Abusers and perpetrators are incredibly sneaky people. They’re extremely skillful manipulators who often have the ability to shift reality the way it suits them the best. Simply put, DARVO is one of the tactics commonly used by narcissists and gaslighters. It is one of their ways to take the responsibility for their wrongdoings off themselves….
When you are in a relationship with a narcissist, you are not quite aware that he is one. You just think that your partner is behaving like that because of the crises that every couple has. You think that his lies, cowardly actions, fraud and gaslighting will eventually stop. The catch is that you are…
When you don’t get what you need in your childhood, it can affect your adulthood in negative ways. If your parents missed all your signs for help and if they didn’t give you all the love and affection that you craved as a child, it is normal that behavior like that will leave deep scars…
We all have that someone in our lives for whom we bend ourselves around like a wire in an attempt to please them. These are the people that are sucking the life out of us—toxic people. Every time a problem occurs, you end up questioning yourself—is it something you did wrong? You end up thinking…
Narcissists suffer from a personality disorder that eventually destroys you. At the beginning, you don’t understand what situation you’ve put yourself in because these people are such good manipulators. When you first meet them, they appear as this perfect, rare species of men and you are happy about yourself and you can’t believe that you’ve…
Every narcissist has something insanely irresistible about himself, something that sucks you in and consumes you—like a black hole. They charm you with their perfect behavior and gestures that are to die for. After they’ve put a spell on you, they are ready to attack. It’s is only then that they show their real faces—when…
Recovering from a trauma bond caused by narcissist abuse is a difficult path to tread. It’s a healing journey that takes time, effort and energy. But how long does it take to recover from narcissistic abuse? This is a question all victims ask themselves. There you are, struggling for months or even years but you…
It doesn’t matter if you’ve had a toxic relationship with a narcissistic ex or you’re still involved with someone suffering from NPD – either way, you know very well that there are some behavior patterns every narcissist follows. Yes, all of them are individual people, but strangely, there are some weird things narcissists do that…
Relationships should be something that makes us feel happy and fulfilled. But what happens when your man acts like a jerk? When all he does is insult you verbally and physically and makes you feel like crap all the time? The most important thing that you should know is that you are normal—you are completely…
I had a friend. She was a beautiful girl. She smiled all the time, even when she had no reason to smile. She looked at the world from a positive perspective. She always wanted to look at only the beautiful things and look for the best in everyone. She was a walking happiness. Believe me,…