Así es como se consigue que un chico confiese lo que siente por ti

Cada vez pasas más tiempo con él, te sientes nerviosa y excitada cada vez que tienes que verle, pero aún no ha pasado nada.

Te sientes como le gustas and there are signs that he does, but he simply isn’t making that first move.

You’re wondering how you should play this to get him to tell you he likes you. Follow our advice and you’ll soon know how he feels.

Diviértete con él

You’re at the very beginning so keep things light, breezy and fun. Show him how interesting you are to make him want to explore things further with you. 

Relax and use this flirty, exciting period as best you can. Nothing beats the beginning of a crush and the excitement you feel when you’re not certain how you feel about each other.

Utiliza toda esa adrenalina para divertirte como nunca.

Listen to him and don’t be judgmental

Si quieres que te confiese que siente algo por ti, tienes que hacer que se sienta lo suficientemente cómodo como para abrirse y mostrarse vulnerable a tu lado. 

Escucha atentamente cuando decida contarte su vida y sus experiencias, e intenta ser lo más comprensivo y amable posible.

Si alguna vez esperas que confíe en ti lo suficiente como para hacerte partícipe de sus sentimientos, hazle sentir que puede hacerlo.

Demuestra que te preocupas por sus intereses

A todos los chicos les gustan las chicas que se preocupan por sus aficiones y se interesan por las cosas que a él le gustan.

Of course you shouldn’t pretend to like something you don’t, but I’m sure there’s something – otherwise you wouldn’t like him at all.

Show him that you’re interested in the things he loves and suggest doing them together if you think that it could be something you’d enjoy.

Expresar gratitud por las cosas que hace

Los chicos quieren sentir apreciado. Para que se sienta lo suficientemente cómodo como para compartir sus sentimientos contigo, muéstrale tu aprecio y gratitud por las cosas bonitas que hace por ti.

Allow him to feel good about himself when he’s around you.

Presta atención a su lenguaje corporal

A guy who really likes you will show you he does, even if he doesn’t tell you directly. His face and body will face you, his eyes will be wide open when you’re speaking and he’ll be slightly smiling almost constantly.

Even though he hasn’t directly told you he likes you yet, he’s already told you with his lenguaje corporal. Try to be as approachable to him as he is to you and show him that you’re responding positively to his feelings.

Empieza a prestar un poco de atención inocente a su amigo

If this has been going on for a while now and it doesn’t seem like he’s going to make that first move, you can try this little trick.

Speed up his “getting brave enough to tell you’’ process by innocently flirting with his friend. He’ll get scared that he might lose you if he waits for too long and will finally make a move.

Don’t let him know you like him too soon

You don’t want him to be too sure of your feelings for him, so it’s best to keep him guessing.

I’m not saying you should pretend to be an ice queen, but don’t be too open about your feelings, the same way he isn’t open about his.

Manténgalo intrigado y preguntándose, de modo que no tenga más remedio que confesarle sus sentimientos para conocer los suyos.

Pregúntaselo directamente de una forma súper tierna

If you’re usually really straightforward or you’re getting tired of waiting, you can simply confess your feelings and ask him about his.

Make sure you don’t make this too serious, and choose a charming, playful approach instead.

Wait until you’re enjoying a fun moment together and say something like: “You kinda like me, right?” or “I really enjoy everything we do together, I hope you do too.”

En esta situación, un chico al que realmente le gustas responderá como esperas que lo haga, compartiendo sus emociones contigo.

Sé siempre tú mismo

Make sure you don’t seem desperate for his attention and don’t ever do anything that isn’t who you are just to get his attention.

You want him to like you for who you are, not to like a version of you that’s completely fake.

Don’t get lost in the game of making him like you and remember that you’re looking for un chico con el que puedas ser tu misma.