¿Está Flirteando Conmigo? Estas son las 15 señales de que lo está haciendo
"¿Está flirteando conmigo o no?" "¿Se siente atraído de verdad o sólo está siendo amable?"
Now, raise your hand if you’ve ever asked yourself these two questions above (and I thought so).
Lucky you, you’re definitely not alone on this one!
Flirting is, without a doubt, a real art in itself and when someone flirts with you, you can’t help yourself but feel amazing and really special.
Flirting makes you instantly feel ten times more attractive; it can also be a lot of fun! (And it would be really suspicious if there weren’t any negative sides to it as well.)
El mayor problema es que es realmente difícil saber si está flirteando contigo o simplemente está siendo amable contigo.
To some guys, flirting comes naturally, so it’s really hard to decipher when they are doing it because they are really atraído por ti o para otros fines.
There are also guys who are really bad at it, yet still don’t give up on trying to acknowledge their “flirting attempts.”
En definitiva, lo más importante es mantener la calma y no darle demasiadas vueltas.
If you do, you might just ruin all the fun and their chances of winning you (and you definitely don’t want that.)
And that’s why I’m here today to help you understand it better and guide you through the biggest flirting signs that men exhibit when they are genuinely attracted to you!
So, the next time you find yourself wondering, “Is he flirting with me or not?” consider the following top 15 signs that he definitely is!
¿ESTÁ FLIRTEANDO CONMIGO? ¡AQUÍ ESTÁN LAS 15 SEÑALES DE QUE LO ESTÁ HACIENDO!
He’s always happy to see you
One of the biggest signs that he’s definitely flirting with you is if he seems always happy when he’s around you.
Verás, nadie es feliz 24/7 y nadie puede fingir un asombro constante cuando ve a alguien si no se siente realmente atraído por esa persona.
So, if you notice that his facial expression is blank when talking to others, but when he’s with you, he instantly turns into the embodiment of happiness, know that he’s doing it subconsciously and because he can’t help himself going crazy in your presence.
Te toca juguetonamente
When he’s sitting next to you, he subtly touches your knees or legs. When he’s getting up, he ‘accidentally’ brushes his body across yours.
He playfully taps your feet with his, or when he’s laughing, he play-punches you to let you know how much he enjoys pasar tiempo contigo.
Verá, cuando un el tipo está realmente interesado en ti, he simply can’t help but to constantly try to be close to you.
Y por eso siempre buscará excusas para tocarte juguetonamente cuando menos te lo esperes.
(So, next time you’re next to him, make sure to pay attention whether he does any of the things above.)
Te mira profundamente a los ojos
When he’s talking to you or when you’re talking, he always looks deeply into your eyes to the extent of almost making you feel uncomfortable.
But, believe me, there’s no need for that because if a guy looks deeply into your eyes, it means he’s appreciating you inside out.
He’s imagining how it would feel to kiss you, to embrace you and to make love to you.
Se pierde en tus ojos porque eres su refugio seguro; eres el único lugar en el que quiere estar en ese momento. Y quiere quedarse ahí para siempre.
Te felicita de forma considerada
Cuando se trata de cumplidos, siempre son un poco confusos.
By complimenting someone, we are letting them know that we like what we see and that is why sometimes it’s hard to differentiate whether this is linked with being attracted to you or just being nice.
Now, the biggest difference between the two is the way he compliments you. Let’s say that he compliments your T-shirt.
Si él dice, “I love your T-shirt,” it probably means that he’s just being nice.
Pero, si él dice, “I love the way your T-shirt accentuates your (green) eyes,” he’s paying you a thoughtful compliment because he’s crazy about you.
Se esfuerza por hacerte reír
Does he turn into a comedian when in your company? If yes, you can be sure that he’s flirting with you!
Cuando los chicos se quedan prendados de una chica, tienen tendencia a utilizar el humor como herramienta para atraerte.
Piensan que si te hacen reír constantemente, significa que están haciendo algo bien y que si te ríes, significa que son capaces de hacerte feliz, que, al fin y al cabo, es su objetivo final.
So, if he tries hard to make you laugh every time you’re with him, it means he’s trying hard to seduce you.
Se agita a tu alrededor
Es incapaz de mantener la calma y estar relajado cuando habla con usted.
He fidgets like he’s on a Ferris wheel and sometimes you ask yourself whether something’s wrong with him or if you’ve said something wrong.
Don’t worry, everything’s perfectly fine with him, except for the fact that he’s unable to be relaxed because he’s too overwhelmed by your presence and the pressure to win you.
Y esto no tiene nada que ver con la confianza, porque incluso los tipos más seguros de sí mismos lo hacen cuando están profundamente atraído por alguien.
He texts you things like “hey there” or “what’s up”
When he texts you, he texts you things like “hey there” or “what’s up,” which are meant to expand your conversation.
It means he’s really interested in what you are doing at the moment and perhaps he’s thinking of proposing to go for a drink or something.
Another sign is that he never texts you these things in a “booty call” time because he’s not that type of a guy (if you know what I mean).
Instead, he’s attracted to you on a deeper level than just physical and his actions are definitely showing it.
Tiene una forma especial de abrazarte
Hay múltiples tipos de abrazos, pero para un chico que está flirteando contigo, sólo hay uno.
Tiene una forma especial de abrazarte y es más o menos así.
Cuando te abraza, te sujeta durante dos o tres segundos más (de lo que se considera apropiado) y en un momento te aprieta apenas contra su cuerpo y luego te suelta.
He’s doing it because he wants to feel all of you; he wants to feel your soul and your body as well.
He is dying to be one with you and deep down in his heart he is hoping that you’ll notice it all by the way he hugs you.
Memoriza todo lo que dices
He recalls every single thing you ever said to him and when you’re talking about something, he mentions it and you immediately think to yourself how in the hell did he remember it.
Bueno, lo hizo porque obviamente está loco por ti y probablemente tiene toneladas de mapas en su cerebro que están todos vinculados a ti.
If he memorizes everything you say, it means he’s actually listening to your every word and connecting dots about your personality (while you’re probably none the wiser).
Su sonrisa cambia
Cuando sonríe a los demás, su sonrisa es meramente cortés, pero cuando se dirige a usted, su sonrisa cambia al instante.
It’s because his affection for you is giving him power to light up every room with just one smile of his.
It’s like he’s giving you reassurance that you’re the one for him, that he’s waited so long for you to come, and that whenever he sees you, you make his day without even trying.
Su sonrisa es su forma de decir que eres especial y está feliz de estar cerca de ti.
Le pillas mirándote fijamente
When guys are smitten by someone, they can’t help but stare at them.
So, if you frequently catch him staring at you and when you look at him, he doesn’t even try to pretend that he was looking somewhere else, it means he is letting you know that he is flirting with you and that he hopes you will reciprocate.
Sin embargo, los tímidos lo hacen de forma diferente.
If a shy guy is staring at you and you catch him doing it, he will try to fool you that he was not looking at you by looking somewhere else because he’s not that comfortable or not yet ready to let you know that he likes you and is trying to flirt with you.
He’s way too excited about things you have in common
Cuando le dices que te encanta ese libro en concreto, al instante estalla de asombro porque a él también le encanta.
He’s evidently way too excited about all the things you have in common because this is guys’ way to show you that they are interested in you and they want to keep the conversation going.
If he does this, it means he’s excited about you and all the things you like and do.
By exaggerating his excitement about having things in common, he’s trying to let you know that you two are compatible and he’s interested in hearing more of what you have to share with him.
Siempre intenta protegerte y anticiparse a tus necesidades
Siempre que necesitas ayuda con algo, aparece como Superman en cuestión de segundos. Te protege del frío dándote toda su ropa.
He always makes sure that you’re comfortable and happy wherever you are with him and that nothing bad happens to you.
He treats you like a lady because he feels that it’s his job to do so.
He can’t help but be at your service 24/7 because it’s his way of telling you that you’ve successfully captured his body and heart, that he wants to take care of you and make you happy.
Señales del lenguaje corporal
Siempre que te preguntes, “Is he flirting with me or not?” Acuérdate también de prestar atención a su lenguaje corporal.
Sabrás que está flirteando contigo si se inclina hacia ti mientras te habla, si dirige sus pies y su cuerpo hacia ti, establece contacto visual, levanta las cejas y te sonríe.
También hay muchas otras señales, pero éstas son las más importantes y las más frecuentes.
Also, another major sign that he’s flirting with you is if he starts fussing with his clothes.
He will do that because he’s trying to look nice for you and he wants to impress you.
Se esfuerza por impresionarte
Otra forma de ligar (cuando se trata de chicos) es esforzarse por impresionarte.
Mientras lo hace, intentará utilizar todos los aspectos de su vida y todo lo que se le ocurra que merezca la pena mencionarte.
Por ejemplo, presumirá de su nuevo trabajo, de su nuevo coche, de sus logros. Se esforzará por hacerte reír.
Le hablará de su nueva e impresionante afición.
Se esforzará en impresionarte para captar tu atención y redirigir tus pensamientos hacia sus cualidades.
También es importante mencionar que no todos los chicos expresarán todas las señales anteriores cuando coqueteen contigo. Diferentes personalidades tienen diferentes estilos cuando se trata de esto.
So, if you notice that he’s exhibiting some of the above signs on the list (or all of them), you can be sure that he is flirting with you and that he is genuinely attracted to you!
