Es hora de que te reconozcas a ti mismo que mereces algo mejor

It’s time. You waited long enough for him to change, for things to progress, for better days, for more love, for more respect, for more affection, for more of everything you have been unconditionally giving to him. It’s time you admit to yourself you deserve better.

I know your heart doesn’t want to suelta. Sigues aferrándote a la esperanza de que las cosas mejorarán. Que tu amor lo cambiará.

That he will finally open his eyes and see you for the precious treasure you are. But if he hasn’t so far, chances are he never will.

Quieres cosas sencillas y normales. Quieres a alguien que esté ahí para ti.

Quieres que te traten con respeto. Quieres un hombre que te trate como si fueras la única y más bella mujer de la Tierra.

Quieres a alguien que corresponda a tus esfuerzos. Quieres a alguien que sea capaz de amarte tanto como tú a él.

Pero, a cambio, sigues recibiendo la mitad de su corazón, la mitad de su amor, esfuerzos a medias e inversiones a medias.

For all of you, you are getting just half of him and it isn’t enough. It’s not nearly enough. You deserve so much better.

Sé que estás cansada de todo. Estás cansado de ser infeliz todo el tiempo, a veces incluso sin una razón porque simplemente te dio demasiadas razones en el pasado.

A veces estás emocionalmente agotado e incluso entumecido por todo el dolor. Pero la principal razón de tu infelicidad es que en el fondo sabes que estás asentamiento for someone who doesn’t deserve you.

You don’t trust him anymore. He betrayed your trust so many times that even when things are going great, you are unable to relax and enjoy the moment.

You are full of doubts and you can’t shake off that feeling of fear that he will hurt your feelings one more time.

You keep begging him for more time. You are not unreasonable and you know that both of you have to have time for other important people in your life. Yet he doesn’t give you nearly enough time.

He would much rather spend all his time with his friends or do ‘whatever’ than spend it with you. Yet every time you start letting go, he is there and he doesn’t allow you to go.

He should always give you his attention—not only when he is too afraid of losing you. You shouldn’t beg him for more of his time.

Debería estar deseando verte siempre que tengáis ocasión. Deberías ser su prioridad y no tener que esperar a que se acuerde de que existes.

You should have mutual trust so strong that nothing can jeopardize it. If he has already lost your trust, the odds are he can’t completely get it back.

Don’t spend your life in fear of his new betrayal. The worst thing about betrayal is that it hurts more the second time around, so stop giving him new chances to hurt you.

You shouldn’t feel tired from your relationship. If you have mutual love, you should feel inspired and energetic in such a way that you feel as if so you can conquer the world.

You should feel happy most of the time. I am not saying all the time because life isn’t all peachy. Life happens—you fight you work it out. But you should never feel like your partner is the sole cause of your misery.

Don’t settle for less than somebody who will love you in such a way that his main meta será hacerte feliz.

Don’t settle for half of anything.

Busca a alguien que pueda dártelo todo. Busca a alguien que te trate con el respeto que te mereces.

Don’t let one-sided love keep you attached to someone unworthy of you.

WBusca a alguien que te quiera como si no hubiera un mañana.

Wait for someone you will love more than you ever thought possible. And believe me, that’s not the one you are with now.