Cómo te trata es lo que siente por ti
Guys really aren’t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every mensaje de textocada conversación sin importancia y cada señal no verbal que emiten ha ido demasiado lejos.
It’s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. Once you realize this, you’ll see how simple it really is to read them.
I’ll be the first to admit I’ve made a gazillion excuses every time I didn’t want to accept that he actually did that shitty thing. I would always assure myself he was just in a bad mood and it had nothing to do with me.
And every time he’d hurt me with his words, I’d just assume he had a lousy day at work and he was just airing his frustrations and I was the first person there.
But no. That’s not correct and it’s not okay. We all have shitty days, don’t we? How many times did you come home from a dreadful day at work to a messy house, nothing cooked for dinner and him just lounging on the sofa watching a game?
¿Y qué hiciste tú? En esta situación, tenías todo el derecho a estar realmente cabreada con él, pero apuesto a que te tomaste un respiro, le diste un beso de saludo, te fuiste a la cocina y te pusiste a cocinar.
And then you go and make excuses for HIM? Think about it. It’s so messed up.
They hardly even appreciate all the ‘little’ things we do for them and our family on a daily basis, so the last thing they deserve is that we cut them some slack!
La próxima vez tu hombre puts you through any crap, instead of making an excuse for him, confront him and let him know you’re no longer putting up with that.
And if you’ve just started seeing a guy who doesn’t seem to appreciate anything about you other than your body, believe him! Unless you want to be just his eye candy, go find someone with dignity and respect.
We need to start believing guys when they show us how they feel about us through their actions. As much as you want him to be more than that and believe he’s got potential to get better, it’s highly unlikely he’ll change.
How he treats you is how he feels about you, period! You can’t let a guy walk all over you for days on end and then once he decides to have one good day, you feel like the luckiest girl alive.
The luckiest girl would never put up with that. She’d be with a man who is consistent in his efforts and treated her with respect. She would never need to poner excusas for him because she wouldn’t be with a crappy dude in the first place.
Tienes que empezar a creer que te mereces algo mejor. Como te trates a ti misma es como él te va a tratar. Si ve que aceptas sus esfuerzos a medias...—that’s all you’ll ever get from him!
If he sees he can get away with tons of shit, he’s just going to keep acting like a jerk. See? It’s all up to you to decide how you want to be treated. Raise your standards and if he stays down, leave him there!
Guys need to see that they can’t just pick and choose days when they’ll be on their best behavior and when they’ll be a total jerk. Either you’re suficientemente bueno for your woman or she’s going to show you the door.
Los chicos que respetan a sus chicas y sólo quieren lo mejor para ellas lo demuestran con sus acciones.
Este chico te dará un beso de buenos días cada vez que te levantes y te dará un beso de buenas noches cada noche antes de acostarse. Te ayudará en todo lo que pueda haciendo recados y recogiendo la ropa de la tintorería de vez en cuando.
He won’t be mad you didn’t make dinner because he’ll know you were swamped that day and he’ll run to the kitchen and make your favorite dish.
He won’t be offended if you don’t want to have sex every single night because you’re both grown-ups with a bunch of shit to do and it’s perfectly normal to just want to sleep and rest your mind and soul.
Este es el tipo de hombre que merece tu amor, ¡y realmente existe! No es un privilegio encontrar a alguien así, ¡es tu derecho!
Y una vez que te des cuenta de esto, dejarás de perder el tiempo con gilipollas inmaduros que sólo te complican la vida y centrarás tu atención en todos esos chicos de buen corazón que simplemente te harán la vida un poco mejor y te harán feliz de estar viva.
It’s not a fairy tale and it’s not wishful thinking. They may not be around every single corner but they’re around. And when you find that guy, you’ll see how easy life can actually be with the right person by your side.
So stop making excuses and stop thinking you’re not worthy of that kind of love. You are and you will find it. Maybe not today but when you stop looking for it, that’s when it usually knocks on your door.
Love is supposed to make you feel better and smile harder. Don’t stop until you’ve found exactly that, because it’s going to knock you off your feet!
