Las 6 primeras cosas que los hombres notan en ti

Todos conocemos el procedimiento. Por fin te invita a salir y lo primero que haces es llamar a tu mejor amiga y contarle todos los detalles.

After that, you realize that you’ve got nothing to wear (even though you know it’s a lie). Your hair is all messed up. You have doubts about the color of your nail polish and so on.

I know you’re worried about your appearance, and you want to look the best you can because you really like that guy, and you want everything to be perfect.

And you’re absolutely right about it. But, what if he doesn’t even notice the color of your nails, whether you have washed your hair properly or even if you have matched the colors in your outfit?

Believe me, he doesn’t.

I’ve realized it the hard way. I was in a rush before going on a date with the guy I really, really liked.

I couldn’t even match my socks, let alone the entire outfit because I was freaking out, and I didn’t want him to wait forever in front of my house.

Sólo conseguí lavarme los dientes, peinarme y ponerme mis vaqueros negros favoritos y una camiseta blanca lisa.

Me sentía literalmente como una mierda, pero él me hizo sentir como si fuera la chica más guapa del mundo entero.

Two months later, when I asked him about the first things he noticed about me that night, he explained to me that men’s perception of us is completely different from what we might be thinking.

I realized the first things men notice about you have almost nothing to do with the details that you’re paying attention to.

1. Sonría

Mientras tú te preocupas por el color de tu pintalabios, los hombres sólo se fijarán en tu sonrisa.

When it comes to men, your smile is the most powerful weapon in your possession, but sometimes when we’re preoccupied with other less important things, we simply forget to smile.

Una sonrisa es un signo universal que le dirá a tu hombre you’re happy y cómodo en tu piel.

2. Ojos

No, they’re not interested in the amount of mascara on your eyelashes. They don’t notice any of it.

Pero se darán cuenta de si tus ojos muestran tristeza, pena o felicidad. Tus ojos les dirán si tu sonrisa es genuina y si disfrutas estando con ellos.

There’s no need to worry about anything else except being in the moment and appreciating the moment, and he’ll notice it in your eyes.

3. Si disfrutas de la vida

A excepción de tu sonrisa y tus ojos, se fijarán en tu forma de andar y de hablar.

Todos ellos son indicadores de tu personalidad y de tu satisfacción general con la vida.

They notice if you’re talking with passion and whether you’re interested in what’s happening around you.

Se fijan en si disfrutas de la vida y apreciar las pequeñas cosas que te da la vida.

4. The way you treat people you don’t know

They notice the way you treat others whom you don’t know. Men notice whether you have the same level of respect for everyone (taxi drivers, homeless people, etc.).

If you’re all generous towards waiters and then you behave completely different in front of taxi drivers, he’ll notice it. Men are really case sensitive when it comes to this.

Disfrutan viendo a mujeres que tratan a todo el mundo por igual, porque estas mujeres saben lo que valen y no tienen miedo de mostrar su aprecio a todos los que las rodean, independientemente de su estatus.

5. Cuánto confía en su exterior

Todas sabemos que los hombres son criaturas visuales y, a veces por eso, las mujeres se olvidan de acentuar también su interior. Los hombres se dan cuenta de si te basas únicamente en tu aspecto o tienes mucho más que ofrecer.

If you show your wild side and confidence, they will be intrigued by you, and you’ll undoubtedly capture their hearts.

Preocuparse por el maquillaje se refleja negativamente en tu confianza y acaba con la diversión.

6. ¿Tienes opiniones?

Si eres el tipo de mujer que tiene una opinión sobre todo, y no te limitas a asentir a todo lo que él dice, él se dará cuenta.

If he sees that you have strong opinions regardless of the topic, he’ll see you as his equal, and he’ll respect you.

Men want to be challenged because it’s in their blood. They want you to tell them that they’re wrong, and they’ll do everything in their power to prove you differently.

And they’ll respect you for that because you’re forcing them to think and to become the best versions of themselves.