Siempre Serás Demasiado Para Alguien Que No Te Merece

Let’s be real about one thing: As a woman, there will be many opportunities when you’ll be told that you’re ‘too much’.

Situations in which you’ll be accused of wanting too much, asking too much and expecting too much.

This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships. After all, this is something you’ve been facing for as long as you can remember, isn’t it?

You see, as a woman, you’re always expected to make compromises.

Don’t get me wrong; I’m not talking about meeting your partner halfway here, because that is something you should definitely try to do in every relationship.

I’m talking about making compromises with yourself.

I’m talking about being less demanding, less emotional or even pretending to be less smart and less successful in order for men to accept you better.

You’re expected to lower yourself in order for a guy to feel like the bigger man. Expected to do everything possible to prevent him from feeling threatened by you.

Según esto, un hombre no tiene la culpa de no poder seguir tu ritmo.

Instead, you’re guilty of not stooping to his level so he doesn’t feel intimidated. Guilty for being better and for having the decency of being everything more.

Incluso desde muy joven, varios chicos te dijeron que tu nivel de exigencia era demasiado alto.

Even your closest friends accused you of believing in fairy tales and telling you that you were searching for Mr. Perfect, who didn’t exist.

Well, I’m here to beg you not to believe them. Aquí para pedirte que nunca rebaje sus exigenciasNunca renuncies a tus "rompe tratos" y, lo que es más importante, nunca te conformes con menos.

It seems that in the modern dating world, you should consider yourself lucky to find a man who won’t cheat on you right in front of you.

Según algunos, deberías estar contenta si tienes un chico que tiene la decencia de elegirte y decidirse por ti, sin darte falsas esperanzas.

No, you haven’t won the lottery just because you ran into a guy who labels your relationship and who publicly calls you his girlfriend.

You didn’t hit the jackpot for having a boyfriend who sends you a goodnight text and who treats you as his equal.

Todas estas cosas son increíbles, pero please don’t let anyone tell you that you’re ‘too much’ for wanting more.

De hecho, todos los tipos equivocados que desfilen por tu vida harán todo lo posible por hacerte creer que lo poco que tienen que ofrecerte debería ser suficiente.

Sin embargo, una vez que conozca a un hombre que realmente te merece, he’ll never make you settle for less.

Este tipo nunca intentará menospreciarte para parecer más grande. He’ll never make you feel like you’re not good enough just because it’s the only way for him to feel better about himself.

Un hombre que te merezca de verdad nunca te pedirá que bajes la voz para que se oiga la suya. He’ll never hold you back from your accomplishments so he looks more successful.

For him, you won’t be too emotional, too demanding or too clingy. Instead, he’ll cherish your vulnerable heart and make sure he never damages it in any way possible.

You won’t be accused of being a smarty pants or a Ms ‘know-it-all’ just because you have opinions of your own. Instead, he’ll be proud to have una mujer inteligente y capaz como tú a su lado.

For him, you’ll never be too strong or too powerful. Instead, he’ll see you as a role model and as an inspiration to keep moving forward.

Lo más importante, he’ll never see you as too independiente o demasiado autosuficiente. Instead, he’ll be happy knowing that you chose him out of all the men in this world, despite not actually needing him.

So, I’m begging you, every time you are accused of being too much, remember that this guy is out there.

Cada vez que te acusen de hacer sentir menos hombre a algún inmaduro, recuerda que existe quien te merece.

Además, every time you are accused of being too much for a guy, remember this: You’re a princess who doesn’t need a smaller crown; you need a man with bigger hands.

Please, don’t dim your light just because it might blind someone and keep on shining as bright as always!