Cómo hacer que te persiga: 18 trucos que siempre funcionan
¿Estás cansado de perseguir a las chicas e intentar demostrarles lo que vales? ¿No estaría bien hacer que las chicas te persiguieran para variar?
I bet I know your answers. That’s why we will show you some of the most efficient tactics on how to make her chase you.
They aren’t that difficult, and once you master the art of making women chase you, you’ll see your dating life change for the better.
You just have to play it cool and keep her curious all the time. It’s a game of jugando duro. Es una de las estrategias más comunes que muchas personas utilizan cuando se trata de citas.
Hay que despertar su interés manteniendo una dosis de misterio.
If you learn this fine art of seduction and these rules to make women chase you, it’ll be like your superpower.
However, you shouldn’t use these tips to make every girl you meet chase you. Use it only on the one you truly like or, even better, el you’re in love with.
¿Cómo hacer que te persiga? 18 sencillos pasos
He aquí algunas formas sencillas que te ayudarán a acercarte a una mujer guapa, enamorarla contigo al instante, y haz que te persiga. Los siguientes consejos te ayudarán a convertirte en el hombre de sus sueños.
La primera impresión siempre es importante
Primeras impresiones are powerful and lasting, and that’s why you have to do everything you can to make it a great one. A woman will always remember the first time she met you.
If you want to get the girl to chase you and fall in love with you instantly, you have to nail the first impression and make her realize what a nice guy you indeed are. Believe me; it’ll be amor a primera vista.
Also, another thing you have to pay attention to is how you’ll approach her. You don’t have to be a pick-up artist, but you’ll have to find or come up with a nice and frase romántica para ligar con ella.
Oh yes, forget about making the first move with a dirty pick-up line because it’ll only be a major turn-off for her.
However, sometimes things can go wrong and you can fail to leave a good first impression. Don’t worry if that happens; I have great news for you.
Women are reasonable and forgiving when it comes to that and they’ll give you a segunda oportunidad para cambiar las cosas.
Invierte en ti
Hay muchas otras formas de atraer a las mujeres aparte de tu aspecto, pero a todos nos gusta que alguien cuide su apariencia física.
Exercise. Eat healthy food. Take care of personal hygiene. Don’t forget that women are crazy for men that smell good, so remember to wear deodorant or cologne. Wear clothes that fit your body. A good hairstyle will always significantly improve your looks.
Además, tu corte de pelo dice mucho de tu personalidad. El aspecto físico también está relacionado con tu autoestima. Y un hecho bien conocido es que las mujeres siempre se enamoran de los hombres seguros de sí mismos.
Looking good and attractive will boost your confidence and you won’t feel insecure around girls. So, like the famous dating coach, Darcy Carter, says in her book, “Stop acting like an attractive man and become an hombre atractivo.”
Utiliza tu lenguaje corporal para seducirla
Si quieres conseguir que la chica te persiga, usando apropiadamente lenguaje corporal is probably the best way to do it. It’s effortless; you just have to know some tricks.
En primer lugar, el contacto visual. Haga contacto visual every time you talk to her. That’s how you’ll show her that you are interested in her.
Si además te mira directamente a los ojos, significa que también le gustas.
Smile while you’re talking to her. A smile can sell basically anything you say. Also, it’ll help you look more relaxed, fun, and friendly.
Tu postura tiene muchos beneficios para tu aspecto y también para tu salud física.
Dice mucho de tu confianza. Si tienes una mala postura, siempre puedes mejorarla.
Busca algunos ejercicios, ponte delante de un espejo y consigue la postura que hará que las mujeres te persigan.
Mantente ocupado
Don’t hang with her all the time. Let her breathe. Also, she needs to know that you have other things in life besides her.
Si empiezas a tratarla como si fuera la única persona en todo el mundo, podría empezar a pensar que estás desesperado.
Tienes que demostrarle que eres un hombre de alto valor que piensa en su futuro y en cómo crear un futuro mejor para él y su futura familia. Demuéstrale que quieres aprovechar la vida al máximo.
Focus on your work and goals. Hang out with friends more. Go on some trips with your friends. Find a good book to read… Write, clean, cook…
Tienes que demostrarle que tienes tu propia vida, tu propio círculo social y que ella tendrá que hacer un esfuerzo para formar parte de él.
Friendzone ella
Maybe you are doubting the efficiency of this dating advice because you think that you might lose the girl you like, instead of making her chase you. But you’ll have to trust me on this one.
Ser friendzoneado por la persona que nos gusta es difícil para todos. Pero, de alguna extraña manera, el rechazo es lo que más nos atrae. We all want what we can’t easily get.
Most women (especially attractive women) aren’t used to ser puesto en una zona de amigos y lo odian porque les hace estar necesitados.
Their neediness is good for you because it’ll make them think that they can’t live without you and then the chasing will start.
Ganarse a sus amigos
Her friends play a huge part in her life – they’re the people she loves and trusts the most. That’s why you need to get to know them and get them to like you.
Trata a sus amigos como si fueran tuyos. Siempre debes respetarla y felicitarla en su empresa. Tiene que convencerles de que está interesado en ella.
Her besties have a big influence on her and she’ll ask them for their opinion about you the first time they meet you.
Básicamente, para hacer que te persiga, primero tienes que ganarte a sus amigos.
Ser misterioso
Esto es lo más importante que debe saber si quiere haz que una mujer te persiga. Ser misterioso con una chica que te gusta puede hacerte parecer un verdadero irresistible macho alfa.
Don’t reveal much about yourself en la primera cita. Also, don’t share too much information about yourself on your social media.
Let her investigate things she would like to know about you. This isn’t playing hard to get, it’s how you are going to find out if she likes you enough to find out some things about you by herself.
She’ll watch your every move. If she likes you, she’ll want to know more about you. That’s why your enigma will create an intensa tensión sexual entre vosotros y hacer que te persiga más que nunca.
Aprenda a decir NO
If you start saying yes to everything she says and suggests, it’ll mean that you don’t have character. She’ll take it that te gusta complacer a la gente and that’s a huge turn-off for every single girl.
And women don’t like pushovers – men who can’t express their own opinions and don’t have their own views about certain things.
If you don’t like something or you’re not okay with something she suggests, just say that you disagree with her.
Even if she gets mad, you shouldn’t change your opinion. If you want to see a woman chase you, don’t be afraid to disagree with her.
Encántela con humor
Women think that humor is one of the most attractive social skills and traits a man can have. That’s why humor is always a great way to get women to chase you.
Así que, el hecho es que a las chicas les gustan los chicos que pueden hacerles reír. Pero debes saber que hay algunos límites que debes respetar.
Don’t use jokes that will make you creepy. Also, don’t use dirty jokes if you’ve just met a girl.
Pero toma nota: Tener sentido del humor isn’t just about telling jokes all the time, it’s also in the ability to find humor in things around you and being able to make her smile in every situation.
Pay her compliments, but don’t overdo it
Compliments can have a magical effect on women. However, you should be careful. Don’t start bombarding her with tons of compliments.
Darle sólo genuino y cumplidos sinceros. She has to be sure that you really mean it, that you aren’t praising her only to seduce her.
Your compliments have the power to make her day better. If you know when and how to use them, you’ll have the girl you’re into chasing you sooner than you think.
Cuando conoces a una mujer que te gusta, nunca debes hacerle cumplidos basados en su aspecto físico. Esos piropos nunca son eficaces porque las mujeres los reciben mucho.
Ponla celosa
To get girls to chase you, you have to make them jealous sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, this doesn’t mean that you’re allowed to date other girls.
Hay muchas otras formas de ponla celosa. Por ejemplo, puedes hacer "me gusta" y comentar fotos de otras chicas en Facebook o Instagram o hablar con otras chicas mientras ella está cerca.
Once again, you have to be careful and don’t overdo it in making her jealous. She might strike back and start making you jealous.
Worst-case scenario, she might think that you are not interested in her or that you’re not material novio porque coqueteaste con otras chicas, haciendo que ella terminara el juego y siguiera adelante.
Don’t text back right away
If you reply to her messages immediately, it’ll make you desperate, and it’ll seem like you’ve been waiting for her text all day.
Puede hacer el primer movimiento aquí, pídele su número de teléfono y empieza a mandarle mensajes primero.
Tienes que saber que esperar a que alguien te devuelva el mensaje es un juego táctico y que, para hacer que las chicas te persigan, tienes que ganarlo.
She has to know that you are a busy man and don’t have time to chat with her all day long. It’ll also mean that you are un hombre serio y maduro y que prefieres las conversaciones y las citas en persona.
Los científicos coinciden en que hacer que alguien espere tu respuesta aumenta tu atractivo.
So, make her wait a bit and wonder where you are and what’s keeping you so busy that you can’t even reply to her text.
Tire hacia atrás de vez en cuando
It’s okay to be there for a girl you like, but being always with her might give her the impression that you are needy, and that’s the last thing you want. So you have to give her space from time to time.
It’s a great way to find out if está interesada en ti that much that she’ll notice your absence.
Also, it’s how you’ll show her that you are a cool guy of high value and that she has to work hard for your attention.
Remember, you want her to chase you, not the other way around. That’s why it’s okay to sometimes ignore her and pull back a bit. Now, I know this put the following thought in your mind; ¿cómo hacer que una chica te persiga ignorándola?
Simply go out with your friends and don’t answer her calls, but post a photo from the club on your Instagram. Trust me, it’ll drive your girl crazy and haz que te desee aún más.
Desafíala
Always remember, the harder a woman has to work for your affection, the more valuable you’ll become to her. That’s why you’re allowed hacerse el duro.
Desafiar a una mujer que te gusta es siempre una gran idea para mantener las cosas interesantes en vuestra relación.
Tienes que despertar su curiosidad por ti y por tu vida. Haz que se esfuerce por conocer los detalles de tu vida.
Tienes que convencerla de que estás disfrutando plenamente de tu vida y de que es difícil seguir tu ritmo.
The goal is to challenge her without being obvious about it. Not replying to her text instantly, canceling plans you’ve made with her, being mysterious, and being different from other men.
Éstas son algunas formas sencillas de desafío una chica y hacer que te persiga.
Prepare preguntas para ella
Make some kind of a quiz for her. Ask her questions about her family, her past. Ask her everything you want to know about her. It’ll be great for you to find out what her strengths and weaknesses are.
Don’t hacer preguntas sobre sus ex novios o cuál es su tipo de hombre.
She will realize that you are interested in her because you want to know more about her, but at the same time, it’ll be confusing for her why you don’t want to talk about her love life.
You always have to listen carefully while she’s talking. Don’t interrupt her.
Women appreciate men who are good listeners. If you show her that you understand her and sympathize with her, you’ll be all she needs.
Don’t admit you like her too soon
Este es el paso que debes dejar que dé ella primero. Cuando te diga lo que siente por ti, puedes decirle que a ti también te gusta.
You’ll ruin everything if you reveal your feelings too soon. You might even scare her away. And even when she admits that le gustas first, you shouldn’t pour out your entire heart to her completely.
Just say that you’re having a really good time when you’re around her and you would like to hang out with her more often.
Preséntasela a tus amigos
It’s okay to let her in your social circle and to introduce her to your friends, but they should pretend like you never talked about her. Like they didn’t know that you were seeing her.
She’ll think that you aren’t interested enough in her and that would make her work harder for your attention. Also, she will do anything to get your friends to like her.
Don’t start chasing her
If you see that you’ve succeeded in making her chase you, don’t start para perseguirla. No matter how much you like her, don’t do that, ever.
Puede que entonces se aburra y el juego termine para ella. Recuerda, she’s into you because you’re hard to get.
You’ll see that the moment you decide to stop chasing women, things will come around for you and they’ll start chasing you.
¿Cómo hacer que una chica te persiga después de ignorarte?
Comprender lo que quieren las mujeres a veces puede ser una tarea bastante difícil, ¿verdad? En un momento, todo parece ir bien pero luego, todo cambia en un segundo y empieza a ignorarte sin decirte qué hay detrás de ese tipo de comportamiento.
You try so hard to get her attention but it doesn’t work. Unfortunately, that’s the part where most guys make a mistake without being even aware of it.
The rule is, if your girl starts ignoring you, you should do the same. In layman’s terms, ignore her to get her attention.
When she sees that you’re becoming distant, she’ll start worrying that she might lose you. And after you don’t reach out for a few days, it’ll make her miss you like crazy and she’ll be the one who will initiate contact first.
Sé que ignorar a tu chica puede ser una montaña difícil de escalar, especialmente si tienes fuertes sentimientos por ella, pero debes tenga paciencia y creer en el poder de este método.
Palabras finales
Si de verdad quieres que las mujeres te persigan (o a la que te gusta en particular), tienes que animarte y seguir estos consejos para idear un plan sobre cómo hacer que te persiga.
It’s not difficult to make a girl crazy about you. You just need to be confident and patient, and you’ll see how it’s going to pay off.
La clave está en ser misterioso. That’s how you’ll challenge her to find out more things about you.
That’s how you’ll keep things interesting. If you are mysterious, you’ll get her attention before she’s even had a chance to get to know you.
Tienes que saber que pase lo que pase, siempre tienes ser uno mismo. Necesita conocerte de verdad y enamorarse de ti.
