Nunca le ruegues a un hombre estas 10 cosas que te mereces
¿Se ha dado cuenta de que vivimos en un mundo de papeles invertidos?
Los hombres son cada vez más pasivos, sólo les interesa hacerse los duros, mientras que las mujeres somos las que nos esforzamos por mantener viva la chispa.
Las mujeres se han convertido en perseguidoras, iniciadoras, fijadoras y amantes, todo en uno.
We women often go out of our ways to meet selfish men’s needs without even questioning it.
We do it because we’re too compassionate and too sensitive to other people’s pain and distress.
And that is when we discover that we’ve gone too far in the journey of neglecting ourselves, our own needs and desires.
That’s when we realize that we should receive the same treatment in return without begging or asking for the things that we sure as hell deserve.
We’ve forgotten that we’re the one who should be pursued and not the other way around.
We’ve turned a blind eye to the fact that it’s neither normal nor ladylike to beg a man for something that should be a norm.
We’ve forsaken appreciation and respect for ourselves by tolerating other people’s shitty behaviors.
En ese sentido, hazte un favor y nunca le pidas a un hombre estas 10 cosas que seguro que te mereces:
Respetar
Lo primero y más importante: ¡Nunca, nunca le ruegues a un hombre que te trate con respeto! ¿Por qué?
Because by tolerating his shitty behavior, you’re letting him know that you’re okay with him no tratarte bien and appearing only when it’s convenient.
Mereces que te respeten por lo que eres y tu opinión importa.
Mereces que te traten como tratas a los demás.
Textos reflexivos
If he’s not capable of constructing two to three meaningful sentences, you should never even reply to his texts.
If he’s not capable of remembering to send you good morning and textos de buenas noches, then you know he’s not worth a second of your time, let alone you begging for him to change.
Cortesía de
Un hombre de verdad presta atención a los detalles y se esfuerza por alabar todos esos pequeños y grandes cambios en su mujer.
Un hombre de verdad hace un cumplido significativo y conmovedor porque sabe lo mucho que significa para la mujer que ama.
That’s why you should never beg for a man to do such a thing.
If he’s not interested in being your biggest support and a part of your life, you’re better off without him anyway.
Convertirte en su prioridad
You should never let yourself be in a situation where you’ve given all of your body and soul for a man who still has no decency to choose you and make you his priority.
Y nunca debes suplicar que un hombre así cambie o empiece a tratarte como te mereces.
If he’s not ready to make you his priority and show you how much you mean to him, it means he’s not ready to be with you.
Y tú tienes cosas más importantes que hacer en la vida que tratar con chicos inmaduros que aún tienen que madurar.
Sacar a su ex de su vida
If he has chosen you and is doing his best to prove to you that he’s still not willing to let go of his past and cut his ex out of his life, you know you deserve better.
You know you shouldn’t wait a second more in letting him disrespect you and make you feel less worthy, because you didn’t sign up for any of it.
Ser fiel
Para un hombre que se preocupa de verdad por tus sentimientos, mantener la fidelidad nunca será cuestionable.
Ser fiel será algo natural para un hombre que te ama con todo su ser.
Fidelity has become an expensive gift in today’s modern world and you should never expect such a gift from cheap people.
To be more exact, you should never beg cheap people to give you something so valuable because they’re simply not capable of doing so.
Atención
Cuando vuelves a casa del trabajo, o sucede algo terrible, nunca deberías tener que suplicar a un hombre que te escuche si él mismo no está interesado en hacerlo.
He should be eager to pay close attention to you when you’re upset, excited, sad, and happy. And if he’s not, then you know he’s a lost cause to you.
Honestidad
Al igual que la fidelidad, la honestidad es otro regalo caro que nunca debes esperar de la gente barata.
Nunca esperes que un hombre egoísta, egocéntrico y tóxico por naturaleza sea sincero contigo.
Never make excuses for such a man, because if he really cared about you, he’d make damn sure to show it to you.
Véase también: No más palabras dulces y promesas vacías - Quiero honestidad y esfuerzo
Fechas de planificación
“It takes two to tango.” “It takes two to fight for a relationship.” Planning dates and keeping things exciting is not something only you should be worried about.
If he’s not even trying to arrange a romantic date and take you somewhere nice, then the only thing you should worry about is leaving him ASAP.
Esfuerzo
Real men don’t make excuses because they’re too busy with making efforts instead.
Sólo los hombres de verdad saben que hacer que una mujer se sienta especial con pequeños gestos románticos y palabras dulces vale un millón.
And if he’s not ready to lift a finger to make you feel respected, appreciated, loved, and secure –without you telling him to do so – then you know he doesn’t deserve anything from you.
Véase también: No te enamores de él a menos que te trate exactamente así
