:
“the 2 types of videos I have problems with is her recording our children tantrums and our 2 yr old still doesn’t like clothes, we are trying to get her to wear them more but our house can be hot so she is in diaper alot. I don’t like the videos of our daughter in her diapers.”
Sostegno della comunità
Come probabilmente potete immaginare, la comunità di Reddit ha appoggiato la sua reazione. Qualcuno ha scritto:
“NTA – people who make profits from their kid’s misery are the AHs here, and it seems like your wife is more interested in being a TikTok celebrity than being a caring wife and mother.
No one should ever be shilling out their kids for likes and imaginary internet points.”
Everyone was disgusted by the way some influencers are exploiting their own children, and advised him to get a lawyer and protect his children. Some people said she wasn’t respecting his boundaries, and called his wife disrespectful, exploitative, and the one who’s being narcissistic.
Un altro ha condiviso un fatto non molto noto: la maggior parte dei I follower delle mamme influencer non sono altre mamme ma vermi che amano guardare i bambini.
Condivido pienamente l'opinione pubblica trovata su Reddit. I bambini sono il tesoro più prezioso e dobbiamo sempre fare in modo di proteggerli. Spero che i due trovino un terreno comune e giungano a una soluzione che soddisfi entrambe le parti.
If you’re too concerned for the privacy of your own kids, make sure to read the full filo.
