12 signos del zodiaco y el error que cada uno comete en las citas
Todos cometemos errores al salir con alguien, pero, sorprendentemente, ¡cada signo del zodiaco tiene sus propias tendencias!
Maybe it’s impulsive decisions, overthinking, a self-centered attitude, or something else. No one is perfect, and when it comes to relationships, we all have certain patterns that we repeat—sometimes without even realizing it. Your zodiac sign can reveal a lot about your dating tendencies, from your strengths to your biggest downfalls.
Understanding these patterns can help you avoid unnecessary heartbreak, improve your relationships, and even help you grow as a person. If you keep running into the same problems in love, maybe the stars have some insight into what’s holding you back.
I bet you’re curious to find out what yours is! Let’s see what you need to watch out for the next time you’re dating someone!
1. Aries
Exageras constantemente. Cada cita contigo tiene que ser perfecta.
Truth to be told, you’re not trying to make your person feel bad. On the contrary, you’re trying to give them everything and make them feel special.
Sadly, by doing this, you’re only creating the counter effect. Instead of making them feel nice, you’re making them feel like they are not trying enough in your relationship.
Relájate y deja de intentar que todo sea perfecto. Prueba a dejarte llevar por la corriente y verás adónde te lleva esa relación.
Su gran energía y entusiasmo son parte de lo que le hace apasionante, pero también pueden resultar agotadores para su pareja. No todo tiene por qué ser una aventura o un gran gesto romántico. A veces, sentarse juntos en silencio, compartir un momento sencillo, puede ser más significativo que una cita extravagante.
Slowing down and letting your partner take the lead every now and then will not only give you a break but also make them feel valued. Love isn’t about constant action—it’s about connection, and sometimes that comes in the quiet moments too.
2. Taurus
One should think you’ve learned your lesson so far. Sadly, you haven’t.
Sigues cometiendo el mismo error con respecto a las citas y las relaciones. De alguna manera, no puedes darte cuenta de que volver con la persona que te hizo daño una y otra vez no es una buena idea.
It is not only that things won’t get any better, but in the end, you’re going to lose yourself. Exposing yourself to that much pain, humiliation, and emotional destruction is dangerous for your mental health.
Deja de revivir el pasado y sigue adelante con tu vida.
Your loyalty is both your greatest strength and your biggest downfall. You believe in second chances—sometimes even third and fourth chances—because you genuinely want to believe people can change. However, it’s important to recognize when someone is taking advantage of your forgiveness rather than appreciating it.
Instead of holding onto something that isn’t serving you, focus on finding a partner who values your love and devotion. You deserve stability and trust, but that won’t come from someone who constantly breaks your heart.
3. Géminis
Por alguna razón, su el corazón está guardado que te hace diferente del resto.
You’re not capable of loving someone in the classic way, which puts you in an awful position. Not many people can understand who you are and where you’re really coming from.
Because of your nature, you’re avoiding dating altogether. You’ve put your walls up because you don’t want to give anybody even the slightest chance of hurting you.
You’re hiding your feelings, and you’re lying to others that you’re fine, when you’re actually not.
Your mind races at a million miles per hour, making it difficult to stay emotionally grounded in one place for too long. You crave connection, but the fear of getting too attached—and potentially getting hurt—often pushes you to keep things light and superficial.
Opening up to the right person will make a world of difference. When you let someone in and allow yourself to be vulnerable, you’ll realize that true love isn’t about losing yourself—it’s about finding someone who accepts all sides of you.
4. Cáncer
Unlike Gemini, who doesn’t trust anyone and is hiding from true feelings, you’re too open about your feelings.
Confías en todo el mundo y llevas tu corazón en la manga, lo que te convierte en un blanco perfecto del que aprovecharse.
If you don’t toughen up a bit, you’re going to live your life in heartbreak, regret, and pain. Even after someone takes advantage of you, you’ll give them another chance, and they’ll do it all over again to you.
You’ll trust someone and amarlos incondicionalmente se lo merezcan o no. Tienes que romper ese ciclo y empezar a pensar en ti para variar.
Tu capacidad de amar tan profundamente es un don poco común, pero debe darse a la persona adecuada. Tienes que empezar a reconocer cuándo alguien no está correspondiendo a tu energía y aprender a alejarte antes de que te agote emocionalmente.
Setting boundaries doesn’t mean closing yourself off—it means protecting your heart so that it can be appreciated by someone who truly values it. Love should feel safe, mutual, and fulfilling—not like an endless battle of proving your worth to someone who doesn’t deserve it.
5. Leo
Almost like Gemini, you’re also guarded.
In fact, Gemini is a bit worse than you. They don’t even let someone get near them.
Por otro lado, el error que cometes siempre en las citas es que alejas a las personas cuando empiezas a enamorarte de ellas.
This is nothing more than fear talking from the inside. You’re scared of getting hurt.
Por alguna razón, cuando las cosas se ponen estupendas y cuando todo va sobre ruedas en tu relación, empiezas a temblar de miedo. De la nada, empiezas a imaginar que algo malo va a ocurrir y a arruinarlo todo.
Así que quieres adelantarte y evitar que te hagan daño. Por lo tanto, empujas a la persona que amas lejos de ti.
Your natural confidence and charisma can sometimes work against you. While you appear strong and in control, deep down, vulnerability terrifies you. You’d rather be the one who leaves first than risk being left behind.
Sin embargo, el amor requiere confianza. No todo el mundo quiere romperte el corazón. Aprender a aceptar tus miedos en lugar de huir de ellos te permitirá experimentar la conexión profunda y apasionada que realmente anhelas.
6. Virgo
Como analizas todo en tu vida, también analizas las relaciones.
When things aren’t going exactly as you’ve predicted, you want a ticket out.
You don’t even have a valid reason, but you’re more than smart enough to make one up.
That is completely unhealthy behavior, and it’s more than that. It’s avoiding responsibility.
If you don’t like the relationship, be a doll and talk about it. Making excuses and lying your way out will never change anything in your life.
Your need for perfection often prevents you from enjoying the natural flow of relationships. You focus so much on potential problems that you sometimes create issues that weren’t even there to begin with.
Instead of expecting perfection, embrace the beauty of imperfection. Real love isn’t always logical—it’s messy, emotional, and unpredictable. Letting go of control will allow you to experience relationships in a much more fulfilling way.
7. Libra
Your biggest dating mistake is that you keep giving second chances to people who don’t deserve them.
Somehow, you always end up looking at the positive side in others despite the fact that it was proven to you that some people don’t have that positive side.
Nunca pierdas esa positividad y bondad que guardas dentro de ti, pero pon un límite en algún sitio.
Si alguien ha traicionado tu confianza una y otra vez, suéltalo.
Your deep desire for harmony and love often blinds you to red flags. You don’t want to see the flaws in people, and you’ll convince yourself that with enough love and patience, they will change.
However, love isn’t about fixing others—it’s about finding someone who already treats you the way you deserve. Learning to walk away from toxic relationships will lead you to a love that actually fulfills you.
8. Escorpio
Pensar demasiado es tu mayor enemigo. Deja de ser tan dramático y de prestar atención a cosas que no la merecen.
La gente que sale contigo se asusta de que analices y pienses demasiado.
You have to realize that you can’t find everything about that person right away.
The process of gaining trust doesn’t work that way. It has to happen gradually, and you don’t have the time for that to happen.
The end result is that you drive people away from you—or better yet, you scare them away with being ‘too much’.
Su intensidad es a la vez su mayor fortaleza y su mayor desventaja. Quieres pasión, verdad y conexiones emocionales profundas, pero a veces las saboteas intentando descubrir todos los secretos ocultos antes de que la relación tenga siquiera la oportunidad de desarrollarse.
Learning to trust the process and allowing relationships to unfold naturally will make a huge difference in your love life. Not everything needs to be a test—sometimes, love is meant to be easy.
9. Sagitario
Tu mayor error en las citas es hablar demasiado.
When you meet someone for the first time, it’s more than obvious that you’re going to talk about trivial things. You’re not going to discuss world politics or the current world issues.
Save those difficult topics for when you get to know each other a bit better. Maybe then you won’t be misunderstood like you’ve been so far.
Stop trying so much, and let the ‘getting to know each other’ happen naturally without you forcing it.
Su entusiasmo por la vida y su curiosidad natural pueden hacer que a veces domine las conversaciones sin darse cuenta. Te encanta compartir tus experiencias, ideas y aventuras, pero a veces te olvidas de bajar el ritmo y escuchar de verdad.
Taking a step back and allowing your partner to express themselves creates a deeper connection. It’s not just about talking—it’s about exchanging thoughts, emotions, and understanding each other beyond words.
10. Capricornio
Whenever you’re faced with a relationship problem or a heartbreak, you bury yourself in work.
Trabajar duro es tu boleto de escape para cualquier problema en tu vida.
Currently, the biggest dating problem you have is exactly that—working too hard to not even think about dating.
Do you realize that you can’t spend the rest of your life alone?
No somos criaturas creadas para vivir solas y pasar solas por la vida. Necesitamos apoyo de vez en cuando, y necesitamos amor más que nada.
The sooner you realize that, the less you’re going to be miserable.
Te enorgulleces de tus logros y tu dedicación al éxito es admirable, pero el amor también requiere tiempo y esfuerzo. Si tratas las relaciones como algo secundario a tu carrera profesional, puede que te pierdas conexiones emocionales profundas.
Finding a balance between your ambitions and your personal life will bring you more happiness than any work success ever could. Love isn’t a distraction—it’s something that adds meaning to your achievements.
11. Acuario
It’s like you want to suffer in relationships on purpose.
It’s like you completely ignore the red flags that tell you to get out while you still can.
You’re drawn to toxic people, and you make excuses for their behavior.
Even though you know that treating you the way they do is not what you or anyone else deserves, you keep telling yourself and others that you’re fine and that it will eventually stop.
Toxic people can’t change, and they will never change. The sad part is that you’re going to realize that, but then it’s going to be too late.
Te enorgulleces de ser diferente y de ver lo bueno en la gente, pero a veces eso te lleva a situaciones en las que aceptas mucho menos de lo que mereces. Crees en el potencial de las personas, incluso cuando te demuestran una y otra vez que no merecen tu confianza.
Learning to recognize when someone is not capable of giving you the love you need will save you from heartache. You don’t need to fix or rescue anyone—you need a partner who meets you at your level and values you for who you are.
12. Piscis
Like most of the extra sensitive and emotional zodiac signs, you don’t know when to say “no.”
You don’t have your boundaries set up correctly, so you let people who don’t appreciate you take advantage of you.
You’re always going to be there for a person in need—even if that person betrayed you on several occasions, you can’t shut your eyes to a sign of someone else’s trouble.
Too bad you can’t see how much trouble that is causing you.
Your heart is so big that you sometimes forget to protect it. You see the good in everyone, and while that’s a beautiful quality, it can also lead to unnecessary pain when you keep giving love to those who don’t deserve it.
Learning to set boundaries and walk away from toxic situations doesn’t mean you’re being unkind—it means you’re valuing yourself. The right person will appreciate your love without taking advantage of it.
