A la última chica que rompió el corazón de mi novio - Gracias

We’ve never officially met but all this time, I hated you soooooo much. I hated you with every fiber of my being. I hated you mostly because I knew how much you used to mean to him.

Te odiaba porque sabía que eras su amor, su nena y su mundo antes que yo.

Odiaba que formaras parte de todas sus historias y recuerdos. Te odiaba porque fuiste el primero que trajo a casa para conocer a su familia.

I couldn’t understand how someone could hurt this beautiful and kindhearted guy. I was constantly searching for at least one reason that made you hurt him the way you did. And guess what? I couldn’t.

Es perfecto por fuera y aún más hermoso por dentro. . La forma en que se preocupa por las personas que ama es simplemente excepcional.

The way he looks at me, the way he loves me…that love just keeps me alive. The bond we have is sacred to him and I know he would never do anything to ruin it.

Sí, al principio te odiaba pero ahora entiendo que en realidad debería estarte agradecida porque dejaste ir a un tipo tan increíble.

Dejaste ir un alma tan hermosa. Un hombre que aprecia Un hombre que me respeta y me acepta tal como soy. Un hombre que nunca es demasiado orgulloso para disculparse cuando hace algo mal.

Sabe cuánto significan esas disculpas porque él nunca recibió las suyas. You never said ‘sorry’ for all your mistakes. You never apologized to him and that hurt him the most.

If you hadn’t left him, we would never have even met and that would have been such a shame because I believe in soulmates and I’m totally convinced that he’s my soulmate.

You were the one who actually gave me the opportunity to meet my forever guy, because that’s what he truly is, the love of my life.  

Gracias a ti, se aprecia más a sí mismo. Descuidó sus necesidades mientras salíais porque siempre anteponer tus necesidades.

Ahora tengo a este chico maravilloso a mi lado, que siempre hace que me su prioridad but also doesn’t let anyone control his thoughts and needs.

Gracias a ti, aprecia más la vida. Se dio cuenta de que desperdició varios años de su vida, saliendo con la chica equivocada. 

Perdió el tiempo intentando demostrarte su amor y lo único que obtuvo a cambio fue tu traición y desamor.

Most of all, he appreciates LOVE more. That’s also thanks to you. You showed him how it hurts when your love isn’t reciprocated. 

I’m so thankful you showed him how heartbreak hurts so I could show him how true love heals all wounds.

Thank you for being so blind. I’m sure you’ll never find anyone like him. At least, no one will ever love you the way he did.

Thank you for cheating on him because now he knows how that feels, how that hurts, I’m sure he’ll never hurt me that way.

Sí, admito que fue difícil ganarse su confianza al principio porque, obviamente, le dejaste con tantas problemas de confianza. Pero valió la pena.

Gracias por ser tan insensible y egoísta porque tu comportamiento le hizo apreciar a una mujer buena y honesta como yo.

He is a much better man after you and in a way, your betrayal is deserving of that. That’s why I should thank you the most.

I’m sure he honestly loves me but I’m also sure that he hasn’t forgotten you. Don’t rejoice too soon, though, because I’m not saying that he still has feelings for you.

He doesn’t. I know that his heart belongs only to me.

But, he can’t forget the woman who killed him from the inside and made a hell out of his life. Just like he will never forget the woman who saved him from that same hell.

In the end, I want to paraphrase the old saying and say “One woman’s loss is another woman’s gain.” Bueno, tu mayor fracaso fue realmente mi mayor victoria en la vida.

Gracias una vez más por todo esto. Le deseo una larga y feliz vida, lejos de nosotros, por supuesto.