Esta es la razón por la que los empáticos son los mejores amigos
“Friendship… is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.” – Muhammed Ali
Google dice que un empático es una persona con la capacidad paranormal de percibir el estado mental o emocional de otro individuo.
We’ve been looking for superheroes in Marvel’s movies, and we’ve imagined so many times how cool would it be to have a friend like that when we, in reality, had even better ones—we were just too oblivious to notice.
Los empáticos saben cosas
That’s the catch; you don’t really need to tell them anything. Just by looking at you, they can say if something is wrong.
No mask you wear is good enough to hide the truth from them. It is something beyond intuition, that’s why we call it a paranormal ability.
Rara vez se equivocan y cuanto más en sintonía están con la gente, más fuerte es el don que tienen.
And they have the ability to feel other’s emotions and take them as their own
In fact, this should be written in present continuous because it’s the thing they do 24/7—literally all the time. It ’s just something they can’t shut down.
Maybe they don’t even want to. Whatever it is that you are feeling, they feel it, too. Maybe this is one of the reasons people enjoy being around empáticos.
Because empaths don’t ask stupid questions and don’t push you too hard, they know what to say and when.
Saben cuándo darte espacio y cuándo es el momento adecuado para inmiscuirse en tu espacio personal.
Las tragedias y la violencia en el mundo son cosas insoportables para ellos. Sienten cada tragedia y desprecian la violencia.
Se esfuerzan por hacer del mundo un hogar cálido para todos y cada uno de los seres humanos y, si pudieran, cargarían con todo el sufrimiento de este mundo.
Sienten el dolor de los que están lejos. Imagínate cómo les afecta el dolor de las personas más cercanas.
When they tell you not to welcome somebody in your life, don’t welcome que alguien en tu vida
No matter if you just met a new girl or a guy and you want to go out with her and have fun, you want to spend time with her and share some of your secrets, or if you’ve met somebody you’ve been thinking of dating.
If an empath tells you not to invite them into your personal space, listen to them—it’s not jealousy that’s speaking, it’s their intuition.
Because they know when somebody is dishonest. In most situations, they can recognize someone’s intentions and that’s why they are warning you. They are trying to spare you the pain.
A veces puede parecer que quieren ser amigos de todo el mundo
They are always looking for the next ‘victim’. People who are suffering or being bullied often draw the attention of the empaths and they rush to save them.
El inconveniente es que a menudo acaban siendo un vertedero. Incluso los desconocidos descargan sus problemas en los empáticos y, a veces, puede resultar demasiado abrumador.
A menudo se agotan alrededor de gente falsa
Sienten una fatiga constante y se quedan sin energía por vampiros de energía.
They’re empathizing just way too much and what drains them the most are those people who take advantage of them.
Not every single person is a healer in this world and that’s OK. Lo que apesta aquí es el hecho de que la gente a menudo se cree con derecho a utilizar a la gente buena de este mundo.
No toleran el narcisismo y tienden a evitar a las personas demasiado egoístas.
That’s why empaths have a great need for solitude. They just go crazy without ‘me’ time. They have no trouble lying in their beds and daydreaming for hours.
A veces, crean una palabra ilusoria para sí mismos y viven en ella por un momento. Crean el lugar donde no hay lugar y se aferran a él, sólo por un segundo.
It’s their way to recharge and be capable of devoting themselves to the world.
It’s futile to make them do things they don’t enjoy. If they don’t enjoy it, don’t push them.
They might go just to make you feel good, but why would you do those things to the person that’d never put themselves before you?
They need to know ‘why’. They need to know what good that will do them and if it’s just ‘because’, they don’t see the bigger picture.
Because you’ll only make party poopers out of them.
Son espíritus libres
That’s why they don’t enjoy ordinary things as most people do.
Son siempre dispuesto a la aventura, ellos ama la libertad, y ellos disfruta viajando. It’s something that fulfills them and in those things, they find fun.
Puede que sean el mejor tipo de personas con las que hacer viajes por carretera, y si decides ir con ellos, prepárate para el mejor viaje de tu vida.
Como son extremadamente creativos, cantar, bailar, actuar o su vívida imaginación a veces es más que suficiente.
In fact, they’ll do anything that’ll make people around them feel better. They are the kind of people who are always up for spontaneous things that make people happy and they won’t ever be the ones to think twice when a bien llega la oportunidad de divertirse.
Son excelentes oyentes
No son el tipo de personas que escuchan tus problemas sólo para tener espacio para hablar de los suyos. No, escuchan e intentan ponerse en tu lugar.
Comprenden de verdad e intentan llegar a la mejor solución, o mejor aún, hacen que, junto con ellos, des una conclusión final a todo lo que te ha pasado.
Porque luchan por la verdad (no matter how painful it sometimes gets), they’ll alway choose to slap you with the truth rather than to comfort you with lies.
But they’ll be there to hold your hand and they’ll never leave you alone till you pull yourself up.
The catch is that God gave them this gift because He knew they won’t misuse it. He knew they’ll be the guardian angels of their friends down on Earth just like those that are awaiting you in Heaven.
Who wouldn’t like to walk through life with their guardian angel by their side?
Por eso los empáticos son los mejores amigos.
