You know the feeling of unease in your stomach and the form of fear that consumes you but you choose to ignore it? Well, that is what feeds your narcissist and keeps him alive. That is what gives him the strength to keep using and abusing you. Most empaths and deeply sensitive people feel those…
Stonewalling is not the same as the silent treatment, but they go hand in hand. Where there is one, there is the other. The silent treatment is usually very common in every person’s life. You’ve seen it in your family, and you’ve had it with your friends. Usually, it’s not that destructive, and people use…
You would like to make me cry tonight in front of the others again. You would like to cut my veins with your words like you are using the sharpest blade. You would like to make me sad even if I am happy. You would like to make me ugly even if I am the…
Most of us never see this coming. Especially when a people are in love, they go instantly blind to everything that might endanger their happiness—call it conscious denial. Sadly, we become aware of what has happened to us only when the damage is already done. Then suddenly, something opens our eyes, and all the things…
You’ve spent years next to someone with a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). For years, this person inflicted emotional, mental and maybe even physical and sexual abuse on you. But the good news is that you’ve finally got the courage to discard him. Even though this was a huge step forward, the truth is that you…
Dear “You” , I don’t even want to give you a name. You don’t deserve one. You will be referred to as “You” and that’s the kindest thing I could have ever said to you. This impersonal, cold, distant pronoun. You don’t deserve anything better. How are “You” ? Is the sun still shining brightly…
1. If you’re getting up every day and doing everyday activities – you’re doing great! 2. If you’re not feeling okay – that’s OKAY. People aren’t machines and we’re collectively going through stressful times. Everyone will understand if you’re feeling under pressure. 3. You shouldn’t feel bad for not exercising or learning a new language;…
People we spend most of our time around are those who end up shaping us into who we ultimately become. There’s no denying that. Those that surround you are those that have the biggest effect on who you are as a person. And our romantic partners are those we spend majority of our time with,…
It all begins like a fairy tale. You meet, you fall in love. You feel like you’re the luckiest girl alive. He gives you all the attention he can. He showers you with gifts, takes you to dinner, brings you flowers, he’s the real Prince Charming. Who would turn down attention like that? No one…
I bet you thought you were in the most romantic love story of your life when you first met him. He brushed up against you and you clicked or he kissed you and your world turned upside down in a heartbeat. You fell under his control. You were his. But that love story didn’t last…