¿Cuándo echa de menos un hombre a una mujer?

¿Cuándo echa de menos un hombre a una mujer tras una ruptura? ¿Sucede de inmediato o después de un tiempo?

¿Cómo echa de menos un hombre a una mujer? ¿Sienten ellos la misma nostalgia que nosotros cuando las echamos de menos?

It doesn’t matter if you’re trying to get back with your ex or you just want this new guy you met to appreciate you more—you always want to make your man miss you.

You want him to crave your presence when you’re not around and to feel as if he’ll go crazy if you leave him for good.

Quieres ser lo primero en lo que piense al despertarse y lo último que piense cada noche antes de acostarse.

You want to make your man chase you, to make him long for you, and to feel like he can’t imagine living his life without you by his side.

Pero, ¿cómo entrar en la mente de un hombre y lograr todo esto?

How to make a man miss you? Well, all you have to do is follow these 13 easy steps and I assure you’ll get your questions answered.

Before you know it, you’ll have no doubt that te quiere, and you’ll make him obsess over you.

Dale algo que extrañar

Entonces, ¿cuándo echa de menos un hombre a una mujer? La respuesta es muy sencilla: cuando tiene algo que echar de menos.

One of the worst dating tips you’ll ever get is to be a bitch to your man from day one.

This way, you’ll never haz que se enamore de ti, and consequently, you’ll never give him anything to long for.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m not advising you to become a toxic manipulator or to pretend to be something you’re not to get this guy’s affection.

I’m not advising you to give him your best just so you could take it all away from him because that would be mean and unfair.

What I’m trying to tell you is that this guy needs to enjoy your presence in order to feel your absence.

You see, people don’t actually miss other people. They miss how these other people made them feel.

¿Qué echa de menos un hombre de una mujer? Echa de menos las emociones que sentía cuando la tenía a su lado.

Echa de menos el cariño y el amor que ella le daba, la forma en que le escuchaba, la forma en que creía en él y la forma en que le empujaba a seguir adelante.

So, if a guy felt loved and taken care of next to you, it is normal that he will long for everything you’ve been giving him once he loses it.

Ser único e irremplazable

Another crucial step in trying to make a man miss you is showing him that he’ll never find someone like you because you’re one of a kind.

Ten cuidado porque este es el paso clave para intentar recuperar a tu ex: convencerle de que puede pasar la eternidad buscándote en otras mujeres in vain because he’ll never find anyone similar.

Let’s be honest: no real man will crave someone whose beta version can be found right around the corner.

Precisamente por eso tienes que encontrar la manera de entender lo que este hombre quiere y asegurarte de que lo obtiene de ti antes de esperar que empiece a echarte de menos.

Do whatever it takes to make him believe that you’re one of a kind and that he should feel blessed for ever having you in his life.

That you are in no way similar to all those other women he might have and that you’re the best thing that could have ever happened to him.

Si no hay nada más, elige algo que te sirva como firma personal: por ejemplo, llevar siempre la misma fragancia o crear un gesto especial de lenguaje corporal que le recuerde siempre a ti.

Luzca siempre su mejor aspecto

Let’s be honest: men are visual creatures before anything else. Before a hombre de verdad falls for your personality and loving soul, he has to be attracted to you physically—whether you like it or not.

Precisamente por eso, casi todos los consejos sobre citas y relaciones te dirán que te esfuerces por estar siempre lo mejor posible delante de tu pareja.

This way, he’ll keep you in his memory as the attractive and beautiful woman you are, and this is the image that will show up in front of his eyes every time he thinks of you.

It is perfectly natural that you can’t wear your full make up every time you’re with this man, especially if you two spend a lot of time together.

Sin embargo, al menos esfuérzate por estar siempre lo más limpio y ordenado posible.

On the other hand, if you’re trying to get your ex vueltaLa clave es hacer que se arrepienta de haberte perdido cada vez que te vea pasar.

Whenever you expect to see him, wear your best outfit, do your hair and your makeup, so he’ll have something to think about until your next encounter.

If you’re not sure about the way you look, ask your guy friends for advice because they have the mind of a man and will know what might attract your ex.

Terminar primero la comunicación

It doesn’t matter if you talk to your boyfriend on the phone, if you spend your days texting or you mostly talk in person—always be the one who stops responding to his mensajes de textoEl primero en colgar el teléfono y el primero en poner fin a la comunicación.

No, this doesn’t mean that you should ignore him or stop listening to him when he talks to you—just don’t be the one initiating all the conversations.

Don’t always be the one who starts new topics and tries hard to come up with things you can talk about.

En lugar de eso, deja que se esfuerce por mantener viva la comunicación.

Deja que intente mantener tu interés y que sea él quien tenga que pensar en nuevos temas de conversación.

This way, I assure you that he’ll miss you every time you stop talking, and he’ll be eager to hear from you again.

Ser misterioso

Uno de los errores más comunes que cometen muchas mujeres cuando conocen a un chico nuevo es el hecho de servirse en el plato enseguida.

Yes, honesty is great but it doesn’t mean that you have to reveal all of your deepest secrets the first time you see him.

Precisamente por eso, todos los consejos sobre relaciones te dirán que seas un reto para tu hombre.

Deja que explore tu mente y tu alma, y que ansíe conocerte en su totalidad.

Be mysterious in a way that he is never certain about what’s going on in your head.

De manera que nunca puede saber con certeza cuál será la siguiente frase que saldrá de tu boca.

Actuar así no sólo aportará emoción a tu vida amorosa, también dejará a tu hombre ansioso e impaciente esperando tu próximo movimiento, lo que en consecuencia hará que te eche de menos una y otra vez.

This tactic is especially fruitful when you’re trying to get your ex back.

Have in mind that this guy think he knows you and as far as he is concerned, you’re already a defeated battle.

Sin embargo, tienes que demostrarle que se equivoca. Hazle cambiar de opinión y que se pregunte por tu vida y tu nueva personalidad.

Si es necesario, envíale señales contradictorias para que nunca sepa si aún sientes algo por él o no.

Leave him wondering whether you’d go back to him and remain in his mind forever!

Déjale siempre con ganas de más

¿Cómo hacer que un hombre te eche de menos y cómo hacer que un hombre te persiga?

Follow our dating advice and don’t give him everything right away and the first time he asks for it.

And I’m not talking about sex only here. I’m also talking about emotional intimacy, about letting him in all the way.

Recuerda a Scheherezade y la colección de cuentos Las mil y una noches?

¿Recuerdas cómo se niega a contar el final de sus historias al rey para que le perdone la vida?

¿Cómo le deja siempre con ganas de más, lo que hace que se enamore de ella?

Of course, your life is not at stake in your relationship, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t learn from this tale.

If you show a guy there is always something he still hadn’t gotten from you, he won’t darte por sentado, and he’ll be hooked on you.

Dale espacio

La verdad es que la mayoría de los hombres se alejan de una relación aparentemente feliz cuando empiezan a sentirse atrapados en ella.

Just because you two are a couple now, you can’t expect him to disregard his previous life completely.

Besides, the more you force your man into being with you, the more he’ll try to run away.

The clingier you are, the more he’ll want to escape you. Trust me—girls who spend very much time obsessing over a guy are a huge desactivar.

Ser necesitada sólo es contraproducente y ahuyentará a cualquier hombre, así que es algo que debes evitar hacer a toda costa.

Este consejo es especialmente útil cuando quieres recuperar a tu ex. En lugar de estar encima de él y hacer todo lo posible para que se arrastre de nuevo a usted, vaya sin contacto.

Dale suficiente espacio y tiempo para que sienta lo que es no tenerte cerca.

Dale tiempo para que sienta tu ausencia y se arrepienta de haberte dejado marchar.

Consigue una vida propia

 

Another reason why some men pull away is the fact they see they’ve become their girl’s only interest.

Cuando un chico ve que una chica pasa tanto tiempo pensando en él y no tiene otros intereses, empieza a considerarla aburrida y a darla por sentada.

Precisamente por eso tienes que demostrarle a un hombre que tienes una vida propia, con o sin él en ella.

That you have your own friends, interests and hobbies and that you won’t spend your days, waiting around for him to have the decency to make time for you.

Así que, en lugar de pasar mucho tiempo obsesionada con él y controlándole, haz que tu día sea interesante y dedícate a tus propias actividades y cosas que te interesen. 

Spend time with your girl and guy friends, read books, go to the gym… anything to show this guy that he is not the only thing on your mind.

This way, he’ll be worried about fitting into your tight schedule.

He’ll wonder where you are at and what you’ve been up to, instead of it being the other way around.

Show him that you don’t need him

The next step in making a guy miss you is making it clear to him that you don’t need him.

Yes, you’re having (or had) a great time with him and he is (or was) making your life more beautiful, but it doesn’t mean he gives your existence a purpose.

Just because you want to be with him, it doesn’t mean you couldn’t make it as a single woman.

Just because you choose him, it doesn’t mean you need him. It doesn’t mean that your world would stop spinning if he walks away from it or that you would die without his presence.

Leer algo así al principio puede sonar duro, pero es crucial que todo hombre lo sepa desde el principio.

This way, he’ll know he’s not God given and that you won’t put up with his bullshit just because you (still) have feelings for him.

One of the clear signs that you don’t need your ex back is the fact that you are able to live without him.

Don’t get me wrong—nobody is forcing you to jump in a new relationship just to get even with him but what you have to do is show him is that he is replaceable.

Even if you don’t feel that you’re ready to move on, convince him that this is the case.

Make him think that you’re over him, and he’ll start missing you in no time.

Don’t be too available

Nos guste admitirlo o no, la mayoría de los hombres son bestias que disfrutan cazando. Disfrutan persiguiéndote y compitiendo por tu atención.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m not saying that you should go and sleep around with every guy on your way just to make this special one jealous because that is the last thing you should be doing.

Sin embargo, mire las cosas desde su propia perspectiva: ¿cómo puede echar de menos a alguien que sabe que correrá hacia usted cada vez que se lo pida? ¿Alguien que sólo está a una llamada de distancia?

How can you miss someone you can have at all times—whenever, however, and wherever you feel like it?

Well, it’s the same with guys who see women who are always available as a huge turn off.

Así que en lugar de enviarle mensajes de texto todo el tiempo, en lugar de coger el teléfono al primer sonido de llamada, y en lugar de convertirte en una persona complaciente que está de acuerdo con todo lo que tiene que decir, dale la vuelta a la tortilla.

Make him adjust to you, and make him realize you won’t be there for him, no matter what he does.

Every once in a while, make him wait for your text messages or tell him you’re busy and that you can’t see him tonight.

(Don’t stand him up at the last minute because that would be mean. Always cancel plans in time)

Don’t be too predictable

The truth is that most men like excitement, and challenge and predictability doesn’t go hand in hand with that.

You won’t be interesting to your man and he won’t miss you if he knows what to expect from you at all times.

He doesn’t have to know how you spend time every single day or all the details about your routines.

En lugar de eso, sorpréndele de vez en cuando y escapa de tu zona de confort.

Trust me—he’ll never know what will come next, and he’ll always be impatient about what awaits him in the future.

Hazle trabajar por tu afecto

One of the most important things you simply need to show every guy that enters your life is that you’re ready to put the la misma cantidad de esfuerzo en su relación como él.

You won’t be the only one trying and the only one fighting. Instead, a man has to work for your love and affection.

He has to show you that everything you’re doing for him is worth it and that you’re not giving him your entire self in vain.

When it comes to your ex, you have to prove to him that he won’t have you back as easily as he thinks.

This way, he’ll never again think of taking you for granted and he’ll always be afraid of losing you once more.

Utiliza tus redes sociales en tu beneficio

En las citas modernas, una de las señales claras de que te quiere es que siga todos tus movimientos en las redes sociales.

However, if you’re trying to get your ex back and if you want him to miss you, you need to cut back on using them, as well.

En lugar de informar al público sobre tu vida amorosa, sigue nuestro consejos sobre citas and be mysterious about what you’ve been up to.

En lugar de publicar selfies a diario y mantenerle al día de todo lo nuevo que ocurre en tu vida, haz que se pregunte dónde y con quién pasas el tiempo.

This way, you’ll be constantly on his mind, whether he wants it or not.

It’s simple. He won’t be able to help himself but to think about you all the time and wonder what’s going on in your life.