Esto es para todas las chicas que están cansadas de perseguir a alguien

Are you familiar with the feeling when you fall in love with someone so deeply, that it even makes you think that you can’t live without that person?

You’re ready to do whatever it takes to keep them in your life. He’s the man of your dreams and you’re hoping that one day he’ll feel the same about you.

After some time, though, you start to realize that it’s impossible to make someone love you. You constantly tried to get closer to him, but it actually pushed him away.

Lo diste todo por esa persona y en algún lugar del camino, te perdiste. Te cansaste de tener que demostrar tu valía y tu amor a alguien.

You got sick of chasing someone who’ll never be able to appreciate all those things you did for him.

Aquí tienes algunos consejos que te ayudarán a dejarle atrás y seguir adelante con tu vida.

1. You weren’t meant for each other

If you are destined to be together, then you won’t have to chase him. And if you are chasing him, it means that he isn’t the right guy for you.

Then you have only one option left: to let him go. Mr. Right will come someday and he’ll show you what true love is.

You won’t have to try that hard to win and keep that person because he’ll choose you himself.

Give up on him. You deserve someone who’ll love you and choose you no matter what.

Chasing him will only bring you more pain because he won’t change. If you don’t want to spend your life in pain, you have to let him go.

2. Empieza a perseguir el amor propio

Remind yourself of your worth and never let anyone disrespect you. If you lack self-respect, then you’ll allow others to treat you how they want, without any respect.

However, if you respect yourself enough, then you’ll be able to walk away from or let go of people who make you unhappy or unloved.

3. Te mereces que te persigan

You’re the one who deserves to be chased. Si demuestras a un hombre cuánto le quieres cada día, ¿es demasiado esperar que él haga lo mismo por ti?

You are a unique, one-of-a-kind girl and if someone doesn’t see it, then it’s his loss.

You don’t have to make him see it, because he’ll realize it once he loses you. And then he’ll be left with a broken heart.

Te mereces a alguien que te vea en tu peor momento pero que aun así decida quedarse contigo.

Someone who’ll love you the strongest even when you are being the most difficult to love.

4. Don’t ever humiliate yourself

Perseguirle siempre te hará parecer desesperada y patética.

Sé que el hecho de que le estés perdiendo y no puedas hacer nada al respecto te está volviendo loca. Pero nunca debes demostrarle que estás desesperada por su amor.

Sé valiente. Sé que ver a un hombre que amas dejar tu vida duele mucho. Pero tienes que sonreír y soportarlo.

Don’t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn’t even deserve you.

Don’t do that to yourself. You know you are better than that – that you deserve more than that.

5. You can’t force him to love you

Chasing someone won’t make them love you. That’s only how you’ll push them further away. To be honest, no one likes pathetic people who just don’t know when to stop.

There is nothing wrong with you, but you have to understand that the harsh reality is you can never make someone love you. Love is something that can’t be forced.

Si le quieres de verdad, lo único que puedes hacer es esperar. Deja de perseguirle y a ver qué pasa.

Maybe it’ll make him realize that no one will love him as much as you do, and he’ll start to appreciate all those things you’ve done for him.

Maybe then he’ll start chasing you. If he doesn’t, then it means that it’s time to let him go forever.

Acéptalo y sigue adelante, por muy doloroso que sea. El tiempo curará todas esas heridas.

6. You’ll be left with a broken heart

Perseguirle sólo te llevará al desamor. Y tus propias expectativas serán las únicas culpables de ello.

Every time you’re full of expectations that this time something will change – that he’ll finally love you the same.

But every time those expectations will lead you to disappointment. Disappointment after disappointment, you’ll finally start losing hope.

Tienes que saber que puedes hacerlo mucho mejor. Tienes que valorarte lo suficiente como para saber cuándo alejarte. Necesitas dejarlo ir para mantenerte a ti misma.

Chasing the man you love won’t bring you anything good. It will only lead you to an emotional handicap.

You’ll be left with self-esteem issues and not be able to move on for a long time.

Chasing him is not how you’ll win him or keep him in your life. Some things are just meant to happen.

And some people just aren’t destined to be in your life. As much as you try, you can’t fight destiny.