¿Cómo saber si le gustas a alguien? 35 formas de saberlo
La pregunta definitiva de todos los tiempos: ¿Cómo sabes que ii le gustas a alguien, si quiere que seamos amigos, or if they’re just being polite?
When you’re dealing with a person who isn’t so expressive about their feelings, the lines are quite thin.
The answer is especially tricky when you’re already crazy for someone. Your judgment skills no longer exist, and you can’t tell the difference between your desires and reality.
That’s why I’m here for your rescue: to give you all the not-so-clear signs of attraction to look for in another person.
¿Puedes sentir si le gustas a alguien?
Si sabes leer las señales no verbales, podrás darte cuenta de cuándo alguien le gustas sin que tengan que decir nada. Y no sólo eso: a veces tu instinto te dice que la otra persona está colada por ti.
Well, guess what: in most cases, it’s absolutely right!
¿Cómo saber si le gustas a alguien? 22 señales de que le gustas
Si tu pareja muestra la mayoría de estos signos, enhorabuena, compartís una atracción mutua.
1. Los ojos hablan
Contacto visual lo es todo. Puedes elegir no decirle a alguien que te gusta, pero tus ojos siempre revelarán la verdad.
Cuando miras a alguien que te gusta, los niveles de oxitocina aumentan en tu cerebro. De hecho, la oxitocina es responsable de contacto visual prolongado.
This person can’t stop looking at you. You constantly catch them staring at you without any reason.
They’re not only checking you out, they’re literally staring into your soul. When you two talk, they glance over your mouth or they look you deep in the eyes. Either way, they’re looking for signs you like them back.
2. They can’t get their hands off of you
En un artículo para Psychology Today, el Dr. Jeremy Nicholson afirma que la gente a la que le gustas románticamente sigue encontrando excusas para tocarte.
Cada vez que ustedes dos se saludan, ellos te abrazan a bit longer than necessary. When they’re passing by you, they put a hand on your waist.
When you two are talking, they grab your hand or they pick lint from your clothes. When they’re making a point, they put their hand on your knee.
The examples are endless, but the point is the same: they can’t seem to get their hands off of you. They crave physical contact with you.
They’re probably doing this unconsciously; it’s just a body language sign of how much they’re into you.
3. Quieren saber más sobre usted
This person doesn’t just like you – it’s apparent that they’re in love with you. They’re interested in every little detail concerning you.
Cuando habláis, se implican de verdad en la conversación. Le preguntan a muchas preguntastratando de averiguar más acerca de su pasado, gustos, y no le gusta.
First of all, they’re interested in your mind and heart, and not just your body. Secondly, they want to see if you two have something in common or not.
4. Los celos son un problema
¿Cómo sabes si le gustas a alguien? Pues.., they’ll get insanely jealous cada vez que mencionas a otro chico o chica delante de ti, y mucho menos cuando te ven con otra persona.
One thing is for sure: they have no right to be jealous. They know this very well, but they can’t help themselves.
The mere thought of you being in a romantic relationship with someone else breaks their heart. Their jealousy is a tell-tale sign that they’re crazy about you.
5. Atención plena
You and your romantic interest can be in the most crowded room in the world. Nevertheless, they’ll have eyes for you only.
You get their undivided attention no matter what’s going on around you.
When they make a joke, they wait for you to laugh. When they state an opinion, they’re looking for your approval.
They listen carefully to everything you have to say. It’s like they’re not breathing when you’re around because they’re afraid they might miss something.
6. Estar nervioso a su alrededor
Someone can have the highest self-esteem ever, but we all get nervous around the person we like. Therefore, if you’re looking for obvious signs someone has a crush on you, pagar mucha atención a la no verbal señales they’re sending you.
Do they blush whenever you’re around? Do they get tongue twisted? Do they start sweating? Does their voice and hands start shaking?
If you can relate to your romantic interest, it’s a common sign he or she le gustas.
7. Elogios
How do you know if someone likes you? They can’t help but te felicito todo el tiempo.
They don’t do it to flatter you – este la persona siente the need to praise you non-stop. Besides, they’re waiting for your reaction to their words.
If this is not one of the most obvious signs of attraction, I don’t know what is.
But, they won’t compliment your looks only; they’ll also tell nice things about your personality, heart, and brains. They’re fascinated by everything you say or do, and that’s a good indication that they’re into you.
8. Te tratan de forma especial
Maybe you two are good friends. Or, you work together. Either way, it’s likely that you’re mostly spending time with other people.
But, somehow, they always make sure to tell the world that you stand out from the rest. You’re special, and they treat you that way.
It’s about the little things: the fact that you’re the first one they greet when entering the room, how they always stand or sit next to you no matter how many people there are, and how they always defend you in front of everyone.
9. Pies apuntando hacia usted
Esto sólo lo saben los expertos en relaciones: when someone is into you, they’ll always stand with their feet pointed towards you. It’s another thing people do without being aware of it, but it’s a strong nonverbal clue of their feelings.
10. Inclinarse
He aquí otra señal del lenguaje corporal que indica que le gustas a alguien, revelada por el doctor Jack Schafer en su artículo para Psychology Today. A saber, if someone likes you, they’ll be leaning in towards you all the time.
They’ll whisper something in your ear or get closer to hear what you have to say.
This is especially true for those who don’t have the courage to engage in actual physical contact.
Hacen todo lo posible por respetar tu espacio personal, pero su necesidad de estar lo más cerca posible de ti es más fuerte que nada.
11. Intentar hacerte reír
¿Cómo saber si le gustas a alguien? La respuesta es muy sencilla: hacen todo lo posible para hacerte sonreír y reír.
Some people mask their fear with humor. They try to hide behind their jokes, and think that it’s the best way to keep their true feelings a secret.
Otros sólo quieren que te sientas bien a su lado. Además, algunos piden validación y creen que la obtienen cuando consiguen hacerte reír.
12. …and laughing at everything you say
Lo mismo ocurre con tus chistes. You can say the cheesiest and the silliest line ever, but they’ll die of laughter.
Do they pretend it’s funny just to please you? Sometimes. But, most times, everything you say really is funny to someone who likes you.
13. Ponerte celoso
You’ll catch this person mentioning another guy or girl in your presence. Don’t worry about it – they’re just trying to get some kind of reaction from you.
Basically, they’re trying to ponerte celoso. If you do get jealous, it’s a confirmation you like them back – as simple as that.
14. Las pequeñas cosas
Esta persona recuerda cada pequeño detalle sobre ti. Sabe cosas aleatorias como el nombre de tu mejor amigo de la infancia o cada detalle sobre tu mascota.
Si lo piensas bien, probablemente te conozcan mejor que tus amigos y familiares más cercanos.
Why is that so? Do they stalk you? Absolutely not – they just pay close attention to everything you’re saying.
15. Volar el teléfono y las redes sociales
When you post an Instagram or Snapchat story, who’s the first one to watch it? Who’s the first one to like and comment on every single photo you put on social media?
Well, that’s probably the person who is into you.
Lo mismo ocurre con tu teléfono. Te siguen enviando buenos días y textos de buenas nochesllamándote para ponernos al día y enviándote mensajes a lo largo del día. Sometimes, you feel like you’re already in a relación romántica.
16. Poner excusas para verte
It’s clear that they don’t have enough self-esteem a pedirte una cita en condiciones. Nevertheless, this doesn’t mean they don’t have the need to spend time with you.
Así que inventan excusas para verte. Suddenly, you’re the only one who can give them some advice, or they want to spend their lunch breaks with you, or they were passing by your apartment.
¿Te suena? Todas estas son buenas señales de que le gustas a una chica o a un chico.
17. Reflejar sus expresiones faciales
Here’s another secret relationship coaches are familiar with: when someone is into you, they’ll mirror your facial expressions. If you’re laughing, they’ll follow your lead. If you’re angry, they’ll put on an angry face as well.
Después de algún tiempo, they’ll adopt a lot of your lenguaje corporal as well. Don’t get me started on your vocabulary!
No, they’re not trying to copy you or steal your personality. It’s just something that all humans do subconsciously.
18. Llamadas de borrachos
The drunk mind speaks the sober heart. Just because this person has no courage to open up about their feelings during the day doesn’t mean they won’t llamada de borrachos en mitad de la noche.
Es el único momento en el que se desahogan y se sinceran sobre sus sentimientos. You probably don’t take it seriously, and think of it as some blabbing, especially because they act as if nothing happened the next morning.
But, trust me – this is a clear sign of their love for you.
19. Interesado en su vida amorosa
¿Estás saliendo con alguien? ¿Estás enamorado? ¿Qué busca en la novia perfecta/¿Novio? ¿Hay alguien especial en tu vida?
These are all questions most of your friends will casually ask you. But, they won’t be nosy about it – they’ll just mention your love life if the topic pops up or if you ask for relationship advice.
However, this person is different – they’re especially curious about your romantic status. They’re obviously terrified that you’ll find someone, and that they’ll lose you.
20. Pupilas dilatadas
He aquí otra señal no verbal de afecto: nuestras pupilas se dilatan cuando miramos a alguien a quien queremos. ¿Cómo sabes que ¿si le gustas a alguien?
Sólo paga mucha atención a sus alumnos – they’ll tell you everything you need to know.
21. You’re included in their future plans
In this person’s mind, you two are already romantically involved. They make short-term and long-term plans that include you.
It doesn’t matter if they’re talking about the upcoming weekend or the next vacation; you’re always there. It’s pretty clear that they can’t picture their life without you around.
22. Otros lo dicen
Everyone thinks of you two as a couple, even though you’re not officially a couple. Your mutual friends tease you for being an “old married couple” and even your family thinks that you’re perfect together.
Entonces, ¿a qué espera exactamente?
¿Cómo saber si le gustas a un chico? 4 pistas
Así es como sabes que le gustas a un chico:
1. Hacerte favores
He will run errands for you and do the favors you didn’t even ask for. He wants you to know you can rely on him. No matter what happens, he’s your person, and you should always count on his help.
Please, don’t take advantage of this man because he truly is one of a kind. If you won’t give him a chance, don’t treat him like your mechanic, pool boy, or gardener.
2. Bromeando contigo
You know how little boys treat little girls they like? Yes, I’m talking about kindergarten or middle school.
Se meten juguetonamente con ellos, se burlan, les tiran suavemente del pelo, les empujan al pasar o les cuentan chistes ligeramente inapropiados. Pues adivina qué: algunos hombres nunca superan esta fase.
Así que.., si un tipo es playfully teasing you and messing with you, one thing is for sure: he likes you so much that he’s asustado de sus sentimientos.
3. Postura corporal alfa
Un chico al que le gustas quiere que pienses en él como el hombre más varonil del mundo. Quiere que pienses en él como un dominante y poderoso hombre alfa.
So, he’ll keep his shoulders wide open, straighten his back to appear taller, and take as much space as he can get. This posture helps with his self-confidence.
4. Instinto de héroe
¿Cómo sabes si un chico está interesado en ti románticamente? Pues.., su bienestar de repente se convierte en su prioridad número uno, y su instinto de héroe despierta.
He gets all protective of you, and he starts taking care of your safety. He sees you as a damsel in distress, and himself as your Prince Charming who needs to rescue you from all the world’s evils.
¿Cómo saber si le gustas a una chica? 4 pistas
This is how women act near the men they’re into.
1. Pone un esfuerzo extra en su apariencia
Les guste admitirlo o no, la mayoría de las chicas obtienen su autoestima de su apariencia. Por lo tanto, un chica a la que le gustas will put extra effort into looking her best whenever she’s around you.
Fíjate en cómo va vestida cuando te la encuentres. Mírala de cerca.
Then, compare that appearance to the way she looks when she knows she’ll spend time with you.
Apuesto a que hay una gran diferencia.
2. Gets shy when you’re around
Even if she’s an Hembra alfa, she’ll lose her coolness in front of a guy she likes. If she’s a girl who stands up against everyone, is always the loudest and the most dominant in the room, but suddenly changes when you’re around, everything is clear.
She becomes all shy and vulnerable when you’re next to her. She is so in love with you that she loses her self-confidence.
3. acicalarse
Esta chica no para de acicalarse. Juega nerviosamente con su pelo, se arregla el cuello de la camisa o comprueba si la chaqueta está bien abotonada.
Esta chica está constantemente worried that she’s not good enough. And, we’ve already established that she wants to look her best every time you’re around.
Al mismo tiempo, carece de confianza en sí misma y constantemente encuentra algo que necesita arreglar.
4. Queda contigo con sus amigas
When a girl likes you, she can’t wait to hear what her friends have to say about it. Don’t worry – ya les ha enseñado todos tus redes sociales perfiles, pero quiere que te conozcan en persona para tener el juicio final.
So, she makes different excuses to get you all together. If they give her the green light, she’ll probably never fall out of love with you.
¿Cómo saber si le gustas a alguien pero lo oculta?
An extra shy person will probably never approach you upfront, but they’ll definitely show you their affection in some maneras sutiles. He aquí los más comunes:
1. Mirar hacia otro lado
¿Recuerdas que hablamos del contacto visual? Bueno, el hecho sobre personas tímidas is that they probably won’t stare directly into your eyes.
Instead, they’ll look away every time you show up. They’re embarrassed to maintain prolonged contacto visualy mucho menos algo más.
2. Hablar incontroladamente o estar callado
When someone is hiding their feelings for you, they’ll either be completely numb when you’re around, or they’ll start talking uncontrollably.
Pase lo que pase, it’s a sign that this la persona siente algo más para ti. Se ponen tan nerviosos cuando te ven que se olvidan de actuar correctamente.
Besides, they panic that you’ll see right through them, so they either get quiet not to say anything wrong or talk too much to change the subject.
3. Siempre a tu lado
¿Conoces a ese buen amigo en la sombra que siempre encuentra la manera de ayudarte sin que tengas que pedírselo? Pues bien, it’s time to reconsider their feelings despite them not displaying any coqueto comportamiento.
Te observan desde una distancia segura. Lo último que quieren es entrometerse en tu vida.
However, they’ll appear the moment you need someone.
4. No hay otras chicas o chicos involucrados
This person is faithful to you, even though you’re not together. They struggle with their emotions, but don’t think of dating other girls or guys. You’re not tratar con un jugador aquí.
You’ll never hear about a random hookup or a casual fling from them. If they can’t have you, they would rather be alone.
5. Tratar de impresionarte
Aprovechan cada oportunidad que tienen para impresionarte y a show you that they’re worthy of your attention. Después de todo, ¿qué otra opción tienen?
They secretly hope that you’ll realize they’re the one without them having to actually do something about it.
Para terminar:
Now that you’ve got the answer to the question, ¿Cómo sabes que ¿si le gustas a alguien?, todo es mucho más fácil.
Si te has dado cuenta de que le gustas a esa persona, acércate a ella por adelantado. Don’t wait for them to make the first move unless you don’t want to spend another eternity waiting.
Por otro lado, si estos buenas señales ayudarle a comprender que no hay atracción mutuaal menos sabes a qué atenerte. Renuncia a ellos y sigue adelante con tu vida.
