Una chica con el corazón roto no es más que una mujer intrépida en ciernes

Estimado chica con el corazón roto,

Sé que te duele el corazón, pero necesito que recuerdes algo: todo lo que sientes ahora pasará pronto.

I’m not saying that your love will cease but that aching pain in the middle of your chest, that anxious lump inside your stomach, they will go away.

I know you’re trying hard to look normal when you’re around other people.

You even joke around. You make funny faces and say that things are going to be all right but the moment you’re left alone, your face becomes sullen.

Tu mente está inundada de cosas no dichas y sientes la enorme carga del amor no correspondido. El amor no correspondido te ha cambiado. Ha recompuesto tu ser.

It showed you that life isn’t what you expected it to be. It’s just some weird combination of unpredictable feelings and things you can’t control. Things like love.

We don’t choose who we love. We can’t control our innermost feelings. They’re just there.

But there’s one thing everyone can do.

Puedes cambiar tu visión de la situación en lugar de cambiar tus sentimientos.

You can grow to realize that life doesn’t have to be dark because you didn’t get the love you thought you wanted. Notice how I said you pensamiento que querías.

I know it’s a touchy subject but I have to say it: Not everything you want is always what you need.

A veces, la vida tiene formas extrañas de dejárnoslo claro. A veces utiliza las malas experiencias como una reorientación hacia algo mejor.

When our heart is broken, we’re forced to look at our deepest parts with complete awareness.

Cuando nos rompen el corazón, podemos ver qué parte de nosotros es la más afectada.

It’s like scanning your soul to find the weakest part you need to heal.

Cuando digo curar, quiero decir aceptar y aceptar.

La aceptación total de uno mismo es lo que, en última instancia, lo cura todo.

That’s why we need to be fearless. We need to be bold. We need to realize that knowing our Achilles heel gives us an advantage.

Don’t quit when you’re in pain and when you feel hurt; keep pushing and get a reward from it.

There’s not one person who doesn’t have what we call weaknesses.

Our weak spots make us human. Your feelings, even the ones you feel now, are what make you human. It’s all a wonderful gift of life but it takes time to realize that.

So many times, those weaknesses become our greatest strengths—if we only let them be. Vulnerability is shunned but everyone is hungry for it in other people. Elígelo como quieras.

Mantente vulnerable a pesar de lo que digan los demás.

Do things only from your heart and see how every decision you make will be in complete accordance with yourself. That’s where your true strength lies.

Las mujeres fuertes son las mujeres con el corazón roto pero eligieron seguir amando de todos modos.

When you’re sure in your heart then nothing external can move you; you become fearless.

Te conviertes en una persona capaz de sobrevivir a todo, sin sentir nunca amargura.

You become a person who always knows that everything in life is happening for a reason. That’s why you continue to anticipate the next chapter of your life with happiness.

Necesitamos que nos rompan el corazón para poder recomponernos en algo aún mejor.

We need to have our heart broken to make room for all the things we’re capable of.

We need to have our heart broken so we can see what we’re made of and finally realize how magical we truly are.