En 2025, Ámate a ti mismo

Este es el año en que por fin ponerme a mí primero.

This is the year when I’m going to be selfish. I’m going to act the way I like because that is what makes me happy.20

If I want to, I’m going to go for a cup of coffee all by myself, I’m going to read something and not look up because I don’t want anybody disturbing me.

I’m going to do it because it makes me happy. I’m not going to feel bad for not saying hola to someone I don’t want to.

If I want to, I’m going to spend a night awake only to see the beautiful sunrise in the morning. I won’t give a damn if others think that’s crazy or weird.

Mirar la puesta de sol significa mucho para mí. Me tranquiliza, me hace pensar en mi vida y en lo que quiero hacer con ella.

Es una de las cosas que me hacen feliz y he decidido que este es el año de hacer realidad todas las cosas que quiero.

I’m going to ignore my ex’s call like he blew off mine when I was interested in him. He didn’t have the time to talk to me then. Well, I don’t have the time to talk to him now.

I solemnly swear I’m done putting everybody else’s needs before my own because I’m done breaking my own heart. I just want to be happy.

This year it’s time for me to give all the love I’ve got to myself.

I’m going to be more organized. I want to spend every second of my life the way I deserve it.

I want to make every minute count. I don’t want anything to go to waste. I don’t want my life to go to waste.

I’m going to drink crazy amounts of coffee and eat the food I want to eat. I’m not going to watch myself and restrain myself.

I’m going to do everything that makes me happy because life is too short not to.

I know that destiny has its plan for me and I can’t do anything to change it, which is why I might as well disfrutar de mi vida mientras dure.

In 2025, I’m going to finally leave my past behind.

I’m not going to dwell on my past actions. I’m not going to spend nights in tears wondering where I went wrong.

Quiero centrarme en lo que me espera. Quiero centrarme en este nuevo año que me abrirá todas las puertas.

I will use this year to bury my past and focus on my future—a future in which I will start appreciating myself.

En 2025, todo el mundo tendrá una nueva oportunidad.

Es mi momento de empezar de nuevo. Es mi momento de darme una nueva oportunidad de vivir mi vida como quiero.

I’m finally ready to forgive myself and move on to new, exciting things that are waiting for me.

En 2025, dejaré de romperme el corazón.

I will look back on the previous year and all the heartbreaks I’ve had. I will forgive myself for feeling lost and losing things that were important to me.

Me daré otra oportunidad para volver a amar.

Olvidaré el dolor y abriré mi corazón y mi mente a algo nuevo y, lo que es más importante, a algo que me haga feliz.

This year I’m finally aware that I deserve everything I can think of. This year I’m finally aware that I’m responsible for making my own destiny.

This year I decided I won’t be scared anymore. This year I’m the one who matters.

In 2025, I’m going to love myself.

Me di cuenta de que hasta ahora me preocupaba por los demás. Me desviví por personas que me dieron la espalda cuando las necesitaba.

Me destrozaba porque quería complacer a todos los demás, lo que me hacía infeliz y a ninguna de esas personas le importaba.

They were being selfish and they were happy—unlike me.

The only thing that I learned is that it’s every woman for herself. I learned that happiness comes from within.

I learned that if you are not satisfied with yourself, you won’t be happy. I learned that if you don’t love yourself, you won’t be able to love anybody.

This year I’m going to love myself so I can love everyone else.