Es hora de que le veas como realmente es

Ha cambiado. No es el mismo hombre del que te enamoraste y no eres tú misma por ello.

Antes estabas llena de vida, radiante y sonriente, y ahora sólo te aferras a los recuerdos de lo feliz que eras, de lo feliz que eras gracias a él.

Ahora estás cansada. Estás agotada de tu relación con él, de pensar, esperar, invertir, llorar, perdonar y esperar algo que haga que todo vuelva a estar bien.

You are tired, but you are still putting up a fight because you can’t imagine giving up on love.

What you don’t see is that it wouldn’t be giving up on love. It would be letting go of something that’s not right for you, of something not meant for you.

He is not what you deserve. He is far from it. He doesn’t see all your efforts.

He doesn’t see that candlelight dinner you made because something came up and he couldn’t come. He doesn’t respond to that sweet goodnight text you sent him.

He ignores any attempt at you having a heart-to-heart conversation. He is there and he isn’t there at the same time.

He doesn’t ask about the things that make you feel down and upset. He doesn’t feel happy when something good happens to you.

He doesn’t even remember to ask how your day, went let alone anything else. You feel like you don’t exist and like your feelings don’t matter to him, and it’s tearing you apart.

Lo único que le importa es él mismo y que se satisfagan sus necesidades. Todo lo que dices o haces lo da por sentado como si tuviera derecho a todo lo que recibe de ti.

He doesn’t see the need to reciprocate because he is not missing anything.

He has your full attention at all times. You listen to everything he has to say even if it’s not something that you find interesting.

It’s important to him and that makes it important to you, too. You make sure he knows he has your support.

Devuelves su frialdad con calidez y dulzura. Abrazas sus distancias. Haces todo lo posible por demostrarle lo mucho que significa y él, como siempre, no hace absolutamente nada.

Abre los ojos y mira el egoísta él. El que espera que estés a su entera disposición cada vez que le apetece y le parece conveniente.

El que sólo toma sin dar nada a cambio. El que nunca te valorará ni apreciará.

Trust that little voice inside of you screaming that he can’t be trusted. Que sus besos son fríos. Que sus abrazos no son tan apretados como solían ser.

That he doesn’t show affection in the way that he used to. That his mind is elsewhere when he is with you.

A woman always knows, you know, when something is off. It’s just a matter of time until you’ll be ready to face the truth.

Remove that blindfold and see that he doesn’t love you in the way you deserve to be loved. It’s preventing you from loving yourself.

He is building up your insecurities. He is making you question whether you are the real reason things aren’t working out.

Te está haciendo creer que eres difícil de amar cuando debería estar dando gracias al cielo por tu amor.

Deja de aferrarte a ese comienzo mágico que ustedes dos tuvieron. Era el hombre de tus sueños. Tu felicidad significaba el mundo para él.

His texts were never late. His free time was all yours. You had his full attention. Unfortunately, that’s not the man you have standing before you now. He changed or he showed his real face.

Deja de avanzar rápido hacia ese lugar en el futuro en el que los dos sois felices. Donde estará listo para dar el siguiente paso.

Donde dejará de tratarte mal. Donde aflorará toda la bondad que ves en él. Donde te amará como debes ser amada.

Míralo como realmente es y no como tú quieres que sea. Mira tu fuerza y aléjate de él.

Don’t be scared to walk alone into the unknown when what you do know is failing you in every aspect.

Don’t stay because things won’t change for the better. They will only get worse.

Don’t stay where you feel unloved, unnoticed, betrayed and underappreciated. Be brave! Be your own hero! Love yourself! Make yourself happy!